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I am thrilled to take part in the Lively Lila blog tour. And to introduce you to such a special book. Today, I will be talking about this amazing children’s book.
Embrace Lila’s unique sparkle as she twirls through life’s ups and downs with ADHD, showing us all how to love who we truly are. And my blog and social media accounts align completely with this message.
Because this issue impacts our family, I feel a huge burden to ensure my little one can always be her true self. What worries me is that as she moves through school and into adult life, there will be messages given to her which contradict our message as parents – to always be yourself.
My plan is to do everything in my power to ensure she can always be her true self.
Sam – Mummy Conquering Anxiety
Backstory – why we love books in our house
It was only right to create a book review page on my blog. Since I was a young girl, I’ve loved books, and writing. I even did an English & Media degree at University. My little one has firmly followed in my footsteps and we read a range of books with her. I talk about this more on my TikTok account. Check out the videos below and give me a follow.
If you want your book to be reviewed, I would love to hear from you – contact me here.
Ultimately, we could all do with a little dose of seeing everyone’s wonderful and unique differences through the eyes of a child. If we did this, we would embrace everyone’s uniqueness and experience more joy in life. Kindness and a world without judgment would prevail.
Sam – Mummy Conquering Anxiety
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Let’s dive into the review
First reading
I first read this book with my little girl – when we were tucked up in bed. She loves reading a book to settle her down at night.
ADHD is something which impacts our family. And therefore, it’s a subject we openly discuss with our child. Explaining to her that sometimes people think differently, due to how their brains operate and that is okay.
We also incorporate gentle parenting into our parenting style. As such, we explain that people in her class can react differently due to their upbringing or emotions. And that people don’t always mean what they say. They cannot control how they behave and apologising is the way forward. We regularly apologise to my little one, if it’s needed. The message is that we are all human and nobody is perfect.
We want her to embrace everyone’s differences and uniqueness.
How to discuss the topic of ADHD with children
Because this is a topic close to our hearts, I follow the discussion on social media and in the news. I’m aware that a lot of adults don’t want ADHD or autism to be referred to as superpowers, but I think we need to consider the intended audience. And how we broach this subject with younger people.
What I love, is that the book talks about Lila’s wonderful personality traits. But also the things in life she struggles with. Because of what I’ve read on social media, I will admit that the reference to a superpower in the book caused me to question whether we should be saying this or not.
But you know what, although it felt difficult for me to read those words, it opened up a positive conversation with my little one, about the topic of ADHD. She asked if she had it and commented on some of the things she does, like remembering everything – even things from a really long time ago. it’s true. She almost has a photographic memory; we’ve noticed it since she was little. Amongst other personality traits which have led me to have these open discussions with her.
Tools for opening up conversations with children
I think we need to ask why as adults, we have these beliefs ingrained in us. Surely the issue is as simple as seeing someone for who they are and respecting everyone’s differences. It’s society and the constructs we have in place, which make it difficult to do that.
Ultimately, we could all do with a little dose of seeing everyone’s wonderful and unique differences through the eyes of a child. If we did this, we would embrace everyone’s uniqueness and experience more joy in life. Kindness and a world without judgment would prevail.
Worries about my family
Because this issue impacts our family, I feel a huge burden to ensure my little one can always be her true self. What worries me is that as she moves through school and into adult life, there will be messages given to her which contradict our message as parents – to always be yourself.
I plan to do everything in my power to ensure she can always be her true self.
Books like this give me hope that things could change. And I hope they do!
Tiny Tree Books
I’ve now reviewed several amazing books published by Tiny Tree Books and I want to say a massive thank you to them – for publishing books that deal with such difficult topics. In a great way that allows kids to engage with the subject.
Synopsis
Step into Lila’s whirlwind world in A Dance of Happy Discovery
Embrace Lila’s unique sparkle as she twirls through life’s ups and downs with ADHD, showing us all how to love who we truly are.
Young readers, prepare to be dazzled by this exciting adventure that’s bursting with boldness, bravery, and the fun of being different.
Dive into Lila’s story and uncover a tale that’s all about standing strong, letting your creativity fly, and celebrating the superhero within!
As a family, we’ve loved Bluey for a long time. We can relate to Chilli & Bandit. Bluey is as much for adults, as it is for kids. And I love that we can all sit down, as a family, to watch the show and thoroughly love every minute of it. In this post, I discuss my favourite Relatable Bluey Parenting Moments.
If you follow me on TikTok, you will have seen my reaction to the most recent episode of Bluey. Where fans eagerly awaited the outcome of whether the Heeler family would sell their house. And move to a new city. A huge upheaval for any young child. But we know Bluey loves to tackle social issues and difficult topics – teaching our children, and parents how to be emotionally intelligent.
As a family, we incorporate gentle parenting into our parenting style. And we love the gentle way Chilli and Bandit explain things to the girls. We are here for it. Bluey will always have a special place in my heart.
Side note – I started writing this post following Season 3 – Episode 49 – The Sign. However whilst writing, Bluey then released Season 3 – Episode 50 – Surprise. And I honestly cannot stop thinking about an older version of the character Bluey and the fact that all kids and parents grow up. We will never be this way again, at this very moment. Time is precious and it flies by quickly. I love that the show captured this sentiment, shared by many other parents.
Life can be difficult, as a parent to young kids. When you’re working hard to give them a great life. You’re tired every day and the little ones push your buttons. My blog is all about acknowledging the reality of parenting and just how difficult it can be.
Sam – Mummy Conquering Anxiety Blog
The recent episode – Season 3 – Episode 49 – The Sign
What an emotional rollercoaster the episode was. So much happened in the lead-up to the final moments. And all these little moments were like a win for the family and their extended family. We also saw some background characters getting their little wins in life. And we were cheering them on as we watched.
Why I’m writing about Bluey on my blog
Since the episode aired I’ve followed other parents’ reactions on TikTok. Every time I see the clip or hear the song, at the end of the episode, it makes me emotional again!
Writing is the way I express myself. It always has been. And this is a topic I’m enthusiastic about. For all those commenters on TikTok videos saying “they are just cartoon dogs” you probably shouldn’t read on – whilst I respect any opinion which is different to mine. I’m just not sure our opinions align. And that’s okay. It’s what makes the world go around.
Bluey fans. Parents, and anyone interested in the amazing, emotional, relatable show – stick around.
Let’s dive into the Relatable Bluey Parenting Moments – the show presented us with, long before the eagerly-anticipated recent episode:
1. Season 1 – Episode 14: Takeaway
Parenting takeaway: Sometimes you have to ditch your plans & have fun with the kids
The episode shows the chaos that can ensue when young children have to wait around and become bored. Parents – the struggle is real. And I love that the Bluey creators show how difficult it can be. Especially if you are lone parenting with two kids. The episode is also hilarious to watch. And heartwarming that Bandit eventually joins in the fun, with the kids. Chilli knew all along – the kids wouldn’t have the patience to wait.
2. Season 1 – Episode 3: Keepy Uppy
Parenting takeaway:Sometimes fun can cross over into not so much fun for the littlies
It might be a dad thing. But the dad in our house sometimes takes the fun too far. And maybe this is what dads are supposed to do. We can all relate to Bandit:
“Did I make it a little too fun? It’s a hard one to get right.” Any parents will know that it is a hard one to get right. The whole parenting thing in general.
3. Season 2 – Episode 40: Octopus
Parenting takeaway: We aren’t always the best at everything
As parents, we’ve all experienced a slight bit of jealousy. Sometimes, I feel like I can’t play games as well as Daddy can. Daddy probably envies me for my organisational skills. As parents, we learnt to play to our strengths. And not be offended if the little one goes to one parent over the other. She seeks different qualities from each of us.
This episode explores finding your way, as a family, when having fun.
4. Season 2 – Episode 26: Sleepytime
Parenting takeaway: You are the whole world to your kids
This episode gets me in the feels. Because it is so heartwarming and the music brings out all the emotion. All our kids know, is us. Their immediate family. At such a young age, they rely on us for everything. Which can be overwhelming at times. But beautiful. The episode reminds me to cherish these moments with the little one, whilst she is still little.
5. Season 2 – Episode 43: Duck Cake
Parenting takeaway: All parents lose it sometimes – and that is okay
I’ve talked on my blog and TikTok about being triggered as a parent. Every human being walking this earth has automatic reactions, that we can’t always control. That is okay. Bandit shows a real human side in this episode, which then causes the kids to listen. Sometimes, when there is chaos in the house – these moments are needed. it’s a good lesson for the kids on cause and effect. Teaching them that life has consequences – everyone, even adults, can become overwhelmed.
6. Season 2 – Episode 50: Grandad
Parenting takeaway: no matter how old you and your kids are – they will always be your kids
The end of the episode always gets me emotional. The episode explores the relationship of a daughter and dad when old age creeps in and the roles are slightly reversed.
At the end, Chilli asks if her dad remembers her running around when she was young, to which he replies “It wasn’t a long time ago; it was yesterday.“
7. Season 1, Episode 22: The Pool
Parenting takeaway: you will never remember everything you need for a trip outwith the kids
Writing about this episode is giving me flashbacks to the baby rucksack days – when you need three fully packed bags, just to walk to the shop. It’s difficult when you have a small baby and need a lot of supplies.
Getting out of the house is particularly challenging because we have an easily distracted child. I sometimes let out a huge sigh of relief when she is strapped in the car seat and I can just breathe.
The episode also shows us the teamwork between Chilli and Bandit. And not saying, “I told you so” – even when you really want to.
I am so excited about Bluey lately, I just had to get all my thoughts out.
What is your favourite episode? And how do you feel about the most recent episodes? Let me know in the comments.
8. Season 2 – Episode 9: Bingo
Parenting takeaway: siblings are vastly different in personality traits
As parents to a soon-to-be five-year-old, we love the episodes that focus on Bingo. This one doesn’t disappoint. It explores Bingo learning to play alone – a favourite moment of the episode – “The fridge doesn’t like me.” What a cutie!
9. Season 2 – Episode 17: Fancy Restaurant
Parenting takeaway: Romance doesn’t always mean big gestures
I love this episode. Showing us all that romance doesn’t have to mean fancy restaurants. Sometimes, it’s just the little things parents do for each other that matter. Like eating the horrible plate of food the kids made. Hilarious and heartwarming.
10. Season 1 – Episode 28 – Grannies
Parenting takeaway: Give your children the option and let them choose the right path
In this episode, the girls teach Grandma to floss. But the parenting lesson is more about whether you prefer to be right or have fun. And what a great lesson to teach young kids.
It also reminds me of my younger days, at my Grandma’s house – doing special things together – which will be ingrained in our memories forever.
11. Season 3 – Episode 24: Faceytalk
Parenting takeaway: Life isn’t always perfect but the fun continues anyway
This is the most played episode in our house. We love it and laugh throughout. We also have a child very similar to Muffin, but I think all children have muffin moments, don’t they?
The moment which strikes me is Muffin’s parents arguing in the background on Faceytalk. Bandit carefully explains the girls should mute the volume until they have finished speaking. Moments like this make me feel validated. We all argue, especially as parents – and I love that Bluey shows us the reality of this.
Life can be difficult, as a parent to young kids. When you’re working hard to give them a great life. You’re tired every day and the little ones push your buttons. My blog is all about acknowledging the reality of parenting and just how difficult it can be.
Parenting takeaway: Despite worries, the kids will be okay making friends at school
Absolute hats off to Bluey for exploring the topic of ADHD, with this lovable character. It’s a topic which impacts our family and therefore, one of our favourite episodes.
It’s also a great look at the way children might view these difficulties – with remembering things. In our family, we explain to the little one that other people can have different brains and they sometimes do things a bit differently. We are slowly starting to broach the subject in an age-appropriate way. And this episode helps us do that.
13. Season 2 – Episode 41 – Bin Night
Parenting takeaway: Spend time talking to your kids about their dayworks wonders
This episode follows Bandit and the kids carrying out a mundane task. Obviously to the girls, this is very exciting. And it prompts a conversation about something which is troubling Bingo. All is well in the end though. Talking it through with a parent helps Bingo.
14. Season 2 – Episode 1 – Dance mode
Parenting takeaway: Don’t let the fear of looking foolish, stop you from having fun
This is one of our top three episodes. I mean, the song is enough to make you love it. But watching the embarrassment of the parents. Which then turns into total fun – never gets old.
Don’t be afraid to dance like nobody is watching. Have fun with your kids and try not to care what other people think.
15. Season 2 – Episode 6 – Stumpfest
Parenting takeaway: Parents need their outlet and playtime
It’s healthy for parents to do something which doesn’t revolve around kids. It’s also healthy for the kids to realise this and not always be with their parents. We’ve always wanted a range of social settings for our little one – nursery, staying at the grandparent’s every weekend and generally doing her own thing – when it’s appropriate. I think it’s good for young children.
The most heartwarming thing about this episode is Chilli explaining to Bluey that the dads are playing. Bluey then goes on to help them play their game.
16. Season 3 – Episode 43 – Dragon
Parenting takeaway:Sometimes difficult topics can be explored whilst spending time together
There is a reason parents and therapists use drawing as a technique to speak to children. In this episode we see Chilli tell a heartwarming story about her Mum, to encourage Bluey to continue drawing. It also touches on the topic of Chilli’s Mum no longer being around.
The family encourage Bluey to persist with a task and also explain a very difficult topic to the girls. It’s also emotional when Chilli fondly remembers her mum.
17. Season 3 – Episode 26 – Fairytale
Parenting takeaway: Sometimes kids are mean to each other and deserve consequences
This episode is in my top five – because of the nostalgia. How many parents have told their kids stories about “back in the day”? This story sees Bandit admitting he was pretty horrible to his Brother and there should be consequences.
The most emotional moment is when Bandit says he met Chilli at the caravan park when they were kids. Lovely, wholesome, family moment.
18. Season 1 – Episode 43 – Camping
Parenting takeaway: People come in and out of our lives, probably for good reason. And teaching kids this is important
On the subject of camping, we love this episode. Despite a language barrier, the kids (Bluey & Jean Luc) have fun together and feel like they made friends. Only to miss each other when one of them leaves the campsite. It is lovely to see a teenage Bluey reunited with Jean Luc though. And very emotional.
19. Season 3 – Episode 1 – Bedroom
Parenting takeaway: Sometimes plans have to be changed, according to what the kids want and need
As a parent, you quickly learn to go with the flow. If emotions bubble up, or a little one needs comfort, it’s time to change something. immediately, if possible!
But this episode also explores encouraging your kids to give it a try. Another great lesson for kids to learn.
20. Season 3 – Episode 31 – Onesies
Parenting takeaway: Sometimes people have to deal with their own emotions and explaining this to the kids can be a good thing
There will always be difficult subjects to tackle in life and Bluey always gets this right! Brandy comes to visit, and after some fun with onesies and the older sisters (Chilli & Brandy) reenacting a dance they did when they were younger, Chilli can explain to Bluey why Brandy is sad. And that we don’t always get what we want in life. Even if it’s something we desire.
Summary of Relatable Bluey Parenting Moments
I hope you enjoyed reading this post. I enjoyed writing it – I am so excited about Bluey lately, I just had to get all my thoughts out.
What is your favourite episode? And how do you feel about the most recent episodes?
My little one has always loved reading books. She now asks to read a paragraph of my adult books and you can see the joy on her face when she soaks up the new words.
We’ve always made a point of reading a range of stories with my little girl. However, since she is currently experiencing strong emotions. We’ve intentionally bought books to help her understand these emotions. We also choose books which talk about different cultures and differences in the people she will encounter in life. This is very important to us, as parents.
Neurodivergence factors into our family. It’s something we are open and honest about with her – explaining that sometimes another person’s brain may work differently. And that is completely okay. Something to be celebrated.
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The Anna’s Garden Blog Tour – Mummy Conquering Anxiety
I am thrilled to take part in the Anna’s Garden blog tour. And to introduce you to such a special book.
Anna’s Garden is a book about kindness and finding happiness. And my blog and social media accounts align completely with this message.
The Synopsis – the short version
“Anna knows what she likes and what she is good at. Even though catching a ball is not her favourite game, and loud noises make her ears hurt, there are lots of other things she can do. Anna likes to spend time on her own, but she is also very kind and likes to share the things she enjoys with others.”
The first reading
Upon reading this book for the first time with my little one, the magic of friendship came across to me and by the end of the story, I felt emotional. The illustrations also bring the book to life.
I hope Anna’s Garden is a story that will support children who sometimes find the world a difficult place. It is also a message to all children to be kind, because we are all different and have so much to learn from each other.
You should buy the book because it’s a magical account of a little girl who struggles – but decides to make friends in her own way. We might sometimes follow a different path to get to our end goal. And that is okay.
How to order the book
Anna’s Garden was published by Tiny Tree Children’s Books on the March 14th. order your copy today!
The full synopsis
‘Anna’s Garden’ is a charming story of happiness and self-discovery, told from the perspective of a neurodivergent young girl — Anna!
Anna knows what she likes and what she is good at.
Even though catching a ball is not her favourite game and loud noises make her ears hurt, there are lots of other things that Anna can do. Although she likes to spend time on her own, she is also very kind and loves sharing with others.
Anna’s Garden is a classic rhyming picture book with a charming art style, written and illustrated by Sarah Hewitt. With a memorable cast and unique handling of its themes, this story will help young readers embrace their true selves.
Final Thoughts
This will remain one of my favourite stories to read to my little one and we will keep the book to look over, as she gets older.
You can read more about Sarah’s motivation for writing the book here.
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