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5 amazing days out on my 2021 autumn bucket list

Post updated – 30 July 2022

This time of the year is so magical & this means an autumn bucket list is in order – cold weather setting in, Halloween fun, the lead-up to Christmas, and all the other wonderful things I discuss in this blog post.

We started visiting pumpkin patches a few years ago, but up to then I’d never really bothered much with autumn-themed activities, other than celebrating Halloween. 

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Being part of the blogging world increases my excitement about all things autumn. September, when we start counting down the days until the colder mornings, buying Halloween costumes, putting up autumn decorations, planning where we will spend Halloween, what firework displays we will visit, bonfire night, and then Christmas planning. There is a lot to be excited about! When is the correct time to start buying Christmas presents? I am sure I will talk about this in a future blog post. 

With this in mind, I had to start looking for some exciting activities to do across the whole season, and I wanted to share my findings with you. Autumn bucket list here I come!

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1. Pumpkin patches

First up on my autumn bucket list, I want to share the two locations I’ve visited for pumpkin picking in the past:

Farmer Copleys

This was a great day out. There is ample parking when you arrive and a good system for picking and paying for your pumpkins. 

Wear wellies, it was a rainy day when we visited and we had to wade through a muddy field. 

They had a barn set up to get breakfast, a small bar for anyone drinking alcohol, and all the other snacks & drinks you’d expect. There were rides for the kids including a bucking bronco. 

You can collect a wheelbarrow to take to the pumpkin picking field. Because she was a tiny baby at the time, we put our little one in it, instead of carrying her through the mud, haha!

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Check out their website for specific information on this year’s pumpkin event, as some things may have changed.

You can book your tickets here.

Swithens Farm

This is a small farm and we mainly visited to see the animals. Although the farm is small, there are a lot of animals to see, including an indoor enclosure where you can brush a very friendly rabbit. 

There are toy cars and tractors for the little ones to play in and toilet facilities all around the farm. You can also purchase carrots to feed the animals as you walk around. 

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They did have a pumpkin field when we visited and we got some nice pumpkins to carve. It isn’t on the scale of Farmer Copleys or as well organised, but a great addition to the day out, if you’re visiting the farm anyway. 

The cafe offers the basics, and the service was a bit slow. However, their website looks to have been updated since we last visited. You can check out the pumpkin event here.

You can book tickets here.

Because I want to visit somewhere different this year, I’ve done some research and found a few possibilities:

Kemps Farm

I looked at this farm when doing research for where to visit in previous years and I like the sound of their tractor ride to the pumpkin field. Our little one would love this. You can check out the information here.

Spilman’s

This was also on the list when I previously researched the other two farms we visited, but we couldn’t get tickets.

It looks like there are new activities added and the entertainment alone makes me want to pay the higher price tag to keep our little one entertained for longer. You also get a voucher to redeem in the shop, against the ticket price paid.

You can check out all the information here. You can book tickets here.

2. Autumn wreath making

No autumn bucket list would be complete without an autumn wreath. I’ve spotted them on doors, especially during our drive to the seaside and I want one. 

It’s something I’ve never thought of buying until this year, but with all the excitement over this year’s autumn season, I have to buy one. Read my blog post The things I love most about the upcoming autumn season for more details on the things I’m excited about.

If you don’t fancy buying one and are feeling creative, you can make your own – these are some of the events I found. You can book your wreath-making party at home here.

Alternatively, you can visit Hobbycraft for all the supplies you need to make one at home.

3. Halloween outfit for nursery

If possible, I want to go all out for our little one, as I would with our costumes. Read my blog post 4 times I rocked Halloween parties with my homemade costumes for more details on my obsession with customising costumes. I want to buy or create an outfit no other child will be wearing (not a competitive mother over here at all).

Check our Smiffy’s for all your costume needs.

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4. Halloween events

A must on the autumn bucket list is planning Halloween events. We’ve looked at the scary events English Heritage has on in the past. You can find out more information about the events available here.

You can sign up for an English Heritage membership below.

I usually struggle to find suitable events, as Halloween isn’t celebrated in the UK, but I am happy with some of the events I’ve found and we will be booking a few of them:

Halloween food, drink & craft Fest at Howsham Hall, York – It looks like a great event and you can buy tickets here.

Mother Shipton’s Cave – the Halloween event looks like fun. You can find more information here and book tickets here.

Curious concoctions – kids’ outdoor Halloween party, Haddocks Wood, Runcorn – I love the idea of this outdoor event and kids making Halloween potions in the woods. It might be one for us to check out when our little one is a bit older. You can book tickets here.

September, when we start counting down the days until the colder mornings, buying Halloween costumes, putting up autumn decorations, planning where we will spend Halloween, what firework displays we will visit, bonfire night, then Christmas planning.

5. Markets

Markets are amazing all year round, but especially magical at the time of year and therefore make it onto the autumn bucket list.

Autumn-themed, a Christmas Market. I just love a good market, where you can buy a range of items you may never be able to find again. That’s the beauty of it.

These are the ones I’ve found:

Malton Food Market – This monthly event looks amazing and I can imagine all the yummy products on offer – the next one is Saturday 9 October 2021.

Living North Christmas Fair, York Racecourse – The Hubby & I visited this one a few years ago and we honestly had a blast! Everything is expensive on the day, but we came away with flavoured vodka, chocolate, premium cheese, and house decor – a perfect day of indulgence and I am so glad we went before having kids, haha!

Christmas craft & food market, Rise Hall, Hull – This looks like a lovely day out and it might be something we check out this year. It will be nice to walk around freely without restrictions like we’ve had the last two years.

Sheffield Christmas markets – We visited the market as a couple several years back and stayed in a beautiful hotel for the night. It was magical to walk around the city centre, wrapped up, with our mulled wine. I remember purchasing Christmas presents for everyone and tree decorations. Where do I book?? All the information you need is in the link above and they are also taking trade inquiries at the moment.

Final thoughts

What activities are on your autumn bucket list and what days out do you have planned in the lead-up to Christmas? I would love to hear about any events you are attending below

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I’m participating in Blogtober – here are 4 reasons I’m thrilled about it

I think I’ve previously mentioned, I don’t do anything by halves. It’s all or nothing with me. That’s why I’m participating in Blogtober.

I started the blog on 15 August 2021 and decided I would absolutely be doing Blogtober as soon as I heard about it on Twitter. I love a challenge, so why not? There is also the small issue of trying to get my blog out there, rank, spread a message, become more popular – surely posting throughout October will help with this. 

If you don’t know what Blogtober is, you can read more about it here.

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Mental Health Awareness Day

As the main topic of my blog is mental health, the lead-up to Mental Health Awareness day is a perfect time for me to share mental health-related posts during the week Monday 4th – Sunday 10th October.

You can read more about why I started a mental health blog in this post.

Will you be writing about mental health during October 2021? Let me know in the comments below.

When you’re passionate about something, you excel at it. It doesn’t feel like hard work!

#Blogtober – LET’s GO!!!

I am so excited to be participating in Blogtober, on the first day of October I needed to share my excitement.

Halloween is my favourite occasion and we do something to celebrate each year. You can read more about my DIY Halloween costumes below. This year I am super excited for autumn and I am focusing on the lead-up to Halloween, celebrating the small things. You can read more in my blog posts below:

 

The Low Spend Guide to Halloween 

It’s the Season to Get Warm & Cosy With Candles

How You Can Use The Blogtober Challenge To Increase Engagement

I am not ready to stop talking about Halloween

My review of Kemps Farm, Horsforth pumpkin picking event

4 times I rocked Halloween parties with my homemade costumes

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All about autumn

In true celebratory style, these are the reasons I am participating...

  1. Making connections 

Out of all my social media platforms, I’ve had the most success on Twitter and I genuinely look forward to opening the app each morning, simply because the blogging community is so supportive and kind to one another. Check out my about me page, for the low down on my story leading up to starting a blog.

  1. I have LOADS of content

Like other bloggers, I have so many half-written blog posts. I usually get inspiration in the early hours of the morning and have to record my thoughts. This then turns into a blog post, but I like to get the writing bit done first. 

Before I bought hosting or started my research on blogging, I was writing and recording titles for blog posts on a spreadsheet. I knew what I wanted to write, but I just didn’t have the time to write the posts in full yet. 

Blogtober is the perfect opportunity to force me to organise these posts and it’s exactly what I’ve done. Why not spend a full month posting blogs, when they are pretty much ready to share with the world??

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  1. I love a challenge 

I’ve mentioned this above, but I need to open up to you a little more about the reality of my personality. I am driven, determined, and stubborn. I was born this way. It’s usually what causes my high anxiety levels, but it also has its benefits. I am a hard worker and given my recent circumstances (mental breakdown, impending redundancy), I am determined to carve out the life I want to live. Hard work, determination, manifesting the future I want. What better opportunity to totally make this happen than Blogtober. You can read more about how I motivate myself in this post, 8 questions I’m asking myself in preparation for gratitude day.

Let’s do this!!

  1. It’s what I love 

When you’re passionate about something, you excel at it. It doesn’t feel like hard work!

I’ve always loved writing, it’s how I communicate best and I use this medium to express myself. Why not do a whole crazy month of expressing myself. It’s like a dream come true. 

Yes, I will be busy! But I will also be doing something I absolutely love each day and this makes me smile.

Final thoughts

I want to wish my fellow bloggers who are participating in #blogtober a successful month.

Here are a few affirmations to spur us on…

  1. I am succesful
  2. I am worthy
  3. Today will be amazing
  4. I am at peace
  5. I accept myself
  6. I have the tools I need to succeed in life
  7. I am calm & collected
  8. I am grateful for everything I have In my life
  9. My life is full of abundance and happiness
  10. I’m proud of myself for my acomplishments
  11. I am confident
  12. I will listen to my instincts
  13. Others’ thoughts or judgements won’t impact me
  14. I have love, happiness, & prosperity
  15. I will remain positive during tough times
  16. My own self care is a priority to me
  17. I can, I will, I am
  18. I have the tools to create the future I want
  19. I respect myself and others
  20. I will live with an open mind & an open heart
  21. My past experiences do not define me
  22. I do not need to control the future
  23. What is destined for me will arrive in due course
  24. I choose happiness, resilience, and gratitude
  25. I have the power to control what I think
  26. Spreading kindness is my main goal
  27. My life is overflowing with joy
  28. I have a grateful heart & a happy mind
  29. Today will be filled with beauty
  30. I am grateful for all the blessings in my life
  31. My past experiences have made me stronger
  32. I will leave yesterday’s mistakes are behind me
  33. My life is exactly where it should be right now
  34. I am brave, and I am willing to face my fears
  35. I am willing to step outside my comfort zone

Are you participating in Blogtober? Let me know in the comments below…

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How You Can Use The Blogtober Challenge To Increase Engagement

I took part in the blogtober challenge last year. It was an extremely busy month, but I also managed to release a lot of blog posts, which massively helped my engagement.

In October 2021, my blog was only three months old and therefore I was still in the growing phase.

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The post will outline how the challenge can help you engage more with other bloggers. Therefore increasing page views and how many people view your writing.

Halloween is my favourite time of year and I secretly spend the summer waiting for a scary Halloween party and some spooky fun!

What is blogtober challenge?

Blogtober is an annual event held every October. It involves posting one blog per day, every day of the month. Because I was brand new to blogging when the blogtober challenge came up last year, I only made it part way through. However, I was proud of the progress I made.

As you can see from the archive on my website –

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October 2021 is still the month in which I released the most blog posts. And I managed to release some pretty important content:

How You Can Use The Blogtober Challenge To Increase Engagement

A look back on how far I got with the blogtober challenge

Knowing when to stop is how I know I’ve evolved

5 amazing days out on my 2021 autumn bucket list

I’m participating in Blogtober – here are 4 reasons I’m thrilled about it

The type of content you release

it is completely up to you whether to have a Halloween-related theme or use this month to talk about a range of subjects on your blog. You will see from the posts above, I did a bit of both. It was also Mental Health Awareness Week, which I believe is a great time to raise awareness of the issues I discuss on my blog.

How to get involved

You can get involved by searching the blogtober hashtag on Twitter. If you are part of the blogging community, get involved with fellow bloggers. You could participate in a blogging tag, and nominate other bloggers to join in. It really is a fun month and I cannot wait for it to come around again.

Final thoughts

Will you be taking part?

How are you preparing for the month?

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A look back on how far I got with the blogtober challenge

I recently decided to stop the blogtober challenge. However, I wanted to look back at the posts I created, published, and promoted.

Following the blogtober challenge, I am particularly proud of the mental health-related topics I released. I will be honest and confess I was unsure about releasing some of them. But I decided to be brutally honest and share the reality of mental illness. I hope it helps other people.

All the lovely comments and feedback on my posts have spurred me on to continue to ensure my blog thrives. I am now ready to tackle some of the other goals I have and work on bigger projects. I am also starting to see the results of my hard work.

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Here is a summary of the posts I released during the challenge

My final post of the blogtober challenge

To everyone still taking part

You can do this!

I enjoy reading your daily posts.

It’s the final week of October 2021 – you got this 🙂

Reflecting on the goals I’ve achieved this month

To add some context regarding my blogging journey so far, I released my first post on 12 August 2021.

I found my feet in September 2021 and worked very hard to spread the word about my blog. I then decided to turn my half-written blog posts into the blogtober challenge.

The challenge meant I was busy. It was fast-paced and involved a lot of late nights and early mornings. However, it taught me I am able to maintain quality but also keep up with my goals. It just involves hard work and determination.

All the lovely comments and feedback on my posts have spurred me on to continue to ensure my blog thrives. I am now ready to tackle some of the other goals I have and work on bigger projects. I am also starting to see the results of my hard work.

I now have confidence I am able to break down the next project into manageable sections and complete it.

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Final thoughts…

I hope you’re all having a wonderful October.

This time of year is so magical. Cold weather setting in, Halloween fun, and the lead-up to Christmas.

After the constraints we’ve faced over the past few years, I wish you all the fun this season has to offer.

Let me know what you have planned in the comments below.

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Knowing when to stop is how I know I’ve evolved

I know I’ve evolved – what an amazing statement. What’s better is a really mean it!

Friends, I’ve made the executive decision to end my participation in #blogtober. It’s the best thing for me.

I’ve been feeling a bit flat lately, deflated, and not sure why. The old me would never have recognised it needed to happen. I would have carried on regardless and ticked off another superwoman task on my endless, unachievable list. 

However, the new me is all about a manageable to-do list and living life to the full.

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My reasons for ending the challenge

Well. Firstly I’m exhausted. I am sure my fellow bloggers who are taking part in Blogtober are feeling the same. I want to say a huge well done to anyone who is still going. Along with the bloggers who didn’t take part, well because blogging is the hardest work I’ve probably ever done. But I love it. 

When I first started this challenge, I had enough content and I still have endless ideas recorded and blog posts partly written. But I reached a point where I’m just not feeling it. I am not happy with the posts I still need to finalise and I think I am experiencing burnout or the beginning of it. Something is missing and dare I say it, I think I may have writer’s block. Maybe more writers exhaustion. I need a break and luckily I am on another mini holiday at the point this post is being published. Cheers to that!

Perspective and starting my fixed blogging schedule

I’ve achieved so much in my short time blogging, but I was planning to release a fixed blogging schedule and try and plan as far in advance as I can. I am going to reorganise some posts and start the below schedule from Monday 18th October 2021.

I know I've evolved

Because I’m all about self-care, taking mental health breaks, and generally avoiding ever experiencing a mental breakdown again, it’s something I must do. 

I know I’ve evolved because I feel differently now. But I will be honest and say before Blogtober began, I had thoughts about looking weak if I gave up. I also wondered what other people would think. Those toxic anxiety thoughts are creeping back in, but I’m not going to let them. I’ve challenged myself by completing two weeks of this amazing challenge and now it’s time to get organised. From now on, I have the blog to focus on, alongside working and I need to plan ahead.

Final thoughts

Hey, did I just write a blog post after releasing some pressure on myself after totally giving myself a break? It works. 

Here’s to all you amazing bloggers for putting out amazing content each week. I can’t wait to keep reading your work and interacting with you. I can’t help but smile when I reply to comments and read your creations. 

Take care of yoursleves and eachother

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