mummyconqueringanxiety

I am mummy to one feisty toddler and wife to a wonderful man, living in the North of England, UK and making it a priority to enjoy life every second we get to spend together as a family. You will usually find me writing, anything from lists to blog posts, and excited by stationery - show me your post-its! Following my recent breakdown, I believe talking about our struggles is the key to recovery. I started the blog because I felt compelled to share my story & my main goal is to help other people.

Whispa and the Waves by Ffion Jones and Elena Mascolo – MCA Review

Whispa and the Waves

Welcome to my post about Whispa and the Waves by Ffion Jones and Elena Mascolo. I am so glad you stopped by!

Quick note: Some of the links contained on this page are affiliate links and if you go through them to make a purchase, I will earn a commission. I only recommend products I use myself and think would be useful for other people

Inspired by a desire to help her daughter in her struggle with anxiety, Whispa and the Waves is a book that hopes to help children explore other ways of responding to these feelings, empowering them to overcome the waves and giving them the strength to calm the storm.

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Important topics in the public eye right now

If you follow my blog, you will know that a mental breakdown is what prompted me to start this blog, to help other people feel less alone when they are experiencing mental health challenges.

The mental health crisis amongst young people in the UK at the moment is well documented and something we should all be eager to resolve. Books like this – serve to educate young people and make them feel less alone. In this respect, we must share this book’s message far and wide.

Children having access to books

Another well-documented fact is that some children living in the UK currently don’t have access to books at home. As a family, we have always purchased books, mostly from charity shops. But my little one loves reading and we must make time to read books with her. Even though, like most families, family time is limited.

Exploring big emotions with children

The character in the book sounds very much like me. I still use my hypnotherapy recordings when I feel life becoming too much. These days, I feel more resilient and able to deal with the pressures and unexpected events life can sometimes throw at us. BUT it’s taken a lot of work to get to where I am now.

Imagine being a child. Research tells us can’t regulate emotions in the way an adult does. And still feeling some big emotions you may not understand. Books like this are vital in helping children have a visual display and a story to tell about a similar way they are feeling.

I’ve written on my blog before about handling toddler emotions. You can check out the posts below:

HELPING LITTLE KIDS MANAGE BIG EMOTIONS

HOW TO EXPLORE EMOTIONS WITH YOUR TODDLER

20 RELATABLE BLUEY PARENTING MOMENTS WE LOVE

Please go out and buy this book, recommend it to your local library or community centre – and spread a message of hope amongst children who might be struggling.

Sam – Founder – Mummy Conquering Anxiety blog
Whispa and the Waves

Some of the previous reviews published in the book corner section:

THE GIANT AT NUMBER TWO – BOOK REVIEW – MUMMY CONQUERING ANXIETY

LIVELY LILA BLOG TOUR – A DANCE OF HAPPY DISCOVERY – MUMMY CONQUERING ANXIETY

THE ANNA’S GARDEN BLOG TOUR – MUMMY CONQUERING ANXIETY

THE LONELY TIGER BY TERENIA EDWARDS, SEVERUS LIAN (ILLUSTRATOR)

Buy the book

Summary

Please go out and buy this book, recommend it to your local library or community centre – and spread a message of hope amongst children who might be struggling.

The Craft House in Bingley

8 Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

Etsy is the home for extra special items – all handmade, handpicked, and designed by real people. I wanted to update you on the latest, unique & personalised handmade gifts on Etsy. You can view my previous post below:

WAYS TO INITIATE ETSY GIFT MODE – MUMMY CONQUERING ANXIETY

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I love writing these posts and bringing you a summary of all the latest, quirky gifts. Let me know in the comments which one you like best and if you will be making any purchases.

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

Quick note: Some of the links contained on this page are affiliate links and if you go through them to make a purchase, I will earn a commission. I only recommend products I use myself and think would be useful for other people.

If you follow this blog, you know I love a good to-do list. I live by them. It’s the only way I can organise life-admin, work-life and general remembering of everything for everyone – #mumlife

Sam – Founder – Mummy Conquering Anxiety Blog

Mum gifts

Sewing Notepad, Quilting Notepad, Quilting Gift, Sewing, Lori Nawyn, Huckleberry Moose, Quilter Gift

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

How cute & unique is this notepad?

If you have a creative mum in your life, who loves a bit of sewing – look no further.

Personalised Plant Pot Lady, Mum’s Garden Gift, Mothers day gift idea, gardener gift for mum, garden gift for nan

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

I don’t know about your family but my little one loves playing in the garden at my parents house.

And how cute is this little person, to feature in the garden. My five year old would be talking to it and getting the ornament involved in all her games.

Housewarming

Personalised Wine Bucket | Wine Tub | Wine Cooler | Wine Storage | Beer Bucket | Drinks Bucket | Wine Holder | Mr & Mrs | Anniversary Gift

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

We all love a good wine bucket, for a housewarming, or camping, or those summer BBQ nights.

How lovely would it be always to use this great keepsake?

New Home Gift Christmas Candle, Christmas Housewarming Gift, Christmas Scented Candle

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

Do you know a candle lover, or want a keepsake for your own home?

I love this personalised candle. Something you can keep forever as an ornament.

Stationery

Kawaii Cozy Cat Memo Pad • tear off memo pad • paper note pad, cute memo pad • kawaii stationery notepad

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

If you follow this blog, you know I love a good to-do list. I live by them. It’s the only way I can organise life-admin, work-life and general remembering of everything for everyone – #mumlife

Bunny Sticky Notes, Kawaii Animal Reminder Notes, Memo Pad Stickers, Bunny/ Rabbit Lover Gift, Planner Page Marker Stickers, Easter Gift

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

How cute are these sticky notes. I know my little one would love them, but I would also want to steal them!

Wedding gifts

Custom Chopping Board, Personalized Cutting Board Gift Set – Custom Wedding Gift, Bridal Shower Gift, Engagement Gifts for Couple

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

This is such a cute personalised wedding gift.

Something the newlyweds can treasure forever when they are creating family memories in the kitchen.

Custom star map by date, Star map night light, Personalized constellation map, Night sky by date, Engagement gift for him and her

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

This is the cutest, most unique gift I’ve seen in a while and I would love to receive this to commemorate a special occasion, that I wanted to remember forever.

Summary

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

Stand-up Paddleboarding in the Lake District – Jo Moseley – MCA review

Welcome to my post about Paddleboarding in the Lake District. My review of Jo Moseley’s second book, with stunning images and helpful information to get started.

I previously reviewed Jo’s last book Stand-up Paddleboarding in Great Britain: Beautiful Places to Paddleboard in England, Scotland & Wales – you can read the full review and buy the book in the post below:

12 BOOKS & COURSES FOR MANAGING ANXIETY

Paddleboarding in the Lake District

Quick note: Some of the links contained on this page are affiliate links and if you go through them to make a purchase, I will earn a commission. I only recommend products I use myself and think would be useful for other people.

Jo’s background and why it matters

If you’ve read any previous posts on this blog or viewed my social media accounts, you will know I am a huge fan of rising from the ashes after facing adversity. It’s how this blog was born! And I encourage everyone else to change their situation for the better – when they can.

Jo’s backstory is one of adversity, followed by a growing passion for exercise, which became some of the most amazing achievements.

In May 2013, I found myself sobbing in the biscuit aisle of Tesco’s, looking at the chocolate Hob Nobs and wondering how my life had come to this. I was 48, a busy working Mum, flying solo with my boys.
 
Both my parents were undergoing chemotherapy at the time and I was overwhelmed, anxious and desperate for a good night’s sleep. What I didn’t realise was that I was going through the early stages of the perimenopause at the time. 

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Quote from Jo Moseley

How I can relate to this

“You’re never too old to do something wild and it’s never too late to make a difference.”

Jomoseley.com

I can relate to this quote. At nearly 40 years old, I finally feel the most confident and free I ever have. But it’s been many years of adversity in the making.

Paddleboarding in the Lake District

My review of the book – Stand-up Paddleboarding in the Lake District – Jo Moseley

I pride myself on being organised, and what I love about Jo’s book is the detail. You will find coordinates on specific places you can set off on your paddleboard. When reading, you can be safe knowing Jo has already done it and therefore, you are safe.

You can easily use the book as a guide. Like a map. If you’re visiting a specific part of the Lake District and you are taking your paddleboard along, you can be sure there will be instructions on how you set off on your paddleboard and experience the freeing feeling of nature.

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How to get started

I love this section of the book because it is filled with honesty about how to get started. When we start a new hobby, we often default to buying things, but Jo suggests starting with paddleboarding lessons to see how you like the activity.

From a confidence perspective, I love that this section exists. Often when you start a new physical activity, confidence and knowing how to start are the two most important things. The things that would literally stop you from completing the first step. This section of the book reduces the fear and anxiety you can experience when deciding to try something new.

You can check out my other blogs here. And I write about my love of running on the Roaring Pumpkin blog.

Where to park, eat and drink

Aren’t these the most important aspects of any trip? Where to get your snacks – much-needed fuel for any exercise and parking or where to stay in a hotel, is the most vital information. And it’s the first thing I look at when planning my trip. It’s great that Jo includes these all important details in the book.

The photos

For anyone who has visited The Lakes before, you will know the images are simply stunning. And the photos included in Jo’s book are a joy to look at.

In the images, she looks so happy and free and these images inspire anyone wanting to try paddleboarding.

Paddleboarding in the Lake District

You can read a great interview with Jo here.

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Other pages to check out on my blog & information you need to know about

My Vinted article for Thrift Plan Enjoy blog is featured in The Sun newspaper

TikTok video here.

I am accepting guest posts on my blog. All the details you need are here.

A summary of the guest posts I wrote for other people

Why I Hid My Anxiety From Everyone For Years

5 autumnal themed accessories I will be purchasing this year and why they add value to my home

Why There Is No Time Limit For Recovery From Mental Illness

Together In Mamahood interview: Sam, Mummy Conquering Anxiety

The Reality of Severe Anxiety – Guest Post by Sam

Head over and check them out. It’s great to have my writing on other people’s sites. Follow me on Twitter for updates on my guest posts.

Read all about why I started a TikTok account here.

Sign up for my monthly newsletter, to gain access to exclusive offers & updates.

Sign up for my freebie library. Each week there will be a new freebie added to help organise your life and take away some stress!

A summary of my recent writing on other platforms

In recent months I’ve also expanded where I publish my writing. Some of what I want to say doesn’t fit with the topics on this blog and it’s refreshing to publish on another platform.

Why it’s important to look after your mental health, especially when outside factors are so out of control

Summary

Paddleboarding in the Lake District

5 Reasons Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind

Please note – this is a collaborative post 

Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind

If you also need some relaxation, join me on a journey to finding a mindless, enjoyable task, where you can focus your attention for a while and switch off.

Sam – Founder – Mummy Conquering Anxiety Blog

If you’re new around here and haven’t followed the journey, from the creation of my blog to now, then you might not know I am a constantly busy person who is prone to burnout.

As a busy mum, working out the school schedule, swimming lessons and appointments for a five-year-old is a job in itself. Let alone working and managing everything else in life.

I find it difficult to switch off, but these days I force myself to let my mind relax. And playing simple games, that you don’t have to think about, help me to do that!

If you also need some relaxation, join me on a journey to finding a mindless, enjoyable task, where you can focus your attention for a while and switch off.

A Creative Outlet

As a creative person myself, someones I am not always in the mood for writing a full blog post and frankly, sometimes I just don’t have the brain power for an in-depth task. But, it’s nice to display your creativity in ways that don’t exert too much energy or time.

Games like Minecraft and The Sims can allow you to build a whole world for yourself, just the way you imagined. And we all know how powerful imagination can be, not just for kids but also for adults.

Games help create a flow state

One of the main tools I use to manage low periods of mental health is hypnotherapy and meditation. Games can also help create a flow state, similar to mediation. Where you are awake, but your mind is focused on one task. You are essentially switching off your logical brain. And using the creative, imaginative side of the brain.

Games are rewarding

We all know that social networks gear their algorithms around the brain reward system. The same applies to online games. Winning or making progress in a game can trigger this chemical process in our brains. And it allows us to feel a sense of achievement.

Games allow you to destress from the day

In the world of work, we often face an 8-10 hour day of mostly focusing on work-related tasks or the stresses that come along with employment. After using our brains constantly for this period, we must have a de-stress technique, to almost get our mind out of work mode. A recent study found that mobile phone games can help you recover from a long workday, in the same way mindfulness apps work.

Games help decision making & problem solving

Sometimes part of the fun is losing or getting it wrong. And the sense of achievement you feel when you finally crack the game is immense. Games can help us improve our decision-making and problem-solving skills, by ultimately going through a process to win the game.

Within an online game, feedback is immediate. So if you lose, you can quickly change your decision-making to enable you to achieve your desired result the next time you play.

Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind

REMEMBER – Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind. I want to share some of the recent games I played and why I loved them.

cashier simulator

Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind

I loved playing the cashier simulator game because it allowed me to complete really basic calculations in a fun way. Almost powering down my brain, to allow me to perform with minimal effort required.

And I found the task enjoyable. The music was relaxing and this is even something I could play with my little girl.

cash back

Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind

I loved the interface of cash back. When visiting the home screen, the game is colourful and attractive.

It was also great to use the buttons to increase the amounts you give to the characters as cash back.

The tally at the bottom which counted sales was also great.

Mind.org.uk has a page recommending some puzzles and games you can use to help you distract yourself. Check out the page here.

Lego City adventures – build and protect

Lego game

I actually got really distracted with Lego City adventures – build and protect – because I loved it so much.

It gave me The Sims vibes, where you helped build a city and reveal the bricks.

I will be playing this one on my own to destress and probably with the little one.

Want to keep reading about this topic? Why not check out WebMD and their great reasons that playing games can help your mental health?

Hidden Food

Me and the little one were literally shouting at the screen while playing Hidden Food. We loved spotting the foods in the massive pile.

Think Where’s Wally but in the kitchen. This will now be one of our favourite phone games.

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My Review of The Old Bridge Cafe In Skipton

Welcome to My review of The Old Bridge Cafe In Skipton.

The hubby and I recently had some time to visit Skipton town centre. I hadn’t slept well the night before and just wanted a place to sit down and feel homely. Like many other people, we usually opt for Wetherspoons, because you know what you’re getting food-wise.

I wanted to introduce you all to this little gem of a cafe that we found and tell you about our yummy breakfasts! Just check out the picture below – it was also a lovely hot drink. 

The Old Bridge Cafe In Skipton

Location 

  • Address – 33 Coach Street, Skipton, BD23 1LQ, United Kingdom
  • Telephone number – 01756 228326

📍The Old Bridge Cafe In Skipton – As per the picture, we had the best breakfast ever. The seating was great and the atmosphere was lovely!

Check out my in-depth review of this great little gem. Where I cover – car parking, Trip Advisor reviews, food hygiene status, seating, the vibe and some information you might not know.

We will be returning soon – https://rb.gy/u4wkjc

#daysout #dayoutreview #cafereview #familyplacestoeat #mummyconqueringanxiety

Car Parking

There is a car park right outside the cafe, which also makes the town centre accessible—bonus points for having a toilet block that was very clean and easy to use.

Address – Bridge Street Car Park – Bridge St, Skipton BD23 1LQ

Parking Charges

  • up to 1 hour: £1.10.
  • up to 2 hours: £2.10.
  • up to 3 hours: £3.20.
  • up to 4 hours: £4.20.
  • up to 11 hours: £7.30.
The Old Bridge Cafe In Skipton

Trip Advisor 

You can check out the Trip Advisor reviews here

The importance of leaving a Trip Advisor review 

As you can see from the link above, there is only one review. I am about to add another. But it’s so important for small businesses to receive reviews from customers who have visited. 

Food Hygiene ratings 

Did you know that you can check food hygiene ratings online? Here is the page for the Old Bridge Cafe

What did we eat

I know you all want to get stuck into the good stuff. The food we ate when we visited and what we had to drink.

The fry-up was lovely. The main selling point was the sausage, which was obviously sourced locally. And it was lovely toast with a great cup of tea to accompany the meal.

Check out my other day-out reviews below:

Is a Kids Pass Worth It? My Honest Review – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

A Rundown of the UK Merlin Attractions To Visit With The Kids

Worth Valley Railway – A Fun Packed Day Out

5 Fantastic Reasons To Visit East Riddlesden Hall

The benefits of soft play at Kidzplay Shipley & other soft play centres

My review of Billy Bobs Parlour, Skipton, North Yorkshire

Trying Out The New Play:Class:Eat Sessions At Kidzplay Shipley

A List Of Affordable And Fun Family-Friendly Festivals In The UK

My review of Kemps Farm, Horsforth pumpkin picking event

Just Eat

You will be pleased to know the cafe is available on JustEat for delivery.

Seating 

When you first walk into the cafe, it can be a little daunting if the downstairs is full. But there is plenty of seating upstairs and we were pretty much left alone up there the whole time we ate, which was relaxing. 

There is also a small outside area to the cafe’s rear, so alfresco dining if you fancy it. 

Summary 

I can’t wait to take my little one back for some grub. We know she would be fine sitting upstairs and I am sure she will love the food, just like we did. 

The Old Bridge Cafe In Skipton

The Noble Comb Hungry Horse Pub in Shipley – MCA Review

Welcome to The Noble Comb Hungry Horse Pub in Shipley – MCA Review.

Back in the day, this pub used to have a wacky warehouse. And as kids, we loved visiting. As an adult with my own child young now, I love the revamped feel of the pub.

We’ve recently booked a table, ate there and also used the play area. 

The Noble Comb Hungry Horse Pub

So here is my review. 

Location 

Quayside, Salts Mill Road, Shipley, West Yorkshire, United Kingdom, BD18 3ST

Telephone – 01274 585 770

OPENING HOURS

Tuesday – 11:00am – 11:00pm

Wednesday – 11:00am – 11:00pm

Thursday – 11:00am – 11:00pm

Friday – 9:00am – 11:00pm

Saturday – 9:00am – 11:00pm

Sunday – 9:00am – 11:00pm

Monday – 11:00am – 11:00pm

SERVING HOURS

Tuesday – 11:00am – 9:00pm

Wednesday – 11:00am – 9:00pm

Thursday – 11:00am – 9:00pm

Friday – 9:00am – 9:00pm

Saturday – 9:00am – 9:00pm

Sunday – 9:00am – 9:00pm

Monday – 11:00am – 9:00pm

Make a booking 

You can make a booking at the pub by clicking here

Check out the full menu below.

The Noble Comb Hungry Horse Pub
The Noble Comb Hungry Horse Pub

Breakfast menu

Trip Advisor 

You can check out the Trip Advisor reviews here

The importance of leaving a Trip Advisor review 

It’s so important for small businesses to receive reviews from customers who have visited. 

Food Hygiene rating

You can check out the Trip Advisor reviews here.

Deals

You can check out the food deals for every day of the week here

Newsletter

You can sign up for the newsletter for the latest deals and offers.

Order on the app

How much do you love the ease of ordering on the app at Wetherspoons? Well, you can now do this at the Noble Comb in Shipley. We ordered on the app and our drinks, then the food came promptly, with a friendly service.

Play area for the kids

Although the play area is small, it’s enough for my child (5 years old) and great for preschool children. Before my little one started school, I frequently took her to pubs like this. Where she could play and I could drink several coffees. There is also an outdoor playground and adequate tables both around the indoor play area and outside.

Useful to know 

The Noble Comb Hungry Horse Pub

Hungry Horse & Greene King jobs

Fancy working at The Noble Comb or a similar pub? Check out all the jobs here.

Want to check out my recent family day out reviews? Click here.

Summary

The Noble Comb Hungry Horse Pub

The Giant at Number Two – book review – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

You may have seen the recent social media post from Sam about taking a social media break. It’s time for a Daddy and little one takeover to review the recent book we were sent. The Giant at Number Two – book review – Mummy Conquering Anxiety.

Daisy-May is known to everyone as having a vivid imagination, so when she tells her family that there is a giant living on their street, as usual nobody believes her. Nobody that is, except her Gran!

Tiny Tree Books
The Giant at Number Two - book review - Mummy Conquering Anxiety

Quick note: Some of the links contained on this page are affiliate links and if you go through them to make a purchase, I will earn a commission. I only recommend products I use myself and think would be useful for other people.

Some of the previous reviews Sam has published

LIVELY LILA BLOG TOUR – A DANCE OF HAPPY DISCOVERY – MUMMY CONQUERING ANXIETY

THE ANNA’S GARDEN BLOG TOUR – MUMMY CONQUERING ANXIETY

THE LONELY TIGER BY TERENIA EDWARDS, SEVERUS LIAN (ILLUSTRATOR)

The Giant at Number Two - book review - Mummy Conquering Anxiety

A little tribute

We are very thankful for such a supportive Mummy & wife. This blog and her other blogs are very special to her and it’s something she thrives on doing in her spare time.

The Giant at Number Two is a beautifully illustrated book, inspired by classic fairytales and with a wonderfully nostalgic feel.
Daisy-May is known to everyone as having a vivid imagination, so when she tells her family that there is a giant living on their street, as usual nobody believes her. Nobody that is, except her Gran!

Excited that there may be a giant living in the neighbourhood (especially one that wears funny masks) they form a plan to find out all they can about him, in order to lure him into a trap. But is there really a giant living next door… and are giants as scary as the stories tell us?

The Giant at Number Two blends traditional storytelling with a self-referential twist that both children and parents will love, and will surely be a welcome addition to any family bookshelf.

Courtesy of Amazon

Buy the book

Reviewing the book

My little girl loves to read a book. Mummy is better at it, but when asked, I love to read a book with her before bed, and this one was great to read.

Wearing a mask to hide the real us

Sam has written in the recent book reviews how these themes resonate with our family. It is important to post honest content that other people can relate this. After all, this is how the blog Mummy Conquering Anxiety was born.

Here are some of the snippets from the recent book reviews:

Snippet from – LIVELY LILA BLOG TOUR – A DANCE OF HAPPY DISCOVERY – MUMMY CONQUERING ANXIETY

ADHD is something which impacts our family. And therefore, it’s a subject we openly discuss with our child. Explaining to her that sometimes people think differently, due to how their brains operate and that is okay.
We also incorporate gentle parenting into our parenting style. As such, we explain that people in her class can react differently due to their upbringing or emotions. And that people don’t always mean what they say. They cannot control how they behave and apologising is the way forward. We regularly apologise to my little one, if it’s needed. The message is that we are all human and nobody is perfect.
We want her to embrace everyone’s differences and uniqueness.

Lively Lila Book Review – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

Snippet from – THE ANNA’S GARDEN BLOG TOUR – MUMMY CONQUERING ANXIETY

Neurodivergence factors into our family. It’s something we are open and honest about with her – explaining that sometimes another person’s brain may work differently. And that is completely okay. Something to be celebrated.

Anna’s Garden Book Review – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

Snippet from – THE LONELY TIGER BY TERENIA EDWARDS, SEVERUS LIAN (ILLUSTRATOR)

I particularly love the sentiment that different is good. And it’s what makes you unique. Also, seeing the image of you that a friend of family member sees, can change the way you think about yourself.
Such a heartwarming book, with a special, much-needed message. Especially in today’s world.

The Lonely Tiger Book Review – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

The publisher


Tiny Tree is an independent children’s book imprint based in Manchester, UK: specialising in
children’s picture books, chapter books, and YA. Tiny Tree books are written for
children, encouraging them to be themselves and live their own truths. In 2023 Tiny Tree was
acquired by publisher Andrews UK.


For more information please contact Anthony Barlow, Publicity & Marketing Manager.

How the themes in the book relate to us

The little one is learning about growth, life cycles and everything in nature at school this term. They hatched their butterflies and recently let them go in the school playground. We are reading Monkey Puzzle, by Julia Donaldson and also Jack & The Beanstalk.

My fave parts of the book

My absolute favourite part of the book is the Gran who totally believes everything Daisy-May says and even has at midnight steakout to seek out the giant. She also makes sure he isn’t a bad giant.

Summary

Having read through Sam’s previous boon reviews, these books have a way of resonating with us as a family. For that reason, I would encourage you to check out Tiny Tree Books and the amazing children’s books they publish.

These stories help us to broach difficult topics with our little one in a child-friendly way.

Lively Lila Blog Tour – A Dance Of Happy Discovery – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

I am thrilled to take part in the Lively Lila blog tour. And to introduce you to such a special book. Today, I will be talking about this amazing children’s book.

Embrace Lila’s unique sparkle as she twirls through life’s ups and downs with ADHD, showing us all how to love who we truly are. And my blog and social media accounts align completely with this message.

Because this issue impacts our family, I feel a huge burden to ensure my little one can always be her true self. What worries me is that as she moves through school and into adult life, there will be messages given to her which contradict our message as parents – to always be yourself.

My plan is to do everything in my power to ensure she can always be her true self.

Sam – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

Backstory – why we love books in our house

It was only right to create a book review page on my blog. Since I was a young girl, I’ve loved books, and writing. I even did an English & Media degree at University. My little one has firmly followed in my footsteps and we read a range of books with her. I talk about this more on my TikTok account. Check out the videos below and give me a follow.

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The Anna’s Garden Blog Tour Buy the book because it’s a magical account of a little girl who struggles – but decides to make friends in her own way ❤️ click the link in bio to the taken to the #blogpost BLOG – https://rb.gy/0693j2 LINK TO PURCHASE – https://uk.bookshop.org/a/10106/9781837914845 #bookreviews #mummyblogger #mummyconqueringanxiety

♬ Alright – Avi Snow & Sync & Marky Style
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Such a wonderful #book by @iamsimplyysophie ❤️❤️ We love it so much – I will always talk about how great it is! #mummycontentcreator #schoolrunmum #mums #mumlife #mummybloggeruk #mummyconqueringanxiety #TikTokMadeMeBuyIt

♬ original sound – Sam | Mummy Conquering Anxiety

If you want your book to be reviewed, I would love to hear from you – contact me here.

Lively Lila Blog Tour

Ultimately, we could all do with a little dose of seeing everyone’s wonderful and unique differences through the eyes of a child. If we did this, we would embrace everyone’s uniqueness and experience more joy in life. Kindness and a world without judgment would prevail.

Sam – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

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Let’s dive into the review

First reading

I first read this book with my little girl – when we were tucked up in bed. She loves reading a book to settle her down at night.

ADHD is something which impacts our family. And therefore, it’s a subject we openly discuss with our child. Explaining to her that sometimes people think differently, due to how their brains operate and that is okay.

We also incorporate gentle parenting into our parenting style. As such, we explain that people in her class can react differently due to their upbringing or emotions. And that people don’t always mean what they say. They cannot control how they behave and apologising is the way forward. We regularly apologise to my little one, if it’s needed. The message is that we are all human and nobody is perfect.

We want her to embrace everyone’s differences and uniqueness.

How to discuss the topic of ADHD with children

Because this is a topic close to our hearts, I follow the discussion on social media and in the news. I’m aware that a lot of adults don’t want ADHD or autism to be referred to as superpowers, but I think we need to consider the intended audience. And how we broach this subject with younger people.

What I love, is that the book talks about Lila’s wonderful personality traits. But also the things in life she struggles with. Because of what I’ve read on social media, I will admit that the reference to a superpower in the book caused me to question whether we should be saying this or not.

But you know what, although it felt difficult for me to read those words, it opened up a positive conversation with my little one, about the topic of ADHD. She asked if she had it and commented on some of the things she does, like remembering everything – even things from a really long time ago. it’s true. She almost has a photographic memory; we’ve noticed it since she was little. Amongst other personality traits which have led me to have these open discussions with her.

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Tools for opening up conversations with children

I think we need to ask why as adults, we have these beliefs ingrained in us. Surely the issue is as simple as seeing someone for who they are and respecting everyone’s differences. It’s society and the constructs we have in place, which make it difficult to do that.

Ultimately, we could all do with a little dose of seeing everyone’s wonderful and unique differences through the eyes of a child. If we did this, we would embrace everyone’s uniqueness and experience more joy in life. Kindness and a world without judgment would prevail.

Worries about my family

Because this issue impacts our family, I feel a huge burden to ensure my little one can always be her true self. What worries me is that as she moves through school and into adult life, there will be messages given to her which contradict our message as parents – to always be yourself.

I plan to do everything in my power to ensure she can always be her true self.

Books like this give me hope that things could change. And I hope they do!

Tiny Tree Books

I’ve now reviewed several amazing books published by Tiny Tree Books and I want to say a massive thank you to them – for publishing books that deal with such difficult topics. In a great way that allows kids to engage with the subject.

Synopsis

Step into Lila’s whirlwind world in A Dance of Happy Discovery

Embrace Lila’s unique sparkle as she twirls through life’s ups and downs with ADHD, showing us all how to love who we truly are.

Young readers, prepare to be dazzled by this exciting adventure that’s bursting with boldness, bravery, and the fun of being different.

Dive into Lila’s story and uncover a tale that’s all about standing strong, letting your creativity fly, and celebrating the superhero within!

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20 Relatable Bluey Parenting Moments We Love

As a family, we’ve loved Bluey for a long time. We can relate to Chilli & Bandit. Bluey is as much for adults, as it is for kids. And I love that we can all sit down, as a family, to watch the show and thoroughly love every minute of it. In this post, I discuss my favourite Relatable Bluey Parenting Moments.

If you follow me on TikTok, you will have seen my reaction to the most recent episode of Bluey. Where fans eagerly awaited the outcome of whether the Heeler family would sell their house. And move to a new city. A huge upheaval for any young child. But we know Bluey loves to tackle social issues and difficult topics – teaching our children, and parents how to be emotionally intelligent.

As a family, we incorporate gentle parenting into our parenting style. And we love the gentle way Chilli and Bandit explain things to the girls. We are here for it. Bluey will always have a special place in my heart.

Side note – I started writing this post following Season 3 – Episode 49 – The Sign. However whilst writing, Bluey then released Season 3 – Episode 50 – Surprise. And I honestly cannot stop thinking about an older version of the character Bluey and the fact that all kids and parents grow up. We will never be this way again, at this very moment. Time is precious and it flies by quickly. I love that the show captured this sentiment, shared by many other parents.

Check out the TikTok videos I made about Bluey

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Life can be difficult, as a parent to young kids. When you’re working hard to give them a great life. You’re tired every day and the little ones push your buttons. My blog is all about acknowledging the reality of parenting and just how difficult it can be.

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The recent episode – Season 3 – Episode 49 – The Sign

What an emotional rollercoaster the episode was. So much happened in the lead-up to the final moments. And all these little moments were like a win for the family and their extended family. We also saw some background characters getting their little wins in life. And we were cheering them on as we watched.

Relatable Bluey Parenting Moments

Why I’m writing about Bluey on my blog

Since the episode aired I’ve followed other parents’ reactions on TikTok. Every time I see the clip or hear the song, at the end of the episode, it makes me emotional again! 

Writing is the way I express myself. It always has been. And this is a topic I’m enthusiastic about. For all those commenters on TikTok videos saying “they are just cartoon dogs” you probably shouldn’t read on – whilst I respect any opinion which is different to mine. I’m just not sure our opinions align. And that’s okay. It’s what makes the world go around.

Bluey fans. Parents, and anyone interested in the amazing, emotional, relatable show – stick around.

Relatable Bluey Parenting Moments

Let’s dive into the Relatable Bluey Parenting Moments – the show presented us with, long before the eagerly-anticipated recent episode:

1. Season 1 – Episode 14: Takeaway

Parenting takeaway: Sometimes you have to ditch your plans & have fun with the kids

The episode shows the chaos that can ensue when young children have to wait around and become bored. Parents – the struggle is real. And I love that the Bluey creators show how difficult it can be. Especially if you are lone parenting with two kids. The episode is also hilarious to watch. And heartwarming that Bandit eventually joins in the fun, with the kids. Chilli knew all along – the kids wouldn’t have the patience to wait.

2. Season 1 – Episode 3: Keepy Uppy

Parenting takeaway: Sometimes fun can cross over into not so much fun for the littlies

It might be a dad thing. But the dad in our house sometimes takes the fun too far. And maybe this is what dads are supposed to do. We can all relate to Bandit:

Did I make it a little too fun? It’s a hard one to get right.” Any parents will know that it is a hard one to get right. The whole parenting thing in general.

3. Season 2 – Episode 40: Octopus

Parenting takeaway: We aren’t always the best at everything

As parents, we’ve all experienced a slight bit of jealousy. Sometimes, I feel like I can’t play games as well as Daddy can. Daddy probably envies me for my organisational skills. As parents, we learnt to play to our strengths. And not be offended if the little one goes to one parent over the other. She seeks different qualities from each of us.

This episode explores finding your way, as a family, when having fun.

4. Season 2 – Episode 26: Sleepytime

Parenting takeaway: You are the whole world to your kids

This episode gets me in the feels. Because it is so heartwarming and the music brings out all the emotion. All our kids know, is us. Their immediate family. At such a young age, they rely on us for everything. Which can be overwhelming at times. But beautiful. The episode reminds me to cherish these moments with the little one, whilst she is still little.

5. Season 2 – Episode 43: Duck Cake

Parenting takeaway: All parents lose it sometimes – and that is okay

I’ve talked on my blog and TikTok about being triggered as a parent. Every human being walking this earth has automatic reactions, that we can’t always control. That is okay. Bandit shows a real human side in this episode, which then causes the kids to listen. Sometimes, when there is chaos in the house – these moments are needed. it’s a good lesson for the kids on cause and effect. Teaching them that life has consequences – everyone, even adults, can become overwhelmed.

Relatable Bluey Parenting Moments

6. Season 2 – Episode 50: Grandad

Parenting takeaway: no matter how old you and your kids are – they will always be your kids

The end of the episode always gets me emotional. The episode explores the relationship of a daughter and dad when old age creeps in and the roles are slightly reversed.

At the end, Chilli asks if her dad remembers her running around when she was young, to which he replies “It wasn’t a long time ago; it was yesterday.

7. Season 1, Episode 22: The Pool

Parenting takeaway: you will never remember everything you need for a trip out with the kids

Writing about this episode is giving me flashbacks to the baby rucksack days – when you need three fully packed bags, just to walk to the shop. It’s difficult when you have a small baby and need a lot of supplies.

Getting out of the house is particularly challenging because we have an easily distracted child. I sometimes let out a huge sigh of relief when she is strapped in the car seat and I can just breathe.

The episode also shows us the teamwork between Chilli and Bandit. And not saying, “I told you so” – even when you really want to.

8. Season 2 – Episode 9: Bingo

Parenting takeaway: siblings are vastly different in personality traits

As parents to a soon-to-be five-year-old, we love the episodes that focus on Bingo. This one doesn’t disappoint. It explores Bingo learning to play alone – a favourite moment of the episode – “The fridge doesn’t like me.” What a cutie!

9. Season 2 – Episode 17: Fancy Restaurant

Parenting takeaway: Romance doesn’t always mean big gestures

I love this episode. Showing us all that romance doesn’t have to mean fancy restaurants. Sometimes, it’s just the little things parents do for each other that matter. Like eating the horrible plate of food the kids made. Hilarious and heartwarming.

10. Season 1 – Episode 28 – Grannies

Parenting takeaway: Give your children the option and let them choose the right path

In this episode, the girls teach Grandma to floss. But the parenting lesson is more about whether you prefer to be right or have fun. And what a great lesson to teach young kids.

It also reminds me of my younger days, at my Grandma’s house – doing special things together – which will be ingrained in our memories forever.

11. Season 3 – Episode 24: Faceytalk

Parenting takeaway: Life isn’t always perfect but the fun continues anyway

This is the most played episode in our house. We love it and laugh throughout. We also have a child very similar to Muffin, but I think all children have muffin moments, don’t they?

The moment which strikes me is Muffin’s parents arguing in the background on Faceytalk. Bandit carefully explains the girls should mute the volume until they have finished speaking. Moments like this make me feel validated. We all argue, especially as parents – and I love that Bluey shows us the reality of this.

Life can be difficult, as a parent to young kids. When you’re working hard to give them a great life. You’re tired every day and the little ones push your buttons. My blog is all about acknowledging the reality of parenting and just how difficult it can be.

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12. Season 2 – Episode 16 – Army

Parenting takeaway: Despite worries, the kids will be okay making friends at school

Absolute hats off to Bluey for exploring the topic of ADHD, with this lovable character. It’s a topic which impacts our family and therefore, one of our favourite episodes.

It’s also a great look at the way children might view these difficulties – with remembering things. In our family, we explain to the little one that other people can have different brains and they sometimes do things a bit differently. We are slowly starting to broach the subject in an age-appropriate way. And this episode helps us do that.

13. Season 2 – Episode 41 – Bin Night

Parenting takeaway: Spend time talking to your kids about their day works wonders

This episode follows Bandit and the kids carrying out a mundane task. Obviously to the girls, this is very exciting. And it prompts a conversation about something which is troubling Bingo. All is well in the end though. Talking it through with a parent helps Bingo.

14. Season 2 – Episode 1 – Dance mode

Parenting takeaway: Don’t let the fear of looking foolish, stop you from having fun

This is one of our top three episodes. I mean, the song is enough to make you love it. But watching the embarrassment of the parents. Which then turns into total fun – never gets old.

Don’t be afraid to dance like nobody is watching. Have fun with your kids and try not to care what other people think.

15. Season 2 – Episode 6 – Stumpfest

Parenting takeaway: Parents need their outlet and playtime

It’s healthy for parents to do something which doesn’t revolve around kids. It’s also healthy for the kids to realise this and not always be with their parents. We’ve always wanted a range of social settings for our little one – nursery, staying at the grandparent’s every weekend and generally doing her own thing – when it’s appropriate. I think it’s good for young children.

The most heartwarming thing about this episode is Chilli explaining to Bluey that the dads are playing. Bluey then goes on to help them play their game.

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16. Season 3 – Episode 43 – Dragon

Parenting takeaway: Sometimes difficult topics can be explored whilst spending time together

There is a reason parents and therapists use drawing as a technique to speak to children. In this episode we see Chilli tell a heartwarming story about her Mum, to encourage Bluey to continue drawing. It also touches on the topic of Chilli’s Mum no longer being around.

The family encourage Bluey to persist with a task and also explain a very difficult topic to the girls. It’s also emotional when Chilli fondly remembers her mum.

17. Season 3 – Episode 26 – Fairytale

Parenting takeaway: Sometimes kids are mean to each other and deserve consequences

This episode is in my top five – because of the nostalgia. How many parents have told their kids stories about “back in the day”? This story sees Bandit admitting he was pretty horrible to his Brother and there should be consequences.

The most emotional moment is when Bandit says he met Chilli at the caravan park when they were kids. Lovely, wholesome, family moment.

18. Season 1 – Episode 43 – Camping

Parenting takeaway: People come in and out of our lives, probably for good reason. And teaching kids this is important

On the subject of camping, we love this episode. Despite a language barrier, the kids (Bluey & Jean Luc) have fun together and feel like they made friends. Only to miss each other when one of them leaves the campsite. It is lovely to see a teenage Bluey reunited with Jean Luc though. And very emotional.

19. Season 3 – Episode 1 – Bedroom

Parenting takeaway: Sometimes plans have to be changed, according to what the kids want and need

As a parent, you quickly learn to go with the flow. If emotions bubble up, or a little one needs comfort, it’s time to change something. immediately, if possible!

But this episode also explores encouraging your kids to give it a try. Another great lesson for kids to learn.

20. Season 3 – Episode 31 – Onesies

Parenting takeaway: Sometimes people have to deal with their own emotions and explaining this to the kids can be a good thing

There will always be difficult subjects to tackle in life and Bluey always gets this right! Brandy comes to visit, and after some fun with onesies and the older sisters (Chilli & Brandy) reenacting a dance they did when they were younger, Chilli can explain to Bluey why Brandy is sad. And that we don’t always get what we want in life. Even if it’s something we desire.

Summary of Relatable Bluey Parenting Moments

Season 3 – Episode 49 – The Sign

Season 3 – Episode 50 – Surprise

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The Anna’s Garden Blog Tour – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

My little one has always loved reading books. She now asks to read a paragraph of my adult books and you can see the joy on her face when she soaks up the new words.

We’ve always made a point of reading a range of stories with my little girl. However, since she is currently experiencing strong emotions. We’ve intentionally bought books to help her understand these emotions. We also choose books which talk about different cultures and differences in the people she will encounter in life. This is very important to us, as parents.

Neurodivergence factors into our family. It’s something we are open and honest about with her – explaining that sometimes another person’s brain may work differently. And that is completely okay. Something to be celebrated.

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The Anna’s Garden Blog Tour – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

I am thrilled to take part in the Anna’s Garden blog tour. And to introduce you to such a special book.

Anna’s Garden is a book about kindness and finding happiness. And my blog and social media accounts align completely with this message.

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The Synopsis – the short version

“Anna knows what she likes and what she is good at. Even though catching a ball is not her favourite game, and loud noises make her ears hurt, there are lots of other things she can do. Anna likes to spend time on her own, but she is also very kind and likes to share the things she enjoys with others.”

The first reading

Upon reading this book for the first time with my little one, the magic of friendship came across to me and by the end of the story, I felt emotional. The illustrations also bring the book to life.

I hope Anna’s Garden is a story that will support children who sometimes find the world a difficult place. It is also a message to all children to be kind, because we are all different and have so much to learn from each other.

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Why you should buy the book

You should buy the book because it’s a magical account of a little girl who struggles – but decides to make friends in her own way. We might sometimes follow a different path to get to our end goal. And that is okay.

How to order the book

Anna’s Garden was published by Tiny Tree Children’s Books on the March 14th.  order your copy today!

The full synopsis

‘Anna’s Garden’ is a charming story of happiness and self-discovery, told from the perspective of a neurodivergent young girl — Anna!

Anna knows what she likes and what she is good at.

Even though catching a ball is not her favourite game and loud noises make her ears hurt, there are lots of other things that Anna can do. Although she likes to spend time on her own, she is also very kind and loves sharing with others.

Anna’s Garden is a classic rhyming picture book with a charming art style, written and illustrated by Sarah Hewitt. With a memorable cast and unique handling of its themes, this story will help young readers embrace their true selves.

Final Thoughts

This will remain one of my favourite stories to read to my little one and we will keep the book to look over, as she gets older.

You can read more about Sarah’s motivation for writing the book here.