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Why Coldstream Holiday Park Is a Great Base to Explore the Scottish Borders

📍LOCATION – Kelso Rd, Coldstream TD12 4LG

Let’s explore why Coldstream Holiday Park is a great base to explore the Scottish Borders.

Coldstream Holiday Park

We picked Coldstream Holiday Park as there was a great deal on Hoseasons. And we do love a quiet holiday park. We’ve taken my little one to the well-known caravan sites, and whilst the entertainment is amazing, it’s too overwhelming and overcrowded for us all. These days, we opt for a small caravan site, surrounded by nature, with a playground. Where we can feel relaxed, but also use this as a base for day trips. We are usually not too fussy about the bar or swimming pool – if a park has these, then great. But it isn’t a must for us!

As a family of three, we created a tradition of visiting castles and exploring local attractions, using our English Heritage membership. Therefore, any decision about the location of our staycation depends completely on our itinerary for the days we are there. 

With this particular holiday at Coldstream Holiday Park, I am glad we opted for a caravan with a hot tub. The little one was quite unwell for the first few days we were there, and it was great to ditch the day out plans and actually relax in the hot tub and a quiet and peaceful location. 

For this post, I want to do something a little different and tell you everything we got up to in the area, as well as my thoughts on the park and some pictures. 

A walk to the town

From the holiday park, you can take a 10 -15-minute walk on the main road, to the local town. It’s mostly flat and safe to walk with a child. In the town, you will find a Coop, a charity shop, cafes, the best playground we’ve ever visited, and a few pubs. As well as lots of other shops, we didn’t get to experience. 

We got some lovely bits at the charity shop and had some lunch and a few drinks in the local pub, where my little one became besties with a dachshund for an hour!

The walk back was a little difficult after the food and drink, and with a moaning six-year-old, but it was lovely to get dressed up and go out in the fresh air, without worrying about taking the car out. 

The playgrounds

The caravan site has a playground, but it was very overcrowded at night, with older children. One night, my husband took her to the playground in the town centre, and we returned many times throughout the week, due to how amazing it was. 

There were times when the on-site playground was quieter, and we still had a walk over to it on some evenings.

Berwick Upon Tweed 

We visited Berwick upon Tweed expecting a seaside resort town, but what actually got was a bit of a small, run-down town. There are plenty of shops, but we were a little disappointed with the English Heritage site at the top of the hill. I probably wouldn’t return unless we needed something in particular from some shops. 

Castles 

We usually organise our holidays so that we can visit castles in the area. And this dictates everything we do during the course of our holiday. 

Our English Heritage membership allows us to visit many sites and receive discounted rates at some National Trust sites as well. It’s exciting to see what events are upcoming! 

There are some great Halloween events planned – check out the English Heritage website, and if you want to sign up for your own membership, click the button below. 

Bamburgh and Alnwick Castle 

The highlight of our week was definitely the stunning castles that every tourist wants to see when visiting the area. 

Because we had a poorly little girl, we unfortunately couldn’t do two castles in one day. But as a slight consolation, we found a lookout point for Bamburgh Castle and took some lovely pictures. 

We also drove through the town, which is wonderful in itself. Setting ourselves up for when we return. Weirdly, I am glad we didn’t see everything during our week in August, because we’ve booked to go back to the Scottish borders soon. With a full itinerary and plan for the week. 

Bamburgh is number one on the list. Unfortunately, by the time we go back, Alnwick Castle will closed for the winter, as the family returns and uses it as their home. 

However, there are a few attractions next to the castle that are open. Including Alnwick gardens. 

Shall we take a look at the Alnwick activities?

QUICK NOTE ON PARKING – Basically, when we got to Alnwick, we were confused about the parking, but the whole village is taken over by the castle, its grounds and the other amenities. Everyone parks in a huge car park, which you pay £3.50 to park all day, so it definitely is worth the day out costs.

Lilidorei:

A large adventure village within The Alnwick Garden, featuring the world’s largest play structure and other magical attractions

When we visited Alnwick Castle, my little one wanted to go into the attraction, but unfortunately, we were too busy with the activities we had planned. Therefore, we have agreed to take her back. Tickets are slightly cheaper if you enter between 1 pm and 4 pm, which I think we will do.

Forgotten garden crazy golf

If you wanted to park up and do the crazy golf only, you can. Head to The Golf Kiosk or Gift Shop to book! No Garden entry ticket required.

The charm of the park – five things I love

Coldstream Holiday Park

How quiet it is 

We’ve done the Haven and Parkdean thing, and honestly, all of us got overwhelmed with the noise level and how busy it is. It’s great if you can go whilst your children are under 5 years old, and we took advantage of this. But for our family, it’s just too much during school holidays. 

The views 

I know we were holidaying on the Scottish Borders, but the views were absolutely immense. So beautiful, and it felt peaceful and relaxing to wake up to that each day. 

The hot tub

The hot tub was a massive bonus. Something we didn’t expect when we started looking for our holiday, but we managed to get a great deal! It was lovely and relaxing, but to get a look in with my toddler around, I had to be up early in the morning, and I made sure to have a dip late at night. 

Because it was way too expensive to add the hot tub for the next holiday (£350 more for the hot tub caravan) we have settled for a basic caravan this time. For three of us, that’s fine. We may just have to find a local swimming pool to take the little one to! 

The playground, kids around, but also relaxed vibe 

Sometimes it’s difficult for a caravan park to find the right balance, where families and kids are involved, but some people also want a relaxing vibe. But Coldstream Holiday Park gets it spot on. There are loads of kids playing in the playground, but around your caravan is still peaceful and secluded. 

Location

This is by far the best bonus. You get to be i the heart of the Scottish Borders but without the price tag. Within driving distance of Edinburgh and the coast. You can’t really put a price tag on this, which is why we are returning soon!

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Our Overnight Stay at Abington Services – MCA Review

LOCATION 📍Welcome Break Abington Service Area J13, M74, Biggar ML12 6RG

Our stay at Abington Services ⬇️Staying at The Days Inn by Wyndham Abington M74

Overnight Stay at Abington Services

Who would have thought a motorway service station would be so full of charm! 

Here are all my thoughts:

Parking

Parking is free all day & night (when staying at the hotel)- just add your car registration. You also get 2 hours free parking at the services, and you can pay for additional parking or to park a caravan overnight.  

Ameneties

The hotel has amenities – like drinks & anything you might have forgotten, in the foyer – including alcohol. And we saw two lovely older couples having the time of their lives, chatting on a park bench for most of the evening ❤️

Check out my TikTok review

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Our stay at Abington Services ⬇️ Days Inn by Wyndham Abington M74 Who would have thought a motorway services would be so full of charm! Here are all my thoughts: Parking is free all day & night (when staying at the hotel)- just add your car registration The hotel has amenities – like drinks & anything you might have forgotten, in the foyer – including alcohol. And we saw two lovely older couples having the time of their lives, chatting on a park bench for most of the evening ❤️ Next door at the services, there is a Burger King, Chopstix and other shops We loved having a walk around the services, following the dog walk, lovely views of birds flying overhead, amazing sunsets & spectacular views of the Trainline, with planes going over head & it just felt amazing to be out in the wild. In my PJ’s might I add – I felt comfortable to do this 😂 We slept so well! The rooms are dated & the shower wasn’t the best BUT it was a good night’s sleep & for £80 per night, compared with Edinburgh prices – you cannot complain! We stayed here to arrive early & get the drive out of the way – so we could enjoy our holiday at Coldstream Holiday Park – staying in a caravan with hot tub (3.5 hour drive without stops) I would definitely return. Or we’ve agreed to wave to the services if we ever take the train to Edinburgh! ❤️ (for clarity – we called in at other services. Notably, Scotch Corner on the way back home & some are just chaos, not fit for purpose & stressful) this one is the opposite ✅ #abington #mummyconqueringanxiety #family #familyholiday #scotland

♬ Kratos (A Little Closer) [Extended Mix] – Alex LeMirage

The services and what’s available

Next door at the services, there is a Burger King, Chopstix and other shops – including WH Smiths and Starbucks.

Here are all the things available onsite:

Overnight Stay at Abington Services
Image courtesy of Welcome Break

The surrounding area

We loved having a walk around the services, following the dog walk, lovely views of birds flying overhead, amazing sunsets and spectacular views of the Trainline, with planes going overhead, and it just felt amazing to be out in the wild. In my pyjamas, might I add – I felt comfortable doing this.

How well did we sleep

We slept so well! The rooms are dated and the shower wasn’t the best BUT it was a good night’s sleep and for £80 per night, compared with Edinburgh prices – you cannot complain! 

Why did we choose a motorway services hotel?

We stayed here to arrive early and get the drive out of the way – so we could enjoy our holiday at Coldstream Holiday Park – staying in a caravan with a hot tub, which was a 3.5-hour drive away without stops.

Check out my TikTok video about Coldstream Holiday Park

@sammummyconqueringanxiet

We had the most amazing #holiday at Coldstream Holiday Park ⬇️ Full review incoming on the #blog soon! #hoseasonsholidays #hoseasons #mummyconqueringanxiety

♬ Strangers – Kenya Grace

Breakfast

The Welcome Break next door is advertised in the hotel for breakfast – The Good Breakfast is the brand. It’s basically a counter service, where you order breakfasts – a bit like fast food orders, but for fry-ups. It was £8.99 for a small breakfast, or £10.99 for a large, and you could get a breakfast sandwich.

Summary

I would definitely return. Or we’ve agreed to wave to the services if we ever take the train to Edinburgh!

I chose to write all about this stay because I know some motorway services can be rubbish and stressful! (for clarity – we called in at other services. Notably, Scotch Corner on the way back home is often chaotic, not fit for purpose and stressful. Abington is the opposite.

Other reviews are available on my blog

Over the summer holidays, we visited Craven Leisure Centre, and we had the best time ever. I wanted to share all the details with you, should you decide to visit.

Check out the full post here

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Yoga Poses to Start Your Practice With

Let’s talk all things Yoga Poses…

Yoga has been around for centuries, and it’s easy to see why. It’s a simple way to build strength, increase flexibility, and find some calm in a busy world. Yoga isn’t about fancy moves or being super bendy, it’s about feeling good in your body and mind.

If you’re looking to lower your stress, improve focus, or just move a little more gently, yoga is the perfect go-to. If you’re new or getting back to the basics, knowing the right poses makes all the difference. And if you find yourself loving it, OriGym’s accredited yoga teacher training course is a great way to turn that passion into a career.

Yoga Poses

Here are ten simple yoga poses to help you build confidence, connect with your breathing, and get comfortable on the mat.

1) Mountain Pose (Tadasana)

It might look simple, but the Mountain Pose is the foundation of all standing poses. It teaches posture, balance and groundedness.

➡️ How to do it: Stand tall with your feet together, shoulders relaxed, and arms by your sides. Engage your thighs and lift your chest. Breathe deeply and feel rooted through your feet.

➡️ Benefits of Mountain Pose: Mountain Pose helps with alignment and improves your posture both on and off the mat.

2) Downward-Facing Dog (Adho Mukha Svanasana)

This classic pose appears in nearly every yoga class. It’s a great full-body stretch and resting position.

➡️How to do it: From hands and knees, lift your hips towards the ceiling, straighten your legs and form an inverted V-shape. Press your palms into the mat and let your head relax.

➡️Benefits of Downward-Facing Dog: It strengthens your arms and shoulders while stretching your back, hamstrings and calves.

3) Cat-Cow Pose (Marjaryasana-Bitilasana)

The cat-cow pose is often used as a warm-up as the gentle flow between two poses wakes up the spine and introduces breath-to-movement coordination.

➡️ How to do it: On your hands and knees, inhale to arch your back (Cow), lifting your tailbone and head. Exhale to round your spine (Cat), tucking your chin and tailbone.

➡️ Benefits of Cat-Cow Pose: It increases your spinal flexibility and relieves any tension that you may have in your back and neck.

4) Child’s Pose (Balasana)

The child’s pose is a restful pose that’s perfect for beginners as it allows you to relax and reset between more challenging postures.

➡️ How to do it: Kneel on the mat, sit back on your heels and stretch your arms forward as you lower your forehead to the ground.

➡️Benefits of Child’s Pose: It calms your mind, relieves fatigue, and gently stretches your hips and thighs.

5) Warrior I (Virabhadrasana I)

Warrior poses help build strength and stamina. Warrior I also challenges your balance and focus.

➡️ How to do it: Step one foot back and bend the front knee, keeping your back foot turned slightly outwards. Raise your arms overhead and gaze forward.

➡️ Benefits of Warrior I: Warrior I strengthens your legs, opens your hips and chest, and builds confidence.

6) Warrior II (Virabhadrasana II)

Warrior II is a powerful pose that encourages inner strength and determination.

➡️ How to do it: From Warrior I, open your hips and arms to face sideways, keeping the front knee bent and back leg straight. Gaze over your front hand.

➡️ Benefits of Warrior II: Warrior II strengthens your legs, tones your core, and improves focus.

7) Tree Pose (Vrksasana)

Balancing poses like the tree pose encourage concentration and a calm, steady mind.

➡️ How to do it: Stand on one leg and place the sole of the other foot against the inner thigh or calf (avoid the knee). Bring your hands together at your heart or raise them overhead.

➡️ Benefits of Tree Pose: It improves balance and stability while strengthening your legs and ankles.

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8) Seated Forward Bend (Paschimottanasana)

The seated forward bend pose allows for a gentle stretch of the back and hamstrings while encouraging introspection.

➡️ How to do it: Sit with your legs extended and reach forward, hinging from the hips. Keep your spine long and avoid rounding the back.

➡️ Benefits of Seated Forward Bend: It soothes your nervous system and helps relieve stress.

9) Bridge Pose (Setu Bandha Sarvangasana)

The bridge pose is a beginner-friendly backbend that opens the chest and strengthens the back and body.

➡️ How to do it: Lie on your back, bend your knees and place your feet hip-width apart. Press into your feet and lift your hips while keeping your arms by your sides.

➡️ Benefits of Bridge Pose: Bridge Pose energises your body, improves posture and strengthens the glutes and lower back.

10) Corpse Pose (Savasana)

It may be the easiest pose physically, but the corpse pose is one of the most important for your mind.

➡️ How to do it: Lie flat on your back, arms and legs relaxed. Close your eyes and focus on your breath.

➡️ Benefits of Corpse Pose: Savasana allows your body to rest and the mind to absorb the benefits of your practice.

Enjoy The Benefits Of Yoga

Yoga poses might seem tricky at first, but once you get the hang of them, they become second nature. These foundational moves help build strength, improve flexibility, and deepen your connection with your body and breath. The more you practise, the more confident and comfortable you’ll feel (both on and off the mat).

Remember, every expert was once a beginner. So take your time, enjoy the process, and soon these poses will feel easy and natural. Roll out your mat, breathe deeply, and have fun with your yoga journey. 

Why Etsy is my go-to marketplace for Father’s Day

Etsy is my go-to marketplace!

Not only do I frequently buy from Etsy, but I am in the process of setting up my own Etsy shop – watch this space! The marketplace is packed full with unique gifting choices that are really one of a kind, which means you don’t have to worry whether someone else will buy the special father-figure in your life the same gift.

Some of the keepsakes we have bought each other over the years, from Etsy, still feature on display in our house years later. And that’s the difference. The quality and uniqueness of the gifts mean the memory is long-lasting.

Etsy is my go-to marketplace

Please note – some of the links contained in this post are affiliate links. If you make a purchase, there is no additional cost to you, but I may make a small commission.

Shall we dive into my top picks for Father’s Day?

Clothing under £50

Children’s Drawing T Shirt – Daddy T-shirt – Dad Personalised Tee

What an amazing idea to have your kids’ artistic masterpiece on a t-shirt for you to wear proudly.

Dad Of Girls #outnumbered

Girl dads will know this feeling. I have one girl and I feel outnumbered!

Personalised Super Dad T Shirt

What a cute image, symbolising the hero dad. Perfectly captures the relationship between a little girl and her daddy.

Grilling gifts under £75

Personalised Wood Engraved ‘Dad’s Barbeque’ Wooden BBQ Chopping Board

Something which would last forever and I am sure, proudly feature at the next BBQ with family and friends.

Personalised Solid Steel Burger Smasher

Who doesn’t love a burger press to make some yummy homemade burgers. The personalisation is what makes this gift special.

Personalised gifts for Dad & Grandad

Here Resides Grandad Polished Metal Heritage Gift Plaque

I don’t know about you, but we always buy gifts for Grandad, and this one is amazing. I can imagine it on Grandad’s garage wall.

Other top picks

Father’s Day Gift, Personalised Tape Measure, Gift for Him, Birthday Gift, Grandad Gift, Christmas Gift for him, Loved Beyond Measure

How cute is this little tape measure?

Personalised Gift for Dad, Daddy Birthday Gift, Handprint Keepsake Gift, Gift from Kids to Dad, DIY Gifts for Dad, Baby Handprint Present

If you didn’t like a gift pick that you like in this list above, do not fear – you can search the Father’s Day Hub at your own leisure.

Take me to the Father’s Day Hub

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6 Amazing Reasons to Book a Holiday at Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

Welcome to my post, all about Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough.

Who else loves the quiet life? The strong need to get away from the hustle and bustle. Switch off your phone and just relax.

As a family, we have busy lives, between working full time, school admin, childcare and fitting in precious time to make family memories and have fun. Sometimes it’s just necessary to switch off completely.

Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

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PLEASE NOTE – all images are courtesy of Sam – founder of Mummy Conquering Anxiety blog and are copyright

Making a holiday booking with a lack of reviews

I’ve talked in my previous review blog posts about reading reviews before booking a holiday, a meal or visiting somewhere. You can usually tell the fair reviews from the people who just want to have a rant. Check out my Places to Eat reviews below:

Great Places To Eat & Drink On the Yorkshire Lancashire Border

The Craft House in Bingley – Is It Worth a Visit?

My Review of The Old Bridge Cafe In Skipton

The Noble Comb Hungry Horse Pub in Shipley – MCA Review

However, sometimes you need to take a chance on a holiday venue when they have just set up and are brand new. When we booked this holiday through Hoseasons, there were only a few reviews added. As such, we had to take that chance.

We are here now

I want to visit places myself before bringing you reviews. We are currently on site now and these are my comments about the place:

Accommodation & value for money – We are staying in The Wainstones pod, which is slightly more roomy than the standard one.

Surroundings – absolutely beautiful & breathtaking views.

Service – friendly, checking in with us but not disturbing our peace.

Nearby places to visit – Stokesley. Great Ayton, Whitby, Middlesborough.

Relaxation factor – 100% relaxation, even with a fiver-year-old.

A base for visiting other places – the perfect base for venturing out and about each day.

I am going into a lot more detail below, so keep reading about the 6 Amazing Reasons to Book a Holiday at Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

Accommodation & value for money

The accommodation is what sold the holiday to us, in the first place. We paid £399.00 when booking direct through Hoseasons. And only paid a £10.00 deposit. Booking in advance allowed us to pay the holiday off in chunks. I didn’t think this price was bad, considering we have a Monday-Friday stay, the first week of the UK school summer holidays AND the addition of the hot tub and amazing view.

We had everything we needed in the pod. A small kitchen area, without an oven, but other amenities such as a microwave, hob, kettle and toaster.

Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

We managed to make some lovely homemade meals, like spaghetti bolognese. And even managed a full fry-up, to make fry-up wraps!

Surroundings

The pod overlooks the Cleveland Hills and as you can see from the pictures below, the view is stunning, breathtaking, and relaxing and it’s amazing to overlook this every morning. We decided to spend our last day mostly hanging around the accommodation, so we can live in the moment and enjoy this beautiful view.

Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough
Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough
Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

Service

The site is run by a father and son team and from the first text message, to get instructions for how to enter the accommodation, they were lovely and friendly.

The instructions for staying were comprehensive and provided all the information we needed. And the friendly visits, stopping by our pod to check if we had everything we needed, were one of the highlights of our holiday. The little one loved saying hello!

Nearby places to visit

As a family, we purposefully book places to stay, where we can use them as a base to explore the area. And this time we took the opportunity to reinstate our English Heritage Membership and visit some amazing places on the way here and during our stay.

A few of the nearby places you can visit during your stay:

Stokesley – this is a market town, with a coop, bakers, lots of pubs, bistros and other amenities. We visited to grab some lunch at the local bakers and food supplies from the coop.

I would say that from what we experienced, the town isn’t geared towards families and children. Eating-wise we would have been looking at overpriced bistros (I say this because our five-year-old simply wouldn’t eat the food there) or pubs with strange service times or that don’t allow children. As a couple, we would have loved a village like this. But luckily we were able to grab some food and return to our accommodation to chill out in the hot tub.

I will say there are lots of amazing shops for little ones. Boutique-style clothing and toys for young ones. We loved exploring the array of charity shops – we even picked up some bargains, including a branded walking coat for my little one and a nice dress for me.

Great Ayton – This is a picturesque small village, which we passed through on our way to Whitby. All the details you need about the amenities available can be found here.

Helmsley – we passed through Helmsley on our way here and decided to revisit the town the following day, to make use of our English Heritage membership and visit the castle.

Helmsley Castle

It’s a lovely Yorkshire town, with shops, a beautiful square and lots of cafes and pubs along the river. We had a great time walking around the town, after our trip around the castle.

Relaxation factor

This trip was 100% relaxation from the first moment we arrived. Absolutely beautiful views. An enclosed garden was a must for the little one. It also came in handy when one of us wanted a rest in the afternoon, the other people could use the patio to chill outside and provide some much-needed space, away from one another. The small balcony out to the front of the pod also provided another space for someone to relax in.

A base for visiting other places

In terms of distance, staying here is a great base for visiting other places. You have the choice of nearby market towns, which are up to about a 30-minute drive. Some are just 5 minutes down the road, in a car.

Whitby

The longest drive we did was Whitby for the day. The picturesque seaside town was busy and we were tired after the trip but we got to see our favourite seaside town, without the price tag of staying in a £300.00 a night hotel in the centre of Whitby.

It was about a 49-minute drive to Whitby from the accommodation.

One of the main reasons we visited Whitby was to take our little one to Whitby Abbey. As a couple we have visited a few times, but it was time to introduce her to the amazing views and history. She loved running around and taking pictures.

Whitby Abbey
Whitby Abbey
Whitby Abbey

Final thoughts

Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

Why Bluey Is Heartwarming & Geared Towards The Whole Family

Let’s face it, as a parent of a toddler, you have to watch kids’ TV programmes. But honestly, Bluey is my fave and, we as adults, often keep watching it when our little one has run off to the next activity. 

I feel seen and heard when watching the Heeler family navigate the trials and tribulations of parenting.

bluey

What I love the most, is how they get those magical parenting moments right. So heartwarming. But it’s also full of real-life examples of how frustrating toddlers can be. I feel seen and heard when watching the Heeler family navigate the trials and tribulations of parenting.

I was inspired to write this post by Claire Mac. It was time to share my favourite Bluey episodes. I’ve watched a lot recently! 

Quick note: Some of the links on this page are affiliate links; if you go through them to make a purchase, I will earn a commission. I only recommend products I use myself and think would be useful for you.

Charades

Season 2, Episode 11

Episode description

Bluey and Bingo want everyone to play Charades, but Muffin and Socks are too young to understand the rules, which threatens to derail the game. But Nana has her own special rule so everyone is happy!

My thoughts

We are always moaning about how our little one gets away with everything at the grandparents’ house. It’s true. My mum has to remove all chocolate from the fridge before she goes there. She will just help herself and eat it all! 

This episode makes me love Muffin, but also realise I also have a child who likes to tantrum a lot. What warms my heart is how they all go along with Muffin and her dance. It’s one of those lovely proud parenting moments, even if she did get her own way. 

Grandad 

Season 2, Episode 50

Episode description

Grandad is supposed to be resting, but when Bluey and Bingo go to visit him, he makes a run for it with the kids and takes them on a madcap adventure into the bush.

My thoughts

It’s so heartwarming that Chilli wants to look after her dad and there’s a cute moment at the end of the episode. Which actually inspired my toddler to tell me she loved me. I will let you watch and experience it for yourself. 

Flatpack

Season 2, Episode 24

Episode description

With Mum and Dad assembling the flatpack furniture, the kids improvise games with the discarded wrapping materials. As the flatpack swing seat takes shape, so does Bluey and Bingo’s mini-world.

My thoughts

We all know about the dramas of flatpacks. Especially with kids. The worst one we’ve done is our little ones’ “big girl” bed. 

But this episode makes me all warm and fuzzy inside, about family time. And it’s lovely to see Bluey and Bingo playing together and their sweet moments. 

Makes parenting worth it. 

Want to learn more about the Bluey characters? How about purchasing this amazing set of weebles? Look at the fun we had with them…

Faceytalk

Season 3, Episode 24

Episode description

Bluey and Bingo love to video chat with Muffin and Socks so they can all draw pictures together. When Muffin won’t give Socks a turn, the kids discover what happens when you hog.

My thoughts

I belly-laughed throughout the whole episode. And it made us realise we have Muffin living in our house. Not bingo, or Bluey. 

This is the episode we watch when my parents come around. it’s also the one my toddler requests the most.

Grannies

Season 1, Episode 28

Episode description

A game of Grannies is fun until Bingo and Bluey can’t agree on one simple question: Can grannies dance? Now they need to video call Nanna to get the answer.

How cool are these Bluey items? A dancing teddy. And I am currently ordering the hoodie for my little one!

My thoughts

I slipped on my beans” – this is currently my hubby’s ringtone. And he is part of a Bluey Facebook group!

Pretending to be grannies – so comical. I also love that mum joins in for a while, till there is too much mess, then says “go ask dad”. 

Writing this post has inspired me to get on the hunt for some creative Bluey activities to do with my little one. Here are a few I found:

Bluey: Let’s Stick!: Sticker Scenes Book (Paperback)

Bluey: Let’s Play Outside!: Magnet Book – Bluey (Hardback)

Bluey: Where’s Bluey?: A Search-and-Find Book (Paperback)

Daddy Dropoff

Season 2, Episode 8

Episode description

It’s Dad’s turn to get the kids ready for school and kindy, but Bluey and Bingo aren’t making things easy! Dad tries to keep everything on track, but can’t help playing along with their games.

My thoughts

I have so much to relate to in this episode. Being late, even when you get up really early. We “talk on the telephone” daily with our little one and I can just imagine her doing something like this in the car. 

But then it melts my heart that dad still plays wind up, even though they are late. Toddlers don’t care if we’re late. They have no concept of time. It’s a boring concept for adults. And something we beat ourselves up about. And shouldn’t!

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Bin Night

Season 2, Episode 41

Episode description

Bluey, Bingo and Dad always take out the bins. Over a few weeks, Bingo tells Dad about a new kid at Kindy who is mean to her and Mum offers some good advice.

My thoughts

The lovely family ritual of putting out bins and talking about emotions. It makes me smile. 

In the end, Bingo ends up helping the person who was nasty to her. And what an amazing lesson this is, to teach your little ones and explain why it is important.

Ice Cream

Season 2, Episode 46

Episode description

Bluey and Bingo want a lick of each other’s ice cream. But they are so focused on making sure each lick is fair, they don’t notice their ice creams are melting.

My thoughts

A perfect lesson in learning to share things. Heartwarming. And as always with parenting, dad is required to give up his treat.

Fairies

Season 1, Episode 30

Episode description

Bluey’s house has fairies! Tails are being braided, stickers are everywhere, and Mum’s got a peg beard. Now the family must band together to hunt for these invisible mischief-makers.

My thoughts

I just love dad making a fool of himself in Infront of the neighbours and the family having so much fun. 

It’s a dad requirement to make a fool of yourself daily, in order to make your kids laugh.

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It’s the Season to Get Warm & Cosy With Candles

Check out my Guest Post from Jasmine Fitze. I am accepting guest posts on all of my blogs – you can find more details here.

Introduction

Hi, I’m Jas! I feel so grateful to be writing a guest post for Mummy Conquering Anxiety. Especially around this time of year. Autumn is my favourite season of all. And I enjoy writing plenty of blog posts around this season too. And candles are a great topic!

I am a digital creator who loves creating content around architecture, travel, food and drink, coffee, and lifestyle. In addition, I love to see the little things every day. Learning to love my own company by venturing out of my comforts. And providing the life that I deserve. I hope you can feel inspired by the life I live. Realising life’s happiness starts off with small and simple joys.

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Candle Talk

I love it when autumn arrives, purely because of the overload of candles. Candles are up there as one of my favourite things to buy in shops. Especially when the seasons are changing and you get into the cold, crisp, autumnal weather. When it gets to that point, there’s nothing better than cosying up at home. Surrounding yourself with warm aromatic fragrances, and sipping on some luxurious hot chocolates.

I would say that my candle preferences are more towards scents that are rich, sweet, vibrant, and spiced. This is why I get excited when autumn comes around because I feel in my element. I could get lost for hours in the home fragrances selection trying to find the ones that I vibe with.

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A collection showing some of my favourite scents:

Pumpkin Spice: Takes me into a world of pumpkin patches, spiced lattes, pumpkin everything basically!

Cinnamon: Forever love the warm spices of cinnamon that remind me of autumnal bakes and hot
chocolates.

Coffee: With me being that much into coffee I just can’t get enough of the coffee scents, especially as each one has its own richness and character to the flavours with the creaminess bringing it all together.

Spiced apple: Sweet but juicy scents that I get from this fragrance. Definitely makes me think of toffee
apples or apple pie/ apple crumble, and even apple cider of many kinds.

Coconut: I’ve always been into coconut-scented things. I love the creaminess and subtlety of the scent, I
think it’s an ideal all-round candle, but especially ideal for having next to a box of chocolates, particularly
bounty’s to compliment the atmosphere.

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Honey & chocolate: This scent I’m particularly talking about is the Glade candle. When I came across it I
knew I had to pick it up. Smells Devine and I thought of it like a crunchie chocolate bar and this candle
delivered those sensational aromas.

Are any of these scents your favourite too? Comment below

There’s something quite magical about walking around the city in your warm and thick coat, with a coffee in one hand, and seasonal shopping bags in the other. What I love about this home decor piece is that they make for an ideal gift for someone or for even yourself. On any special or random occasion, there’s a candle for everyone at any time!

Shopping for Candles

A few shops that I recommend browsing for autumn candles & diffusers are TK MAXX, B&M, and Wilko.

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I am forever heading to TK MAXX for their library load of candles and diffusers of all different aesthetics, scents, and personalities. I highly recommend making a visit to have a smell through them. You’ll likely end up walking out with a great collection.

In Wilko, you will find plenty of autumn-scented fragrances such as pumpkin spice, apple cosy cider, and marshmallow Irish cream. Great prices if you are looking for a unique scent at a low price. And with the sizes, they have a good burning time. B&M have a selection of basic and characteristic candles. Ones that are ideal for repurposing other household decor pieces.

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One shop that I haven’t mentioned yet but have to put out there is M&S with their distinctive candles. They are pricey but the jar has battery-operated lights, within the jar of the candle, so it serves multiple purposes. It would for sure make an excellent centrepiece to a dining table or coffee table. Bringing a glowing atmosphere to the room.

Alternatively, there are plenty of wonderful small businesses on Etsy, such as @dolewickscandleco (check her out on Instagram). DW Home is also a great place for endless seasonal scents with distinctive jars. Perfect for repurposing, check out their Instagram and website for more. On Instagram, there is @illumine_candle_co which is a small business in Exeter, with beautiful hand-poured vegan-friendly soy candles.

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Candles are up there as one of my favourite pieces of decor to buy purely because they light up the room so well and the stunning aromas each one has. I also love repurposing them, giving them an extra life through using them as drinking glasses or desk organisers, they come in handy for many things.

And That’s a Wrap…

We have now come to the end of this blog post. I hope you have enjoyed reading through my candle preferences and suggestions. Here’s to many more cosy days at home as well as shopping adventures.

If you would like to learn more about me and my content, see the details below.

I’ll leave some links below, I hope to connect with some of you!

Jas Fitze Blogs: https://www.jasminefitzephotography.com/jasfitzeblogs
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Stay Cosy & Warm with Seasonal Aromatic Fragrances!
Jas ☕️

Final thoughts

I would like to thank Jasmine for this amazing blog post – it makes me feel all cosy & warm. I hope you have the same feeling.

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5 amazing benefits of social media on mental health

I want to say thank you to Chloe from Nyxie’s Nook for this amazing guest post. I personally found social media to be the most amazing, supportive community following my mental breakdown and I definitely needed it. This post outlines the reasons it can be helpful for mental wellbeing.

Let’s dive in

Social media has long since been branded as hazardous to our mental and physical health. For those within a certain age bracket, it’s seen as something akin to the fall of socialisation. We constantly hear about children as young as six becoming addicted to social media, or adults missing the world around them because their nose is stuck in their phones. 

But what about the positive side of social media? If we look beyond the addiction and online trolls, social media has helped shape the 21st century into a more inclusive place to be.

For a long time, we’ve been under the assumption that asking for help is a weak or attention-seeking behaviour. But with the help of social media, we’re now much further forward in realising that speaking up about our issues is an act of strength.

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5 Positive aspects of social media

Social media can be a great way to raise awareness, bring communities together and help those less fortunate. 

Before the use of the internet and social media, we all seemed so far away. America, Japan, England, Finland; We were all divided by oceans, land and borders. With the use of the internet and, in turn, social media we’re able to raise awareness for issues that would otherwise be limited by location. By using social media we can reach other, like-minded people who can help spread awareness among their own communities and so on. 

We’re better able to keep in touch with our loved ones, arrange online catch-ups and even play virtual games. 

With so much of the world in lockdown at different times and for various levels of COVID-19, many of us have become separated from our families and peers. And with the current state of things here in the UK, our isolation isn’t set to end any time soon. The internet and social media have become a way for us to socialize, catch up and even watch movies together while staying safely apart. 

Netflix has created their Netflix party to help socially distanced subscribers to watch television shows and movies together. Zoom has become the number one go-to video chatting application for social catch-ups to business meetings. Instagram, Facebook and Twitter also deserve honourable mention for helping us keep in touch and meet like-minded people who are better able to help and support us. Some of the most trusting and inspirational people I know were found via social media! 

Finally, although not specifically on social media, as an avid gamer I find the use of online resources helpful in finding gaming partners. There are various places online to connect and even chat with gamers worldwide. I’ve met so many people through my love for Animal Crossing and The Sims. I’m in various community groups online where I can chat about the games, get information, tips and advice, and even swap friend codes. 

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Of course, this is all done from a safe distance and, as an adult, I’m aware of the danger of meeting others online. If you have a teenager or even a child who frequently games with others online, it’s suggested that you keep an eye on their activity. Have a chat with them about online safety and take an interest in what they’re doing without being overly critical. 

Social media can be a welcome distraction from the outside world or a devastating realisation of the world around us

Social media has acted as a means for me to distract myself from the goings-on around me, but it’s also been there to remind me of the harsh realities of the world around us. Without it, I doubt I would be kept as informed as I am. I avoid the news at all costs and have long since stopped trusting state-funded news reports. So various online sources, social media included, have been my direct link to COVID-19 news,  election updates and even any new information being spread in regards to mental health services in my local area. 

In regards to acting as a distraction, by frequently visiting social media and getting to know others online, I’ve been able to build a small support network. This support network is usually biased and helps distract me just by chatting about things other than what’s on my mind. 

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Social media has helped to normalise help-seeking behaviour

For a long time, we’ve been under the assumption that asking for help is a weak or attention-seeking behaviour. But with the help of social media, we’re now much further forward in realising that speaking up about our issues is an act of strength. Many adults and young people are coming forward to encourage others to ask for help for things such as mental illness, grief, sexual assault etc. No longer are these things taboo, rather, we’re unified in our need to speak up! 

Social media can offer a creative outlet

Much like writing a blog or sketching in a notebook, creating social media posts can act as a creative outlet but on a much smaller scale. The likes of Instagram are especially good for displaying things such as photography and artwork, while Tik Tok is for the videographer in all of us. Others can view your work, like, share and even become inspired. But, of course, it’s not always about the number of likes and engagement you get. So long as you’re careful about how you manage your life on social media, it can be a wonderful place to find and hone your creative voice. 

What are your thoughts on social media and its impacts? Do you feel that it’s a positive, negative or a bit of both? How do you use social media and how do you protect your mental health when using it? 

Final thoughts from me

I agree with all these benefits and I hope you enjoyed reading the post. All the details you need to connect with Chloe are below. Please go check out her blog, show some love, comment on posts and do what we do best in the blogging community, interact and show support.

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5 Fun Recipes To Bake With Kids – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

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Fun Recipes To Bake With Kids

My love of baking

I’ve written on the blog before, about my love of baking and how I once wanted to turn this passion into a career. But making extravagant cake-creations takes time. And as a busy Mum, I usually don’t have much of that. Here is the previous post about baking:

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Baking with a little one

When my little one was about one year old, the thought of baking with her used to give me great anxiety. Back in those days, I wasn’t in a great headspace mentally. Due to pregnancy, birth trauma and general exhaustion.

Despite the anxiety and fear of mess, I still pushed through – to create some wonderful baking memories with my little girl. And once we started the task, we enjoyed making a complete kitchen mess.

Some of our baking memories to share with you

I love looking back on these cherished memories. We have a highly creative child and she loves putting all the elements together and being proud of the finished product.

Fun Recipes To Bake With Kids

These buns were lovely. The little one enjoyed making them and offering them to friends and family.

Not following the recipe

I am a bit of a rebel when it comes to following recipes. I became so well-practised in baking that I knew roughly how much each ingredient looked correct. However, these days I am totally out of practice. On top of that, I also live with two very organized people. Both my hubby and little one have a very analytical mind. And they need precise measurements. So we’ve bought some scales and sometimes use the cup method if needed.

Some recipes we follow require us to use a conversation calculator, like the one available at culinaryschools.org. Depending on what recipe book you choose, and what country the recipe creator is from, different measurements are used. With the introduction of the internet and platforms like TikTok, it’s also possible you could be looking at a recipe with measurements you wouldn’t traditionally use in your country.

In this post, I want to discuss five of our favourite UK recipes for baking with a toddler:

Let’s get stuck in and make a mess together…

Cornflake Buns

Cornflake Buns
  • Put 50g butter, 100g milk or dark chocolate broken down, and golden syrup in a saucepan. Use 100g cornflakes in a different bowl.
  • Melt the butter, chocolate and golden syrup in the saucepan  – on low heat, stirring.
  • Allow to cool a little before pouring over the cornflakes.
  • Mix the cornflakes and chocolate mixture.
  • Add the mixture to 12 cupcake cases.
  • Put in the fridge to set.

Super easy Birthday Cake

Birthday Cake
  • Butter two 18cm cake tins and line the bases with baking paper.
  • Beat the butter and sugar – add the eggs, one at a time. Mix in, the milk and vanilla extract until the mixture is smooth.
  • Divide between two bowls. Add cocoa powder to one bowl.
  • Add the vanilla batter into one tin and the chocolate batter into another – levelling the tops.
  • ALWAYS A TOP TIP TO CHECK YOUR BAKING – Bake for 20-25 mins or until a skewer comes out clean.
  • Cool for five minutes, then transfer to a wire rack.
  • To make the icing, add the butter and icing sugar a little at a time- until you have a smooth, creamy icing.
  • Add pink food colouring.
  • Sandwich the two cakes together with icing and spread the rest on top using a knife.

Easy Butterfly Cakes

Fun Recipes To Bake With Kids

Ingredients

For the cupcakes

  • 160g soft unsalted butter
  • 160g golden caster sugar
  • Beat 3 medium free-range eggs
  • 160g self-raising flour
  • 2 tsp vanilla extract

For the buttercream

  • 160g softened unsalted butter
  • 270g icing sugar
  • 1 tsp vanilla extract

gooey chocolate chip cookies

Ingredients
  • 165g plain flour
  • ¼ tsp salt
  • ½ tsp bicarbonate of soda
  • Small chocolate chunks
  • 100g softened unsalted butter
  • 100g soft light brown sugar
  • 100g granulated sugar
  • 1 medium free-range egg
  • 1 tsp vanilla paste

Heat the oven to 170°C/150°C fan/gas. Use an electric mixer to cream together the butter with both the sugars. Slowly beat in the egg and vanilla bean paste, then beat in the flour, salt and bicarbonate of soda until combined and smooth.

Divide the mixture evenly into 16 balls, then put them on a couple of large baking sheets at 5-6cm intervals so they have room to spread. Flatten the balls slightly, then push in small chocolate chunks (as many as you fancy).

Bake in the oven for 13-15 minutes until the cookies are golden around the edge and the chocolate chunks have melted. Serve just cooled with a glass of ice-cold milk.

Chocolate Chip Cookies

Mary Berry Cupcakes

I saved the best recipe until the last. These are my absolute favourites and as you can see, I even have this recipe written down in my lovely recipe book. It was the trusted recipe I used whenever I took on a project for someone else’s special occasion. Because you can’t go wrong with this recipe.

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Ingredients

For the cupcakes

  • 175 g butter (at room temperature), cut into large pieces
  • 175 g self-raising flour
  • 175 g caster sugar
  • 1/2 tsp. baking powder
  • 1/2 tsp. vanilla extract
  • 3 large eggs

For the icing

  • 175 g butter, room temperature 
  • 1/2 tsp. vanilla extract
  • 3 tbsp. milk
  • 350 g icing sugar, sifted
  • 3 drops of pink edible colouring
  • edible pink hearts or other sprinkles, to decorate

Preheat the oven to 180°C/gas mark 4. Line a 12-hole muffin tin with muffin cases.

Put all the cake ingredients into a large bowl and beat – until smooth. Divide the mixture evenly between the cases.

For the icing. Put the butter, vanilla extract, two tablespoons of the milk, and half the icing sugar in a large bowl and beat until smooth. Beat in the remaining icing sugar, and pour in the rest of the milk to make the icing the right consistency.

Bake for 20 to 25 minutes, or until the cakes are well-risen and firm on top. Then transfer to a wire rack to cool. 

Put half of the icing into another bowl and add pink food colouring (two tablespoons may be enough so add slowly).

Carefully spoon this down one side of a piping bag fitted with a number eight star nozzle, then spoon the non-coloured icing down the other side of the bag. Twist the end of the bag to seal the icing in.

Pipe swirls of the icing on top of each cupcake. Scatter with the edible pink hearts or other sprinkles, to decorate. 

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The Low Spend Guide to Halloween 

GUEST POST – read on for the author’s bio

It’s officially spooky season! 

Halloween is one of the most magical times for many of us. Whether you have fond memories of trick-or-treating as a child. Enjoy donning your fancy dress outfits for a night out on the town or prefer to stay inside sipping a PSL, it’s always guaranteed to be lots of fun.

However, the holidays seem to become more heavily commercialised with every year that passes. New trends are always popping up around this season. Which tend to be bigger, better and usually, more expensive.

Enjoy a low buy Halloween and autumnal season without the pressure to spend excessively by using these three tips…

Here comes your Low Spend Guide to Halloween

Opt for activities instead of items

The supermarket aisles are filled to the brim with seasonal items during October. If you’re trying to reduce the overwhelm, steer clear of the temptation to buy, and focus on planning activities instead.

Some low-spend ideas to get you in the mood for the change of seasons could include:

  • Rotating your wardrobe, bringing out your comfiest jumpers and cosy socks, and storing your summer items away until next year
  • Taking a long woodland walk through the crunchy leaves
  • Binge-watching an autumnal TV series (If you haven’t seen Only Murders in the Building, this could be the perfect choice to watch it, whilst snuggled on the sofa!)
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Get recipe testing

One of the best ways to embrace the colder evenings is to spend time perfecting a few tasty meals. Look out for new recipes to try which use seasonal ingredients. Such as butternut squash, mushrooms, pumpkin, apples or figs.

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Warming vegetable soups with crusty bread are always a huge hit at this time of year, or try something a little different, like a butternut squash risotto.

If you’ve got experience in the kitchen, you could even try a Halloween-themed dish, such as pumpkin gnocchi or ravioli. Another option is to create mini pizzas or pies in spooky shapes.

For the cosiest family dessert, try making mini smores using tea lights, or perhaps a chocolate fondue!

Another tip, coming up in the Low Spend Guide to Halloween

DIY your decor

Instead of purchasing lots of Halloween-themed decor that is likely to be stored away for the majority of the year, only to see the light of day for one month of the year. How about making your own decorations instead?

Paper decorations are super cheap to make. And can either be folded flat and stored for next year, or recycled.

If you have small children, try heading outside with a bag and collecting dried leaves to make your own leaf crafts and projects. This could include garlands, collages or even puppets!

Another thrifty option is to collect any old glass jars and decorate them to make colourful tea light holders. This is a simple upcycle that the whole family can enjoy, and it’s free too.

Avoid adding to the clutter, and get your craft on this season!

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Taryn runs a money and lifestyle blog called ‘Saving in London City’ and is on a mission to share the best money-saving tips, tricks and hacks. Taryn discusses the best ways to have fun on a budget today, whilst also saving towards long-term money goals for your future, such as a house deposit or dream holiday.

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Final Thoughts

I hope these tips help to remind you that it’s not necessary to spend your hard-earned cash in order to embrace the change in seasons!