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6 Amazing Reasons to Book a Holiday at Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

Welcome to my post, all about Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough.

Who else loves the quiet life? The strong need to get away from the hustle and bustle. Switch off your phone and just relax.

As a family, we have busy lives, between working full time, school admin, childcare and fitting in precious time to make family memories and have fun. Sometimes it’s just necessary to switch off completely.

Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

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Making a holiday booking with a lack of reviews

I’ve talked in my previous review blog posts about reading reviews before booking a holiday, a meal or visiting somewhere. You can usually tell the fair reviews from the people who just want to have a rant. Check out my Places to Eat reviews below:

The Craft House in Bingley – Is It Worth a Visit?

My Review of The Old Bridge Cafe In Skipton

The Noble Comb Hungry Horse Pub in Shipley – MCA Review

However, sometimes you need to take a chance on a holiday venue when they have just set up and are brand new. When we booked this holiday through Hoseasons, there were only a few reviews added. As such, we had to take that chance.

We are here now

I want to visit places myself before bringing you reviews. We are currently on site now and these are my comments about the place:

Accommodation & value for money – We are staying in The Wainstones pod, which is slightly more roomy than the standard one.

Surroundings – absolutely beautiful & breathtaking views.

Service – friendly, checking in with us but not disturbing our peace.

Nearby places to visit – Stokesley. Great Ayton, Whitby, Middlesborough.

Relaxation factor – 100% relaxation, even with a fiver-year-old.

A base for visiting other places – the perfect base for venturing out and about each day.

I am going into a lot more detail below, so keep reading about the 6 Amazing Reasons to Book a Holiday at Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

Accommodation & value for money

The accommodation is what sold the holiday to us, in the first place. We paid £399.00 when booking direct through Hoseasons. And only paid a £10.00 deposit. Booking in advance allowed us to pay the holiday off in chunks. I didn’t think this price was bad, considering we have a Monday-Friday stay, the first week of the UK school summer holidays AND the addition of the hot tub and amazing view.

We had everything we needed in the pod. A small kitchen area, without an oven, but other amenities such as a microwave, hob, kettle and toaster.

Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

We managed to make some lovely homemade meals, like spaghetti bolognese. And even managed a full fry-up, to make fry-up wraps!

Surroundings

The pod overlooks the Cleveland Hills and as you can see from the pictures below, the view is stunning, breathtaking, and relaxing and it’s amazing to overlook this every morning. We decided to spend our last day mostly hanging around the accommodation, so we can live in the moment and enjoy this beautiful view.

Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough
Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough
Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

Service

The site is run by a father and son team and from the first text message, to get instructions for how to enter the accommodation, they were lovely and friendly.

The instructions for staying were comprehensive and provided all the information we needed. And the friendly visits, stopping by our pod to check if we had everything we needed, were one of the highlights of our holiday. The little one loved saying hello!

Nearby places to visit

As a family, we purposefully book places to stay, where we can use them as a base to explore the area. And this time we took the opportunity to reinstate our English Heritage Membership and visit some amazing places on the way here and during our stay.

A few of the nearby places you can visit during your stay:

Stokesley – this is a market town, with a coop, bakers, lots of pubs, bistros and other amenities. We visited to grab some lunch at the local bakers and food supplies from the coop.

I would say that from what we experienced, the town isn’t geared towards families and children. Eating-wise we would have been looking at overpriced bistros (I say this because our five-year-old simply wouldn’t eat the food there) or pubs with strange service times or that don’t allow children. As a couple, we would have loved a village like this. But luckily we were able to grab some food and return to our accommodation to chill out in the hot tub.

I will say there are lots of amazing shops for little ones. Boutique-style clothing and toys for young ones. We loved exploring the array of charity shops – we even picked up some bargains, including a branded walking coat for my little one and a nice dress for me.

Great Ayton – This is a picturesque small village, which we passed through on our way to Whitby. All the details you need about the amenities available can be found here.

Helmsley – we passed through Helmsley on our way here and decided to revisit the town the following day, to make use of our English Heritage membership and visit the castle.

Helmsley Castle

It’s a lovely Yorkshire town, with shops, a beautiful square and lots of cafes and pubs along the river. We had a great time walking around the town, after our trip around the castle.

Relaxation factor

This trip was 100% relaxation from the first moment we arrived. Absolutely beautiful views. An enclosed garden was a must for the little one. It also came in handy when one of us wanted a rest in the afternoon, the other people could use the patio to chill outside and provide some much-needed space, away from one another. The small balcony out to the front of the pod also provided another space for someone to relax in.

A base for visiting other places

In terms of distance, staying here is a great base for visiting other places. You have the choice of nearby market towns, which are up to about a 30-minute drive. Some are just 5 minutes down the road, in a car.

Whitby

The longest drive we did was Whitby for the day. The picturesque seaside town was busy and we were tired after the trip but we got to see our favourite seaside town, without the price tag of staying in a £300.00 a night hotel in the centre of Whitby.

It was about a 49-minute drive to Whitby from the accommodation.

One of the main reasons we visited Whitby was to take our little one to Whitby Abbey. As a couple we have visited a few times, but it was time to introduce her to the amazing views and history. She loved running around and taking pictures.

Whitby Abbey
Whitby Abbey
Whitby Abbey

Final thoughts

Southview Holiday Retreat, Middlesborough

8 Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

Etsy is the home for extra special items – all handmade, handpicked, and designed by real people. I wanted to update you on the latest, unique & personalised handmade gifts on Etsy. You can view my previous post below:

WAYS TO INITIATE ETSY GIFT MODE – MUMMY CONQUERING ANXIETY

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I love writing these posts and bringing you a summary of all the latest, quirky gifts. Let me know in the comments which one you like best and if you will be making any purchases.

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

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If you follow this blog, you know I love a good to-do list. I live by them. It’s the only way I can organise life-admin, work-life and general remembering of everything for everyone – #mumlife

Sam – Founder – Mummy Conquering Anxiety Blog

Mum gifts

Sewing Notepad, Quilting Notepad, Quilting Gift, Sewing, Lori Nawyn, Huckleberry Moose, Quilter Gift

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

How cute & unique is this notepad?

If you have a creative mum in your life, who loves a bit of sewing – look no further.

Personalised Plant Pot Lady, Mum’s Garden Gift, Mothers day gift idea, gardener gift for mum, garden gift for nan

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

I don’t know about your family but my little one loves playing in the garden at my parents house.

And how cute is this little person, to feature in the garden. My five year old would be talking to it and getting the ornament involved in all her games.

Housewarming

Personalised Wine Bucket | Wine Tub | Wine Cooler | Wine Storage | Beer Bucket | Drinks Bucket | Wine Holder | Mr & Mrs | Anniversary Gift

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

We all love a good wine bucket, for a housewarming, or camping, or those summer BBQ nights.

How lovely would it be always to use this great keepsake?

New Home Gift Christmas Candle, Christmas Housewarming Gift, Christmas Scented Candle

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

Do you know a candle lover, or want a keepsake for your own home?

I love this personalised candle. Something you can keep forever as an ornament.

Stationery

Kawaii Cozy Cat Memo Pad • tear off memo pad • paper note pad, cute memo pad • kawaii stationery notepad

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

If you follow this blog, you know I love a good to-do list. I live by them. It’s the only way I can organise life-admin, work-life and general remembering of everything for everyone – #mumlife

Bunny Sticky Notes, Kawaii Animal Reminder Notes, Memo Pad Stickers, Bunny/ Rabbit Lover Gift, Planner Page Marker Stickers, Easter Gift

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

How cute are these sticky notes. I know my little one would love them, but I would also want to steal them!

Wedding gifts

Custom Chopping Board, Personalized Cutting Board Gift Set – Custom Wedding Gift, Bridal Shower Gift, Engagement Gifts for Couple

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

This is such a cute personalised wedding gift.

Something the newlyweds can treasure forever when they are creating family memories in the kitchen.

Custom star map by date, Star map night light, Personalized constellation map, Night sky by date, Engagement gift for him and her

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

This is the cutest, most unique gift I’ve seen in a while and I would love to receive this to commemorate a special occasion, that I wanted to remember forever.

Summary

Unique & Personalised Handmade Gifts On Etsy

5 Reasons Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind

Please note – this is a collaborative post 

Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind

If you also need some relaxation, join me on a journey to finding a mindless, enjoyable task, where you can focus your attention for a while and switch off.

Sam – Founder – Mummy Conquering Anxiety Blog

If you’re new around here and haven’t followed the journey, from the creation of my blog to now, then you might not know I am a constantly busy person who is prone to burnout.

As a busy mum, working out the school schedule, swimming lessons and appointments for a five-year-old is a job in itself. Let alone working and managing everything else in life.

I find it difficult to switch off, but these days I force myself to let my mind relax. And playing simple games, that you don’t have to think about, help me to do that!

If you also need some relaxation, join me on a journey to finding a mindless, enjoyable task, where you can focus your attention for a while and switch off.

A Creative Outlet

As a creative person myself, someones I am not always in the mood for writing a full blog post and frankly, sometimes I just don’t have the brain power for an in-depth task. But, it’s nice to display your creativity in ways that don’t exert too much energy or time.

Games like Minecraft and The Sims can allow you to build a whole world for yourself, just the way you imagined. And we all know how powerful imagination can be, not just for kids but also for adults.

Games help create a flow state

One of the main tools I use to manage low periods of mental health is hypnotherapy and meditation. Games can also help create a flow state, similar to mediation. Where you are awake, but your mind is focused on one task. You are essentially switching off your logical brain. And using the creative, imaginative side of the brain.

Games are rewarding

We all know that social networks gear their algorithms around the brain reward system. The same applies to online games. Winning or making progress in a game can trigger this chemical process in our brains. And it allows us to feel a sense of achievement.

Games allow you to destress from the day

In the world of work, we often face an 8-10 hour day of mostly focusing on work-related tasks or the stresses that come along with employment. After using our brains constantly for this period, we must have a de-stress technique, to almost get our mind out of work mode. A recent study found that mobile phone games can help you recover from a long workday, in the same way mindfulness apps work.

Games help decision making & problem solving

Sometimes part of the fun is losing or getting it wrong. And the sense of achievement you feel when you finally crack the game is immense. Games can help us improve our decision-making and problem-solving skills, by ultimately going through a process to win the game.

Within an online game, feedback is immediate. So if you lose, you can quickly change your decision-making to enable you to achieve your desired result the next time you play.

Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind

REMEMBER – Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind. I want to share some of the recent games I played and why I loved them.

cashier simulator

Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind

I loved playing the cashier simulator game because it allowed me to complete really basic calculations in a fun way. Almost powering down my brain, to allow me to perform with minimal effort required.

And I found the task enjoyable. The music was relaxing and this is even something I could play with my little girl.

cash back

Playing Simple Games Relaxes Your Mind

I loved the interface of cash back. When visiting the home screen, the game is colourful and attractive.

It was also great to use the buttons to increase the amounts you give to the characters as cash back.

The tally at the bottom which counted sales was also great.

Mind.org.uk has a page recommending some puzzles and games you can use to help you distract yourself. Check out the page here.

Lego City adventures – build and protect

Lego game

I actually got really distracted with Lego City adventures – build and protect – because I loved it so much.

It gave me The Sims vibes, where you helped build a city and reveal the bricks.

I will be playing this one on my own to destress and probably with the little one.

Want to keep reading about this topic? Why not check out WebMD and their great reasons that playing games can help your mental health?

Hidden Food

Me and the little one were literally shouting at the screen while playing Hidden Food. We loved spotting the foods in the massive pile.

Think Where’s Wally but in the kitchen. This will now be one of our favourite phone games.

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A List Of Affordable And Fun Family-Friendly Festivals In The UK

It is clear our little one is musical. She loves singing and dancing and often falls asleep when we have loud music playing. Therefore, we need to eventually take her to a music festival. She would absolutely love it. Are you also looking for Friendly Festivals?

It got me thinking about what is on offer. Here is my rundown of family-friendly and affordable festivals for you to attend as a family.

Either look to attend this year or keep them in mind for next year!

PLEASE NOTEI have no affiliation with any of these organisers. The list is from my own research about places we would visit as a family

Friendly Festivals

Smoke & Fire Festivals 

If you’re into BBQ’s and like cooking, this one is for you. With three locations, it sounds amazing and something we would love to do as a family. 

The Magpies Festival 

This is based in York on 12th & 13th August and looks to have everything you could want as a family. There is even camping available to get the full festival experience. Check out ticket prices here

Deer shed Festival 

29-31 July – North Yorkshire. 

This looks like a great range of activities, including comedy and literary activities. However, you can only book weekend tickets and it is quite pricey. Check out ticket options here

Just So Festival 

19/20/21 August – Cheshire 

This one looks like a great place for the kids to run free and the website gives you a magical forest vibe straightaway. Check out ticket prices here

Festiva – 2023

26-27 August – Lancashire

This is a visual festival and has a circus and entertainment feel to it. Perfect for the kids. 

You can sign up for information about the 2023 festival, as this year’s festival was cancelled.

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Lakefest 

11-14 August – Hertfordshire 

This one looks great and the images of the live performances on the website look electric,

You can view ticket prices here.

Kendal Calling

28-31 July – Lake District

I’ve always wanted to attend this festival because it looks so cool and isn’t too far away from us. 

Ticket information can be found here.

Underneath The Stars

29-31 July – Yorkshire

This festival looks great and you can buy day tickets and add extras, such as camping and parking for the weekend.

Check out all the ticket prices here

Final thoughts

I hope you enjoyed reading my list. It was fun to compile this and I can’t wait to get festival-ready and take my little one somewhere.

Are you attending any festivals this year? Which are your Friendly Festivals Faves?

What do you have booked?

Let me know in the comments below, I would love to hear from you.

Friendly Festivals

Ways to Initiate Etsy Gift Mode – Mummy Conquering Anxiety

Gift Mode Initiated

I love that Etsy has a gift mode section, where you can look at specific gifts based on the interests of the person you are buying for.

Initiate Etsy Gift Mode

Quick note: Some of the links contained on this page are affiliate links and if you go through them to make a purchase, I will earn a commission. I only recommend products I use myself and think would be useful for other people.

Occasions coming up

With World Book Day, Mother’s Day, Ramadan & Easter on the horizon – it’s the perfect time to run through the wonderful gifts available on Etsy.

Initiate Etsy Gift Mode

A collection of calm items for your tranquil peacekeeper – I think I might look in this section for myself

Aromatherapy Bergamot Soy Candle, handmade in London – £13.50

Initiate Etsy Gift Mode

How cute is this candle?

The reviews also look great. I always check out reviews before I purchase a product and on the Etsy platform, they are easy to access and look through. You can also find details about how many other people have purchased this product.

Warrior pose Yoga art print – £14.00

The Warrior Pose – something I want to encapsulate.

The perfect gift for any Yoga lover out there.

There are also options for buying larger images.

Something for the wee one in your life

Kitchen Play Set | Beech Wood Cooking Set (9 Pcs) – £24.76

I still love our wooden play toys. Even though my little one is almost 5 years old – she still loves playing in her wooden kitchen, with her food items. The wood ones last the longest and they just look so beautiful.

Maybe you want an Easter gift with a difference. And to avoid giving the little one too much choccy?

Baby Girl Headband | Soft and Stretchy Cable Knit Bow Headband – £4.50

Initiate Etsy Gift Mode

We’ve all seen those cute pictures of babies and toddlers with the cutest headbands on.

Why not add to your World Book Day or Easter outfit, with one of these?

I am ordering one now for my little girl!

For the person who lives for live music

Gifts for Musicians – Music Brooch – £21.79

I came across this and it’s such a great gift. A unique piece to buy someone who loves music.

As someone who lives in a very musical family, this would be the perfect gift.

Personalized Instax Photo Album – £37.07

Such a personal gift for a loved one or a special occasion. Maybe you have a concert booked or want to capture some amazing memories.

Initiate Etsy Gift Mode

Now here’s the formula for the best science gift

Math Hoodie – Unisex Recycled Hoodie with all-over mathematical equations print – Sizes 2XS – 6XL – £77.09

Initiate Etsy Gift Mode

What a unique gift!

Do you have a science lover in your house? And would they love a personalised, hoodie – that relates to their special interest?

Robot Geek Kids Baby Shirt Science – £14.49

Initiate Etsy Gift Mode

Such a cute T-shirt for the little person in your life.

Someone who loves science – making and creating things. We have a creative child who loves to make things.

Funny Story about gifting

Do you have a funny story about gifting? Let me know yours in the comments.

MY STORY – I was 18 years old and my first boyfriend – first love – was staying over at our house. It was around my birthday and Valentine’s Day. The doorbell rang and a massive bunch of red roses was delivered. You can imagine the excitement.

Both my mum and I neglected to look at the card which came with the package. And assumed my boyfriend at the time had ordered these flowers (looking back, he wouldn’t have even known how to and it didn’t seem like something he would do).

We proceeded to thank my then-boyfriend, who was proclaiming he hadn’t ordered any flowers and it wasn’t him. As you can imagine, this awkwardly went on for a while and he was becoming more and more embarrassed.

I was feeling a range of emotions, mostly anger as to why he hadn’t thought to send me flowers. Haha – poor guy.

Anyway, we opened the card and they were from a magazine competition I had entered (I NEVER win competitions).

Whilst I was thankful for the amazing red roses, the embarrassment of the situation took a while to get over!

Final Thoughts

Initiate Etsy Gift Mode

Need more gifting inspiration – check out all my gift guides here

Amazing Valentine’s Day Offers & Discounts 2024

Do you celebrate Valentine’s Day? The occasion is right next to a birthday in our household, so we usually don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day as a stand-alone occasion. But we do buy small gifts. And I’m on the lookout for some gifts at the moment.

If you are too, I have some offers for you…

Quick note: Some of the links on this page are affiliate links; if you go through them to make a purchase, I will earn a commission. I only recommend products I use myself and think would be useful for other people.

​The Body Shop’s Latest Offers​

Valentine's Day Offers & Discounts

Free Valentine’s Heart Gift when you spend £35. CODE: VDAY

(9 am on Tuesday 30th January 2024 until 9 am on Tuesday 13th February 2024)

Free Vitamin E Gift when you spend £35. CODE: HYDRATE

(9 am on Monday 15th January 2024 until 9 am on Tuesday 30th February 2024)

Body Butter @ £14

(9 am Tuesday 9th January 2024 and 08.59 am Tuesday 20th February 2024)

Some of the gifts on offer from The Body Shop

Valentine's Day Offers & Discounts

The Sweetest Strawberry Heart Gift Box – £15

There’s no sweeter gift than our Strawberry Heart Gift Box. Inside they’ll find a Strawberry Lip Butter, Strawberry Body Butter and Strawberry Hand Cream, for all-over hydration.

Protect & Soften Hand Balm Trio – £16

Give their body care routine a helping hand with our Protect & Soften Hand Balm Trio, featuring our favourite picks from the Avocado, Almond Milk and Shea collections.

Valentine's Day Offers & Discounts

Nourish & Flourish Shea Duo – £8

Show them you’re thinking of them, with our Nourish & Flourish Shea Duo. This thoughtful mini shea butter gift set is ideal if you know they’re already a fan, or you want to introduce them to the range. It’s the perfect size for travel, too.

Nourish & Flourish Shea Gift Bag – £14

Surprise your favourite shea lover with this trio of mini treats, enriched with handcrafted Community Fair Trade shea butter from Ghana.

Valentine's Day Offers & Discounts

Valentine's Day Offers & Discounts

Nourish & Flourish Almond Milk Duo – £8

Soothe and surprise dry, sensitive skin with our moisturising Nourish & Flourish Almond Milk Duo gift set – infused with Community Fair Trade organic almond milk from Spain.

Nourish & Flourish Strawberry Duo – £8

Be sweet to someone with our Nourish & Flourish Strawberry Duo gift set. It features two body care minis, so it’s just as perfect for strawberry lovers as it is for someone new to the collection.

Valentine's Day Offers & Discounts

Cashback apps

Using Quidco for my online purchases has allowed me to earn of total of £86.29 in cashback so far. Sign up here using my referral link and earn a £15 bonus, once you’ve earned your first £5.00 cashback on the app.

Here are some more gift ideas for you…

Joules

Joules currently has a sale on, with 30% off winter styles. Shop the top-selling pieces that others love before they disappear.

Card Factory

3 Red Heart Valentine’s Day Balloon Bouquet – Pre-Order For Valentine’s Day!£16.99 
5 Red Hearts Valentine’s Day Balloon Bouquet – Pre-Order For Valentine’s Day!£19.99 
Hugs Helium Balloon & Hugs Milk Chocolate Hearts – Pre-Order For Valentine’s Day!£16.99
 Red Heart Helium Balloon & Sharing Cookie – Pre-Order For Valentine’s Day!£16.99 
Pre-order your balloon bouquets before 6pm on Monday 12th February to ensure delivery in time for Valentine’s Day!

Shopping with Card Factory? You can get 8% cashback by signing up to Quidco

allbeauty.com

Offer Details: £5 off £50 App Purchases. CODE: ALLAPP    

Start: 05.02.2024 – End: 11.02.2024

Bunches 

Bunches.co.uk is offering a 10% Discount. CODE: BUNFEB24 (on all orders until midnight Friday 1st March 2024)

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I hope you enjoyed reading through the discounts & offers available for Valentine’s Day, as well as some great gift ideas!

Valentine's Day Offers & Discounts

The Low Spend Guide to Halloween 

GUEST POST – read on for the author’s bio

It’s officially spooky season! 

Halloween is one of the most magical times for many of us. Whether you have fond memories of trick-or-treating as a child. Enjoy donning your fancy dress outfits for a night out on the town or prefer to stay inside sipping a PSL, it’s always guaranteed to be lots of fun.

However, the holidays seem to become more heavily commercialised with every year that passes. New trends are always popping up around this season. Which tend to be bigger, better and usually, more expensive.

Enjoy a low buy Halloween and autumnal season without the pressure to spend excessively by using these three tips…

Here comes your Low Spend Guide to Halloween

Opt for activities instead of items

The supermarket aisles are filled to the brim with seasonal items during October. If you’re trying to reduce the overwhelm, steer clear of the temptation to buy, and focus on planning activities instead.

Some low-spend ideas to get you in the mood for the change of seasons could include:

  • Rotating your wardrobe, bringing out your comfiest jumpers and cosy socks, and storing your summer items away until next year
  • Taking a long woodland walk through the crunchy leaves
  • Binge-watching an autumnal TV series (If you haven’t seen Only Murders in the Building, this could be the perfect choice to watch it, whilst snuggled on the sofa!)
Low Spend Guide to Halloween

Get recipe testing

One of the best ways to embrace the colder evenings is to spend time perfecting a few tasty meals. Look out for new recipes to try which use seasonal ingredients. Such as butternut squash, mushrooms, pumpkin, apples or figs.

If you want some money-saving offers, check out this page

Warming vegetable soups with crusty bread are always a huge hit at this time of year, or try something a little different, like a butternut squash risotto.

If you’ve got experience in the kitchen, you could even try a Halloween-themed dish, such as pumpkin gnocchi or ravioli. Another option is to create mini pizzas or pies in spooky shapes.

For the cosiest family dessert, try making mini smores using tea lights, or perhaps a chocolate fondue!

Another tip, coming up in the Low Spend Guide to Halloween

DIY your decor

Instead of purchasing lots of Halloween-themed decor that is likely to be stored away for the majority of the year, only to see the light of day for one month of the year. How about making your own decorations instead?

Paper decorations are super cheap to make. And can either be folded flat and stored for next year, or recycled.

If you have small children, try heading outside with a bag and collecting dried leaves to make your own leaf crafts and projects. This could include garlands, collages or even puppets!

Another thrifty option is to collect any old glass jars and decorate them to make colourful tea light holders. This is a simple upcycle that the whole family can enjoy, and it’s free too.

Avoid adding to the clutter, and get your craft on this season!

Author bio

Taryn runs a money and lifestyle blog called ‘Saving in London City’ and is on a mission to share the best money-saving tips, tricks and hacks. Taryn discusses the best ways to have fun on a budget today, whilst also saving towards long-term money goals for your future, such as a house deposit or dream holiday.

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Final Thoughts

I hope these tips help to remind you that it’s not necessary to spend your hard-earned cash in order to embrace the change in seasons!

Children’s Books & Toys Which Make The Perfect Gift

Welcome to my children’s books & toys gift guide. If you’re still struggling with gift ideas for Christmas, check them out. Maybe you want to donate some gifts to charity. Or you need a present for a nursery school birthday party.

Whatever the occasion, I have you covered with some fantastic ideas.

Children's Books & Toys

Quick note: Some of the links on this page are sponsored & affiliate links; if you go through them to make a purchase, I will earn a commission. I only recommend products I use myself and think would be useful for you.

Children’s books

Children's Books & Toys

Full Media

I have worked with Full Media previously and I am supportive of independent book publishers. Several of their books were included in the blog post discussing Children’s emotions. Today, I have some new titles to share and some fantastic plush toys to accompany the books.

Books

Plush Toys


Some other books for you to check out:

Matthew James Publishing

Clara Claus Saves Christmas

First, the reindeer got sick. Then Santa got sick. Now it’s up to Clara Claus and her slightly annoying brother Nick to save Christmas. But with toys to make, elves to manage, lists to sort and flying reindeer to train, can they summon enough Christmas spirit to deliver the perfect Christmas?

Clara Claus Saves Christmas is an exciting festive adventure filled with fun and Christmas spirit from the author/illustrator team that created the hugely popular Catch that Cough. Filled with friendship, family, heart and trust, as well as beautiful illustrations, Clara Claus is the perfect book to bring home this Christmas.

Susan Berk Koch

If you haven’t already read the blog posts written by this amazing science whizz, then head over there now. I genuinely look forward to reading her blog posts, especially the attractive and fun layout. And how she makes science fun.

I’ve recently found out she also wrote a book for kids. And I cannot recommend it highly enough.

Chemical Reactions brings chemistry to life with hands-on, science-minded activities and plenty of text-to-world connections that invite kids ages 7 to 12 to discover the wonderful world of chemical reactions!

Elfland Lost Wish Book & Character Explanations

This book is perfect for a Christmas Eve Box. I have let my little one start reading the book now, in the build-up to Christmas. And she absolutely loves it.

Christmas Eve Box
Elfland Range

Discover The Lost Wish by Clare Anderson and Emily Jacobs, illustrated by Emma Kurran, where imagination is limitless, and pure adventure awaits. It’s a tale guaranteed to excite and inspire young readers everywhere. 

Set off on a remarkable journey through a mystical land! Join Siena, a bright and brave little girl, who one stormy night, steps through a magical archway and into Elfland; a thrilling world of friendly elves, dangerous dragons, flying pixies and talking rats! Discover what adventure awaits her.

Buddy Soft Toy from The Lost Wish

I will be purchasing this plush toy, as an addition to my little one’s Christmas Eve Box. And to tie in with the theme of the book.

Christmas Eve Box
Buddy Soft Toy

Other great book titles we currently read at home

We actually bought Dave the Lonely Monster from a literature festival. Because it reminds my little one of a family member. This is one of the books tucked away on her high shelf, for safekeeping. And every now and then, Dave makes his appearance.

I love sitting down to read this book with her and we have hours of fun falling in love with lonely Dave.

We are huge fans of The Gruffalo books in our house. But recently our little one loves the puppet book and really interacts with the character. It is lovely to see.

Meg & Mog is such an old classic. We actually found our copy in a charity shop. My little one specifically asks for the ‘Meg & Mog book’. I just love the graphics and the feeling of nostalgia when reading it.

Children’s toys

Children's Books & Toys

WoWoW Toys

WoWow is a huge toy marketplace, with a great range to choose from! There are helpful sections, which are age-related and you can also search by toy type.

You can get 10% off your first order, by signing up for the mailing list.

AN ADDITIONAL DISCOUNT, FOR A LIMITED TIME… Until 31 December 2022, how about a mahoosive 12% discount, using code AW12

Some of my fave toys on the site:

I had a little look around the website and I have to say, the Peppa Pig Cash Register and the Wooden Market Shop are my faves.

They would go down well as Christmas presents in our house. Given that we are at the imaginative play stage.

Peppa Pig Cash Register

Melissa and Doug

Since my little one was a baby, we’ve purchased from this brand. I just love how unique the pretend play toys are.

Sign up for the mailing list for 25% off your first order!

ALSO 25% off orders over $75 with code GIFTDEC22

Deluxe Magnetic Standing Art Easel

Help spark creative expression in your budding artist with this generously sized, deluxe wooden easel featuring both a magnetic chalkboard and a dry-erase board. The removable plastic trays mean that kids have loads of easy-reach art supplies (not included) at their fingertips. Plus 39 letter and number magnets that are great for extended play!

Let’s Play House! Baking Play Set

What will children pretend to bake up with this 20-piece set? Anything they can think of! Promote creative play and imaginative thinking with these food-grade baking tools made of premium materials like stainless steel and solid wood, sized just right for little hands and play kitchens.

Hammer & Saw Tool Bench

The 32 pieces in this wooden building set include nails to pound with the hammer, screws to turn with the screwdriver, and panels to connect and saw apart. 

LEGO Minifigure 1000-Piece Puzzle (Jigsaw)

We do love a good puzzle in our house. We are all problem solvers and it’s great to see my little one making the connections in her brain. And using vital skills, whilst also playing.

This challenging 1000-piece jigsaw puzzle comes together to reveal a collection of your favourite LEGO mini figures! Whether you are a Master Builder or have just started clicking bricks together, this puzzle creates LEGO fun the whole family can enjoy together.

Bluey Mini Memory Game

We are huge fans of Bluey in our house. It’s the one kid’s programme we can all sit down and watch together. I won’t lie, the hubby and I get quite emotional at the lovely family moments.

I even have a Bluey blog post coming up soon.

Paint a Tea Set

My little one is a creative little soul. She loves sitting down with her paint pots and is so proud when she makes something of her own.

Every birthday and Christmas, she receives something creative from us. And we have hours of fun making something together. Then proudly displaying it on a shelf.

Final Thoughts

I hope you loved checking out these great items. I certainly had fun sharing the Children’s Books & Toys, we buy for our little one. And the amazing memories these create.

What is your favourite from the list?

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25 Great Gift Ideas For Valentine’s Day 2023 & Beyond

For this gift guide, I wanted to do something a little different and walk you through some of the great gift ideas I’ve received over the years. 

A funny story first

Firstly, a little bit of humour about the past frogs I’ve dated (they all got me to where I am today, so in hindsight, I’m thankful for the experiences). 

My first ever love, when I was just 18 years old, was at my house when I got a lovely, big bunch of roses delivered. The box was literally as big as my toddler is now. In the midst of all the excitement, my mum and I were way too hyped, saying thank you to him, to read the card which came along with the flowers. 

Turns out they were a prize from a magazine competition. A total mixture of emotions. Happy, as I had never won anything before. But slightly disappointed that the love of my life (or so I believed at the time) hadn’t bought them for me. I would say the embarrassment he probably felt was off the charts! 

If you have any embarrassing Valentine’s stories, let me know in the comments below. I would love to hear from you. 

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It’s amazing how my thoughts and feelings on Valentine’s gifts have changed over the years. These days my hubby and I buy each other small gifts. But also make a point of doing romantic things for each other all year round. It reminds me of the Bluey episode where dad shows romance by eating the horrible food the kids made. That is literally how our romance works these days. And honestly, as a tired mum, those “gifts” are worth so much.

However, let’s not deny that we all love to be treated every now and then, with great gift ideas. And also how important self-care is. You might have seen my latest TikTok beauty review, where I talk about the importance of a skincare routine. 

Let’s dive into the great gift ideas I’ve researched for this guide. I hope you find something for a loved one or even a gift to treat yourself…

Flowers 

It would be rude not to kick off the list with flowers.

Bloom & Wild

This company offer a great range of flower arrangements, all delivered flat-packed in a box. I ordered them for my Mum’s Birthday – they lasted ages and were amazing. So happy with the service and cannot wait to order again!

When I have bad mental health days, a bunch of flowers in the living room will brighten my day. Not to mention the scientific benefits of having plants and flowers in your home. 

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Bunches.co.uk

Bunches is a great, well-established family business with plenty of different categories, for your gifting needs. Great gift ideas! And you can also add extras at the checkout.

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Perfume 

I always look forward to birthdays, Christmas and Valentine’s Day. A great occasion to stock up on my perfume collection. On the rare occasions, I have a night out or get dressed up, perfume is a must. It makes me feel more alive.

Why not have a browse of your loved ones’ fave perfume or aftershave…

Boots

Boots.com has a varied selection of offers on fragrances at the moment. if you join the advantage card programme, you get sent great points offers. When you have enough points, you can convert these to pounds and use your card on your next purchase.

Joining the parenting club also offers extra points for the baby essentials you buy. I use it for toddler vitamins and dental care. Below is a selection of just a few offers I have on my app at the moment. I love the look of the children’s first aid kit. With a toddler who now wants to try skateboarding, it’s a must!

CURRENT OFFERS AVAILABLE:

Save 10% when you spend £30 on selected baby products with code SAVE10BABY – Online only – ends – 06/02/23

£10 worth of points for every £60 spent selected Electrical Beauty ends – 14/02/23

Save £5 when you spend £35, save £10 when you spend £50 and save £20 when you spend £70 on selected No7 – Online only – ends 07/02/23

Save up to 15% on selected fragrances – ends – 14/02/23

Free No7 face and eye palette when you spend £35 on selected No7 – Online only – ends – 14/02/23

Photo gifts 

Back in the day, I recall spending a small fortune on photos of every memory whilst at Disney World in Florida. However, those memories are worth the money several times over. In terms of how valuable they are. 

I just love that a photo gift is a keepsake that will last forever. It’s magical looking at the photo walls in our house. And the ones we bought my parents when we visit their house. Great gift ideas for those closest to you.

Starfish Underwater Photography

I am thrilled to have found this fantastic business, creating cute photo gifts for your loved ones. 

Some of the great products which would be perfect for your Valentine’s purchases are listed below:

You can either use an image purchased with the company or email your picture to mail@starfishphoto.co.uk

PLEASE go check out the underwater photoshoot experiences. They look amazing!

Snapfish

Snapfish currently has some generous discounts on its website. I will be placing an order with them today!

CURRENT OFFERS:

50% off Glitter Blocks
Code – WINSBLOCK
07-02-2023
Up to 50% off Everything: 30% off (no min. spend), 40% off £30 or more, 50% off £60 or more
Code – CUPID223
05-02-2023
40% off ALL Cards
Code – CARD223
05-02-2023

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Inkifi

Inkifi is a unique photo printing website. I particularly love their square and retro photo prints. Great gift ideas for your loved ones. And if you want to have smaller, compact photos dotted around the house.

DISCOUNT CODE: Enjoy 25% Off Sitewide! | Ends Midnight Monday 6th February 2023

Boots Photo

CURRENT OFFERS:

200 6×4 Prints for £12.50
Start Date: 01.02.2023
End Date: 28.03.2023
Code: 6X4200

50% off extra pages on photobooks
Start Date: 01.02.2023
End Date: 28.03.2023
Code: HALFEXTRA

Save 20% on all gifts
Start Date: 01.02.2023
End Date: 28.03.2023
Code: GIFTING20

Save 15% on wall art
Start Date: 01.02.2023
End Date: 28.03.2023
Code: 15DECOR

Days out and socialising

Wowcher

Wowcher has some great deals for days out and socialising. I am in the process of searching for one, for a lovely day out with a friend.

DISCOUNT CODE – Use code 15off23 for 15% off

CityStack 

city stack

With the January blues out in full force, and the weather still a little bit miserable. Socialising can help your mental health massively. Why not try out the fun idea of pre-buying this stack, to enjoy discounts at a range of pubs in London? 

Get a stack of beer mats for just £20 and offer a gift of £100 worth of food & drinks at ten amazing independent pubs across London

CityStack has been created to support independent pubs that are struggling with the current economic situation. Additionally, answer the issue of budget for going out.

DISCOUNT: Use code MUMMY23 for free shipping on the first order, up to 15/02/23

Self-care & Beauty

GlossyBox

GlossyBox is a great way to look after your skin, and prioritise self-care with a monthly subscription. As I am a busy mum, this is perfect, as I then don’t have to worry about self-care. It just comes directly to my door, at a time when I really need it.

DISCOUNT CODE – 15% off all GLOSSYBOX subscriptions – Code: CHIC15 – 01.02.23 – 28.02.23

The Body Shop 

If you follow the blog, you may have seen how much I love The Body Shop. They offer a range of great gift ideas. You cannot fault the quality of the products. They are the perfect website to get some self-care products for the ones you love. 

I’ve even bought my hubby the hemp hand cream and lip balm recently. As he does outdoor work, it’s a must. And how romantic that I am looking after him. He’s also just purchased the Cedar & Sage Conditioning Beard Oil for himself. And our honest thoughts on this product will be posted on the blog soon. 

You can check out all my blog posts for The Body Shop here

Veo World

The website is home to over 250+ unique, independent, ethical brands across Fashion, Beauty, cosy wellness gifts, Food, and Home.

DISCOUNT CODE: Subscribe for 10% off your first order

Evolve Beauty

DISCOUNT CODE: Sign up to the mailing list FOR 15% OFF YOUR FIRST ORDER

Evolve Beauty products are lovingly handmade in small batches at their studio in Hertfordshire, England to ensure the freshness of the precious antioxidants in the natural oils, butter and extracts. Our products are vegan, cruelty-free and eco-friendly.

allbeauty UK

DISCOUNT CODE: Extra 10% Off when you spend £50+ this Valentine’s. Use Code: HEART10

There are several sections on the website for your Valentine’s purchasing needs. Some great gift ideas.

Prezzybox

DISCOUNT: Sign up for the mailing list for 5% off your first order. *Min spend £30.

LSW Journals

OFFER: Sign up for the mailing list for 15% off your first purchase.

LSW London was founded by Lili Sinclair-Williams in 2018. Using her expertise as a therapist, she wanted to create well-being tools that were easy to use and accessible for everyone.

Focusing on positive habits we repeat daily, Lili curated her favourite techniques into our first product – LSW Mind Cards. Today, we have a full range of well-being and mindfulness products selling around the world.

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Giving back to charity 

I love nothing more than buying gifts, but also giving something back to charity. Often people will donate brand-new, unopened gifts. So next time you’re out and in need of a gift, pop into your local charity shop and have a look. 

Or try looking online for the items you need. 

Loony lurcher EGLR Store

I’m so pleased to share this lovely artwork with you.

All proceeds from these sales will go directly to Evesham Greyhound and Lurcher Rescue, A non-profit organisation who have a volunteer network across the UK. EGLR don’t receive any government help or grants and so totally relies on donations and fundraising to pay the ever-rising vet and food bills.

Royal British Legion

You can check out The Poppy Shop for some great gifts, which also benefit an amazing charity.

Why not make a donation, as the perfect Valentine’s gift to help other people?

Whether it’s a one-off donation or a regular gift, no donation is too small to make a difference.

£5 a month could help with vital household items for a veteran and their family.

Cancer Research UK Online Shop

The online shop is full of great gifts to buy your loved ones.

CURRENT OFFERS: There is also still a sale on the Christmas section of the website.

All whilst helping to support the amazing research the charity does.

Candles

Good Candles

Every candle sold means more money to charity and good causes. As featured in Stylist, Evening Standard and Courier magazine. They are a happy brand with an all-female illustration team who design the products. The workforce is climate positive. In addition, the product is Vegan.

Candles Direct

Candles Direct is a great way to buy from the top brands, and stock up on accessories. I am in love with these great gift ideas and want to purchase them now!

DISCOUNT – there is currently a 50% sale AND you can get 10% off if you sign up to the mailing list with your email

Clothing

Sock Shop

There are socks for every family member you can think of.

DISCOUNT CODE – get 10% off if you sign up to the mailing list with your email

The bamboo range looks amazing

Bamboo’s natural thermoregulation means it helps to keep feet warm on chilly days but can react to changes in temperature, releasing heat when it warms up.

Trendhim

When I was contacted by Trendhim, I loved looking through the amazing items on offer. It was the perfect gift solution for my hubby for Valentine’s Day. So what did I order?

I ordered the WAGNER YELLOW & BROWN WADE SUNGLASSES also the BLACK JAYDEN RING and the CLASSIC COGNAC LEATHER BELT

We love all the items and they were delivered promptly, in a cute little box.

Books

A book can be a great gift for a loved one. Check out the retailers to the left for some inspiration.

Creative gifts

Microgreen pros 

In our house, we love creative activities. And we had so much fun when this business kindly gifted us a kit(gifted in September 2022)

If you also love getting creative, gardening or watching things grow, this is a great gift to get started. 

I was previously sent an easy kit, a big planter, and a variety pack of seeds. Along with a cute ceramic pot.

Remember to use your DISCOUNT CODE

DISCOUNT CODE – For 15% off, use the code mummy15


Not found anything you like in this guide? Why not check out the retailers below for some inspiration?

Dont forget the wrapping & Valentine’s Cards

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Waterstones Gift Wrap
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Waterstones Valentine’s Day Cards
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Thortful makes a great range of greeting cards, all uniquely designed. They arrived packaged in a letterbox-style box and I was very impressed the last time I ordered. It’s now my go-to place for greeting cards.



REWARD: If you mention my name (Mummy Conquering Anxiety) at the Thortful checkout you’ll get 30% off your first order!

Final Thoughts

I hope you enjoyed reading the gift guide and that you found something for your loved ones.

Let me know your fave gifts in the comments below…

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A Unique And Quirky Gift From Do Us A Ditty

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Professional personalised poems in a heartfelt and witty style that make for great one-of-a-kind gifts for the special people in your life.

Why I love unique and quirky gifts 

If you follow my blog, you will know I love purchasing unique gifts nobody else would think of buying. When I saw this brand and the product they were offering, I was instantly attracted to it as something I would purchase for a loved one. 

Father’s day 

With Father’s Day right around the corner. Also, for a dad who is fussy and a hubby to buy for now, this is the perfect solution and I am thrilled to share this great gift AND a whopping 15% off. 

Read on for another huge surprise at the end of this post

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A bit about Do Us A Ditty 

Our mission: A poem dedicated to you is a rare yet wonderful experience. It might make you laugh, cry or roll your eyes but, most importantly, it makes you feel like you matter. 

Do Us A Ditty exists to create those magic little moments.

Professional personalised poems in a heartfelt and witty style that make for great one-of-a-kind gifts for the special people in your life. Suitable for all occasions, from birthdays and anniversaries to weddings and events, the company produces customised rhymes that can be printed and framed, written on cards or used as invitations and wedding favours. 

Customers simply provide 10 quick bullet points about their subject and Do Us A Ditty transforms this information into a unique poem in their chosen style. Be it funny, sentimental, cheeky or a mixture of them all. Available in a range of formats, these personalised poems are the perfect gift to show how much you care. 

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After reading all about this cute item, do you want to purchase one of these unique and quirky gifts?

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Not only are Do Us A Ditty providing a generous discount code for all of my readers, but they are also giving away one of these unique gifts. 

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GOOD LUCK…

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