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It all started here – now I am working on my third blog launch 

My online blogging journey began in July 2021. It was born out of hitting rock bottom and feeling compelled to help other people facing mental health struggles. I just had to write down my thoughts and feelings, and sharing my story aided my recovery. Now I am working on my third blog launch.

Needless to say, my writing journey began way back. I still have boxes full of poems and diaries I scribbled in and shoved away in our storage cupboard. I really should dig them out and do something with them! I’ve always considered myself a writer at heart. Writing is my method of communication. It’s how I express myself. Writing helps me process my emotions.

Don’t get me wrong, I still have bad days. Even bad weeks. Everything gets on top of me no matter how hard I try to prevent it. I still have unhealthy outbursts around those I love, because I allow anxiety to take over. However, no human is perfect. We are all flawed and the difference now, is I don’t beat myself up about my downfalls. Instead, I learn from it and move on.

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So how have I turned this ability into something I do each day? A passion that has taken over my life, in the best way possible?

I don’t do anything by halves. I never have done. My university days were spent burning the candle at both ends for three years. And as a result, almost seriously quit three times. From there, my life carried on in much the same fashion. A constant pattern of, running around like a superwoman, with lack of sleep, high anxiety, believing I could tackle the world. My blogging journey is no different.

The only difference is, that I am now a transformed person, who can manage my anxiety better. It hasn’t gone away, and it probably never will. However, I now look after my well-being daily. I make myself a priority. Hitting rock bottom has forced me to admit I cannot take on the world and I need a job with fewer hours, so I can focus on my little girl more.

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Time to review the way I live my life

Admitting you are not superwoman, when you’re predisposed to believe it, is a hard pill to swallow. However, hitting rock bottom was the best thing that could have ever happened to me.

Following my mental breakdown, I was forced to stop and take stock of my life. My mind and body wouldn’t allow any other mode than ‘go slow’. The only way to recover was daily self-care, medication, and self-love. By being brutally honest with myself and those closest to me, about my years of stress and anxiety. And telling the truth about what it did to me.

Don’t get me wrong, I still have bad days. Even bad weeks. Everything gets on top of me no matter how hard I try to prevent it. I still have unhealthy outbursts around those I love, because I allow anxiety to take over. However, no human is perfect. We are all flawed and the difference now, is I don’t beat myself up about my downfalls. Instead, I learn from it and move on.

Other places you can find my writing online

https://www.buymeacoffee.com/mummyca/why-important-look-mental-health-especially-outside-factors

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Why I Hid My Anxiety From Everyone For Years

5 autumnal themed accessories I will be purchasing this year and why they add value to my home

Why There Is No Time Limit For Recovery From Mental Illness

The Reality of Severe Anxiety – Guest Post by Sam

Final thoughts

In summary, I’ve set up two blogs and I am working on my third. However, I am confident I will know when a rest is required. When a long soak in the bath is to be favoured over writing a blog post.

You can be a certain personality type, even honour this, but also honour yourself and take care of your needs.

When you suffer the impact of a mental breakdown, you can’t ever go back to the person you were before. You’ve lived through the hard lessons already. It makes you a pro at detecting your stress levels are rising, and it’s time for some much-needed recharge time.

How do you manage your stress levels? I would love to know the techniques you use! Let me know in the comments below

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I can’t wait to launch my third blog, in the meantime, you can view all my blog posts here. You can sign up for my freebie library here and you can check out the social media accounts for my second blog here.

How guest posting improved my domain authority score in the first six months

By offering a guest post slot on my blog for other people, I felt like I was giving something back. I honestly felt emotional and proud to host some of the amazing writing I will talk about in this post. 

And best of all, I got feedback like this:

Just wanted to extend my sincerest thanks to you for posting my content on your blog.  I feel like it’s been very well received, and I so appreciate your help with getting the conversation and message out there.  Please don’t hesitate to reach out in the future if there’s ever another project I can help with.  Thanks for the great work that you do.

Guest posting is a way for us to strengthen our relationships in the blogging world. To support one another and share in our talents. For this reason, guest posts are still open on my blog and you can send your ideas using this form.

But I also wanted to dedicate a blog post to talking about the benefits of guest posting

Your writing can be seen by a wider audience, especially if you’re new to blogging 

The reality is, not many people will see your writing when you start publishing. But don’t be disheartened! Google ranking takes time. Social media promotion can be tedious, but it also pays off. After three months I saw the results of my hard work. 

Think of it like this. If you don’t tell anyone you’re writing is there, how will they know? Imagine the millions of Google searches each day and how hard it is to find one specific piece of writing. You have to trust the process. 

You will make lasting connections with other bloggers

Some of the relationships I’ve formed by communicating with other bloggers via email are valued to this day. It’s refreshing to make contact via another communication method, other than Twitter. It’s also lovely to chat with other creative minds about your writing and get feedback. 

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Improving your domain authority (DA) score

For anyone who doesn’t know (I didn’t when I first started blogging) I am going to trust another source with explaining. I am not the most technical person, hehe!

Definition: Domain Authority (DA) is a metric created by the SEO consulting and research company Moz which measures a website’s likelihood to rank on search engines. “Authority” is often used outside of Moz’s metric to describe a domain’s relative “strength,” determined in large part by their backlink portfolio.

Domain Authority is used as a predictive measure for PageRank, Google’s proprietary algorithm that plays a major role in determining search engine results. Due to the shroud of secrecy around PageRank, Moz’s DA metric is widely considered to be one of the best third party tools for evaluating domain strength.

SOURCE – https://www.bigcommerce.co.uk/ecommerce-answers/what-is-domain-authority/

MY DA score started off low, but jumped to 15 after three months of immense hard work, day and night. And now it’s at 22. Backlinks from higher authority websites will improve your DA score. Who wouldn’t want to do that? Whilst also building lasting relationships.

A summary of the guest posts I wrote for other people

Why I Hid My Anxiety From Everyone For Years

5 autumnal themed accessories I will be purchasing this year and why they add value to my home

Why There Is No Time Limit For Recovery From Mental Illness

Together In Mamahood interview: Sam, Mummy Conquering Anxiety

The Reality of Severe Anxiety – Guest Post by Sam

Head over and check them out. It’s great to have my writing on other people’s sites. Follow me on Twitter for updates on my guest posts.

A summary of my recent writing on other platforms

In recent months I’ve also expanded where I publish my writing. Some of what I want to say doesn’t fit with the topics on this blog and it’s refreshing to publish on another platform.

https://www.buymeacoffee.com/mummyca/why-important-look-mental-health-especially-outside-factors

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Guest posts I’ve hosted on my blog

Final thoughts

I hope you’ve enjoyed reading this post. I will be regularly updating it with new guest posts.

Let me know if you’ve read the posts above, or whether you missed them the first time and you’re checking them out again.

What are your thoughts on guest posting? I would love to hear from you in the comments below.

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Why Attending A Literature Festival Is An Amazing Experience

I love reading books and writing about everything in my life, and I also love participating in the stories other people have to share. As someone who loved the literature part of my English degree and still has the quotations book given to me as a prize by my headteacher as a teenager, soaking up literature is something I have continued into adulthood.

Prior to setting up three blogs, I attended the local literature festival for as long as I can remember. On those days I arrange childcare and totally clear my schedule. Free to immerse myself in culture, and words. More importantly, to be in the company of other amazing creatives. I am now finding ways to travel further afield. It is time to share with you what I found when I searched for more opportunities to do something I love.

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UK literature festivals to attend

Ilkley Literature Festival

7-23 October 2022

The festival website states –

We are the longest-running literature festival in the north and we celebrate all things reading and writing.

Book your tickets here.

Borderlines Carlisle Book Festival

4th October – 10th October 2022

The festival website states –

Borderlines is a not-for-profit event, now in its 7th year, run by volunteers who believe in community – and the joy of words. We deliver a Festival that balances bringing major national and international names to Carlisle with celebrating and showcasing fantastic local talent. We also run events and activities that encourage and inspire individual creativity.

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Manchester Literature Festival

Fri 7 – Sun 23 October 2022

The festival website states –

Encounter incredible writers, actors, comedians, musicians, poets & change-makers. Fri 7 – Sun 23 October 2022. Featuring Edward Enninful, Rob Delaney, Ian Rankin & more!

Book your tickets here.

Verey Books – Pooley Bridge

This is another gem I found out about from contact with a publisher. What a mission this bookshop has –

We want to work with schools and the local community to promote new ideas and initiatives. Through book clubs, ‘walking’ book clubs, poetry slams, storytelling events, book launches and writers’ workshops – we seek to share knowledge, cause conversation and bring people together through the spoken and written word.

Check out all the events they have on here.

2022 Petworth Festival Literary Week

27 October – 6 November 2022 – BOX OFFICE OPEN FROM 28 SEPTEMBER 2022 

The festival website states –

The Petworth Festival is a remarkable success story. Founded over 40 years ago by Lord Egremont and a group of like-minded local people, including the composer Robert Walker, an event which first straddled a weekend has now become a major fixture in the summer diary, not just locally but also throughout the region.

Book your tickets here.

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Cheltenham Literature Festival

7 October 7 – 16 October 2022

The festival website states –

Cheltenham Literature Festival is the world’s first literature Festival, leading the way in celebrating the written and spoken word.

Book your tickets here.

Berwick Literary Festival

Some of the events are FREE to attend!

13 October – 16 October 2022

The festival website states –

A very warm welcome as we return to live events in Berwick at this year’s Festival. We are delighted to offer a varied and attractive programme that has a focus on Berwick and north-east England, a strong Scottish element, and an international aspect. We hope to entertain, to inform, and to encourage everyone with an interest in words and their expression. Over four days the 9th Festival will include both Zoom and live events around the town, using several new locations for the first time too. Central to north Northumberland and the eastern Scottish Borders, our walled town provides a stunning backdrop to very varied events.

Book your tickets here.

Stratford Literary Festival – Winter Weekend

11-13 November 2022

The festival website states –

Since 2008 we’ve been bringing you an exciting mixture of debate, ideas, celebrity author events, workshops and humour in spring and winter. We’re also a charity promoting the benefits of reading and writing on education, literacy and well-being in schools, the community and prisons.

The Festival is one of the most significant literary festivals in the UK, attracting thousands of people who share one passion: a love of books, writing and reading.

Book your tickets here.

Kendal Mountain Festival

17th November – 20th November

I have only recently heard about this festival, through contact with a publisher about reviewing some amazing writers who find new and creative ways to cope with anxiety. The festival website states –

Our vision is, and always has been, “To inspire more people to explore, respect and represent mountains, wilderness and their cultures” and today this seems more relevant and timely as ever.

Book your tickets here.

Hay Festival Winter Weekend

24th November – 27th November

A seasonal weekend of wonder! Join us for a very special Hay Festival Winter Weekend 24-27 November in the newly renovated Hay Castle. Priority booking opens to Friends of Hay Festival Tuesday 27 September. General booking opens Friday 30 September.

Book your tickets here.

Final Thoughts

I hope you enjoyed reading about my passion for reading and writing.

Have you been to a literature festival? Will you be booking one in the future?

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Introducing The Writer’s Job Newsletter – Why I’m grateful to be a writer

#AD – a review of The Writer’s Job Newletter

Gratitude day is the perfect time to talk about something I love – writing! In this post, you will hear all about why I’m grateful to be a writer.

Today, I will be sharing my thoughts on The Writer’s Job Newsletter. Firstly, I want to share with you why this newsletter had such an impact on me, and in order to explain this to you, we need to step back in time, just a few years.

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When my love affair with writing began

Every day I’m grateful to be a writer. It’s in my blood.

I still have a nursery rhyme book I wrote lists in when I was tiny. From the age of 12, I was writing folders full of poetry. I wrote for our local newspaper and still have the clippings. I have a portfolio folder full of the pieces I wrote for work experience and throughout my university days and I one day dreamed about writing a book. I also toyed with the idea of becoming an English teacher.

I still have boxes full of diaries I wrote in during my younger days and sometimes go through them. It makes me feel nostalgic about those days. I really should read them again soon and get some inspiration for the blog. When we moved in together, I told my now hubby I was keeping these to one day contribute towards my book. It’s vital information I needed to keep, justifying the reason for taking up so much space in our storage cupboard.

It’s the reason newsletters like this are invaluable. It’s a quick and easy way for budding and established writers to gain access to people and organisations seeking their services. Everyone benefits.

During the worst times of my life, living through anxiety and depression, I’ve used journaling as the main technique to help me get through it. There is something about releasing the words onto the physical piece of paper. Therapists have taught me to rip them up afterward and complete a breathing exercise. Literally releasing the negative energy from my body and it really does make you feel better when you complete this exercise. If this is something you feel like trying, Zoella talks more about journaling here. The benefits of journaling and how to get started are also discussed in this article.

More on the therapeutic benefits of writing creatively

This Independent article, along with this article discusses the benefits of writing creatively and how it can improve your mental health. Whilst writing in a diary is a form of creative writing because your personal thoughts are recorded on paper, like a story, there are other creative ways you can process your emotions. On the flip side, some believe feeling strong emotions actually fuels creativity. You can read more on this here.

Personality type and how this impacts the way you express yourself creatively

Although I’m grateful to be a writer, it has some downsides. You sometimes become consumed by the creative process and it’s hard to step away when you literally have thoughts spilling out of your head. It can be exhausting at times.

I’ve asked myself this question in the past… Can personality type really impact how we interact with the world and possibly make us communicate in a different way to others? You can read all about my personality type here.

I write about it in this blog post, because interestingly my personality type indicates I am creative and a possible job includes ‘writer’. Is it therefore coincidence that I started a blog?

I remember taking this Myers-Briggs personality test as part of a training course at work and it honestly makes you realise a lot about yourself. If testing your personality to discover more about yourself is something you’re interested in, you can read more in this Hubspot blog.

You can also read more about the Advocate personality type here. For anyone who has read my previous blogs, I think we can all agree this is true – “Advocates may feel that they aren’t allowed to rest until they’ve achieved their unique vision of success, but this mindset can lead to stress and burnout.”

Why are writers so important – using our voice to affect change

Writers are vital, for not only sharing stories or reporting news events but also giving a voice to a cause or a topic we need to discuss in society. For this reason, newsletters like this are invaluable. It’s a quick and easy way for budding and established writers to gain access to people and organisations seeking their services. Everyone benefits.

With the Internet allowing us to make connections all over the world, hitting rock bottom this year meant I relied on the one trusted method I had to express myself – writing. And I felt compelled to start a blog. To use the one thing I was good at to help others. To tell my story and hopefully make a difference in changing the stigma surrounding mental health. You can read more on why I started blogging here.

I am grateful we have writers in the world and respect everyone who is bravely speaking out on the topic of mental health at the moment. Changes in society don’t happen overnight, but collectively we can make an impact.

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Making connections and grabbing opportunities

I’ve made connections with some amazing people since creating my social media accounts and starting the blog. One of them being Della and I need to introduce you to the amazing newsletter she runs. 

Just knowing there is a newsletter out there containing paid freelance writing jobs makes me excited. It’s something I hadn’t seen previously and I thought it was handy to have this vital information in one place. It also brought me a sense of confidence. I felt worthy of such jobs and also wondered whether it would be something I would consider in the future. 

I am now actively looking for freelance writing opportunities and starting off small, but still taking action to reach my goals.

At the moment, my blog is there to help others, but it’s no secret I would be overjoyed if I could make a living from writing. The newsletter email also contains non-paid work, but great opportunities to gain experience and exposure for someone new to blogging, like me. 

My review

I’ve now received two Newsletters via email and found the links posted include varied subjects, from gaming to engineering, so there really is something for everyone. I love the fact the newsletter is set out into easy-to-read sections and includes paid jobs, calls to pitch, details of competitions, and other useful information.

HERE are the all-important links you need:

You can find the Twitter account here.

The Newsletter website can be found here. Pay them a visit and sign up – you won’t be disappointed!

Final thoughts

The newsletter will be my go-to when seeking out paid jobs or other opportunities which could help me achieve my future goals. I still get excited when I receive the email on a Sunday and I hope you will too.

As I am actively on the hunt for opportunities, I will keep you posted on any progress I make.

On gratitude day I thought it was apt to share why I’m grateful to be a writer and why I’ve always relied on this communication method to express myself…I hope you enjoyed reading this post!

Let me know in the comments below whether you’ve subscribed to the Newsletter and how useful you found it.

Please also remember to let Della know about your experience. I am sure she would appreciate the feedback.

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Amazing Blogs For Spooky Season & Those Cosy Winter Reads

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Welcome to my November 2022 advertisers

Please show my November 2022 advertisers some love, by commenting, sharing their posts, and interacting with one another. I regularly post on Twitter about the blogging community and how it is great to be part of such a supportive group. Let’s dive into some cosy winter reads and products for your Christmas purchasing needs.

Look out for updates on these advertisers and their amazing work, throughout the month on Twitter.

Life Of Morag

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A little bit about the blog

I started Lifeofmorag after a life-changing accident as a way to fill my time and give me focus. That was back in 2018. Now four years on I write about a range of topics from travel (I have visited 39 countries) to books to social issues. I also write a lot about chronic illness and mental health, both from my own experiences and coping strategies. 

Blog posts you should check out for your cosy winter reads

‘PREY FOR THE DEVIL’: HORROR, PSYCHOLOGY, POWER IMBALANCES AND A FILM REVIEW

NEW BEGINNINGS: A SOCIAL WORK MASTERS

MANAGING TRAVEL ANXIETY: CHRONIC ILLNESS, COVID RULES AND BODY IMAGE

Ways to connect with Morag

Instagram

Twitter

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Bookish Night In

You can now purchase cosy winter reads, for yourself or your loved ones – check out more details below.

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A little discount for you

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A little bit about the website

Discover the book box you DESERVE! Bookish Night In is proud to announce our December pre-order box featuring The Prophecy Of The Water Sprite by K. Rose & Raiders Treasure by Leann Ryans! Also, our Christmas advent calendar-style box which features Loxley Savage with Seven Sins Of Snow & VB Gilbert with Bairseach. Willow Hayes with Ours To Keep & Mallory Fox with A History Of Violence.

How does it work?

  • You can buy one of our available now boxes and get it right away, or, pre-order the next one.
  • You can choose between a budget box, with one signed book, or, a deluxe box with two signed books. You have the option to choose either a self-care package or an adult toy.
  • Our budget boxes contain at least three self-care products and our deluxe boxes come with three to five self-care products. Our adult box comes with an adult toy worth at least £40.

Ways to connect

Join the Facebook group for author & book reveals!

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Final Thoughts

Please show these amazing bloggers some love. And look out for updates about them throughout the month.

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Looking for a gift guide for your Christmas shopping needs? Check out all the ones I’ve written below.

14 AMAZING COSY WELLNESS GIFTS FOR WINTER & BEYOND

THE REASONS I PURCHASE WITH ONE TRUSTED BRAND FOR GIFTS & SELF-CARE PURCHASES

MY FAVOURITE SELF-CARE PRODUCTS FROM THE BODY SHOP

ADVENT CALENDAR OF TREATS FROM THE BODY SHOP

I HAVE MORE ADVENT CALENDARS TO SHARE FROM THE BODY SHOP

THE NEW EDELWEISS RANGE FROM THE BODY SHOP 

SOME AMAZING WELLNESS PRODUCTS – FOR YOUR GIFTING & CHRISTMAS NEEDS

MY GUIDE TO THE BEST APPAREL OUT THERE CONTRIBUTING TO GREAT CAUSES

WHY GIFT GUIDES ARE AN AMAZING RESOURCE WHEN ONLINE SHOPPING

The Body Shop:

THE REASONS I PURCHASE WITH ONE TRUSTED BRAND FOR GIFTS & SELF-CARE PURCHASES

MY FAVOURITE SELF-CARE PRODUCTS FROM THE BODY SHOP

ADVENT CALENDAR OF TREATS FROM THE BODY SHOP

I HAVE MORE ADVENT CALENDARS TO SHARE FROM THE BODY SHOP

THE NEW EDELWEISS RANGE FROM THE BODY SHOP 

Here are some of the previous gift guides I created:

10 UNIQUE MENKIND GIFTS FOR THE SPECIAL MAN IN YOUR LIFE

4 AMAZING GIFT IDEAS FOR THE SPECIAL MAN IN YOUR LIFE

THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX FOR YOUR VALENTINE’S DAY GIFT

THE BEST DISCOUNTS & DEALS ON THE INTERNET FOR MOTHER’S DAY

THE REASONS I PURCHASE WITH ONE TRUSTED BRAND FOR GIFTS & SELF-CARE PURCHASES

THE ULTIMATE LIST OF SELF-CARE PACKAGE GIFT IDEAS FOR EVERY OCCASION

5 LAST-MINUTE ONLINE CHRISTMAS GIFTS FOR THE ONES YOU LOVE

CHRISTMAS GIFT GUIDE MY TRUSTED NO7 ESSENTIALS

I’m participating in Blogtober – here are 4 reasons I’m thrilled about it

I think I’ve previously mentioned, I don’t do anything by halves. It’s all or nothing with me. That’s why I’m participating in Blogtober.

I started the blog on 15 August 2021 and decided I would absolutely be doing Blogtober as soon as I heard about it on Twitter. I love a challenge, so why not? There is also the small issue of trying to get my blog out there, rank, spread a message, become more popular – surely posting throughout October will help with this. 

If you don’t know what Blogtober is, you can read more about it here.

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Mental Health Awareness Day

As the main topic of my blog is mental health, the lead-up to Mental Health Awareness day is a perfect time for me to share mental health-related posts during the week Monday 4th – Sunday 10th October.

You can read more about why I started a mental health blog in this post.

Will you be writing about mental health during October 2021? Let me know in the comments below.

When you’re passionate about something, you excel at it. It doesn’t feel like hard work!

#Blogtober – LET’s GO!!!

I am so excited to be participating in Blogtober, on the first day of October I needed to share my excitement.

Halloween is my favourite occasion and we do something to celebrate each year. You can read more about my DIY Halloween costumes below. This year I am super excited for autumn and I am focusing on the lead-up to Halloween, celebrating the small things. You can read more in my blog posts below:

 

The Low Spend Guide to Halloween 

It’s the Season to Get Warm & Cosy With Candles

How You Can Use The Blogtober Challenge To Increase Engagement

I am not ready to stop talking about Halloween

My review of Kemps Farm, Horsforth pumpkin picking event

4 times I rocked Halloween parties with my homemade costumes

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All about autumn

In true celebratory style, these are the reasons I am participating...

  1. Making connections 

Out of all my social media platforms, I’ve had the most success on Twitter and I genuinely look forward to opening the app each morning, simply because the blogging community is so supportive and kind to one another. Check out my about me page, for the low down on my story leading up to starting a blog.

  1. I have LOADS of content

Like other bloggers, I have so many half-written blog posts. I usually get inspiration in the early hours of the morning and have to record my thoughts. This then turns into a blog post, but I like to get the writing bit done first. 

Before I bought hosting or started my research on blogging, I was writing and recording titles for blog posts on a spreadsheet. I knew what I wanted to write, but I just didn’t have the time to write the posts in full yet. 

Blogtober is the perfect opportunity to force me to organise these posts and it’s exactly what I’ve done. Why not spend a full month posting blogs, when they are pretty much ready to share with the world??

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  1. I love a challenge 

I’ve mentioned this above, but I need to open up to you a little more about the reality of my personality. I am driven, determined, and stubborn. I was born this way. It’s usually what causes my high anxiety levels, but it also has its benefits. I am a hard worker and given my recent circumstances (mental breakdown, impending redundancy), I am determined to carve out the life I want to live. Hard work, determination, manifesting the future I want. What better opportunity to totally make this happen than Blogtober. You can read more about how I motivate myself in this post, 8 questions I’m asking myself in preparation for gratitude day.

Let’s do this!!

  1. It’s what I love 

When you’re passionate about something, you excel at it. It doesn’t feel like hard work!

I’ve always loved writing, it’s how I communicate best and I use this medium to express myself. Why not do a whole crazy month of expressing myself. It’s like a dream come true. 

Yes, I will be busy! But I will also be doing something I absolutely love each day and this makes me smile.

Final thoughts

I want to wish my fellow bloggers who are participating in #blogtober a successful month.

Here are a few affirmations to spur us on…

  1. I am succesful
  2. I am worthy
  3. Today will be amazing
  4. I am at peace
  5. I accept myself
  6. I have the tools I need to succeed in life
  7. I am calm & collected
  8. I am grateful for everything I have In my life
  9. My life is full of abundance and happiness
  10. I’m proud of myself for my acomplishments
  11. I am confident
  12. I will listen to my instincts
  13. Others’ thoughts or judgements won’t impact me
  14. I have love, happiness, & prosperity
  15. I will remain positive during tough times
  16. My own self care is a priority to me
  17. I can, I will, I am
  18. I have the tools to create the future I want
  19. I respect myself and others
  20. I will live with an open mind & an open heart
  21. My past experiences do not define me
  22. I do not need to control the future
  23. What is destined for me will arrive in due course
  24. I choose happiness, resilience, and gratitude
  25. I have the power to control what I think
  26. Spreading kindness is my main goal
  27. My life is overflowing with joy
  28. I have a grateful heart & a happy mind
  29. Today will be filled with beauty
  30. I am grateful for all the blessings in my life
  31. My past experiences have made me stronger
  32. I will leave yesterday’s mistakes are behind me
  33. My life is exactly where it should be right now
  34. I am brave, and I am willing to face my fears
  35. I am willing to step outside my comfort zone

Are you participating in Blogtober? Let me know in the comments below…

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A Trio of Sisters Bringing Joy to Peoples’ Lives

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From January 2023, I have simplified advertising packages. The grande package entitles you to several backlinks throughout the month. You get your own dedicated blog post, a custom link in my sidebar, and Instagram shares

I’m taking bookings now, save your spot for the new year. My blog stats and details of the packages are below.

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When I first came across The Grumpy Olive

Before I launched my first blog in July 2021, I joined Twitter. It was so much fun discovering new bloggers, making connections and finding my feet. 

The name of the blog drew me in. The style of writing is so down to earth. You feel like you know each of the sisters, like a good friend you love to go have coffee with. This blog continues bringing joy to my life and I hope you feel the same.

That name though

What an amazing, quirky, attractive name for a blog. It’s so unique and I just loved it from the start. 

A trusted blog

I know if I need a recipe, with all the instructions listed, I can visit this blog. 

Book posts – another one of my fave topics. 

Coffee – I love it so much as a busy mum. 

This month’s blog posts – from The Grumpy Olive

Without further ado, let’s get into this month’s blog posts from The Grumpy Olive. 

What a great and very comprehensive list of recent reads. I love how you can choose to look through the synopsis and there are useful links for where to purchase the book. 

These pancakes look amazing. Our little one loves making pancakes with daddy on a weekend. Simply because they are so quick and easy to make. And it allows her to get involved. 

The addition of pumpkin spice is a lovely touch and I’m intrigued to find out what they taste like. 

I love a good casserole, especially at this time of year. And the images in this post look absolutely amazing. Adding it to my slow cooker recipes list. 

What a great recipe. One I would use at home to save money on the coffee bill. Time to start purchasing some coffee-making essentials. 

If you missed the advertiser’s post 

You can check out the advertiser’s post if you missed it at the beginning of the month. 

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A little bit about the blog

We are The Grumpy Olive, a team of three sisters blogging from London. On our blog, we write about all the things we love and including food, coffee, beauty and books among many things. You can expect to find easy but tasty recipes, the latest in books and also some talk on beauty and travel because we may fancy that here and there. But most of all, The Grumpy Olive is a little corner of the internet where everything is just fun, new and upbeat – just what the doctor ordered!

Ways to connect with The Grumpy Olive

Facebook

Twitter

Pinterest

Instagram

Final Thoughts

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It is a privilege to have this lovely trio of sisters advertising with me.

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Come & Meet The Grumpy Olive With Me

Today, I am talking to you about my amazing gold advertiser for September.

Since I started my journey in the world of blogging, I have followed these sisters. I love to hear about all things, coffee, books, and lifestyle.

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If you missed the advertiser’s post for this month, you can read it here.

The Grumpy Olive

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A little bit about the blog

We are The Grumpy Olive, a team of three sisters blogging from London. On our blog, we write about all the things we love and including food, coffee, beauty and books among many things. You can expect to find easy but tasty recipes, the latest in books and also some talk on beauty and travel because we may fancy that here and there. But most of all, The Grumpy Olive is a little corner of the internet where everything is just fun, new and upbeat – just what the doctor ordered!

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Blog posts you should check out

Matcha Tiramisu Easy Recipe

I absolutely love eating Tiramisu. But what you will find on The Grumpy Olive blog is a unique and quirky writing style. It keeps you entertained and also makes you feel like you’re chatting over coffee with a friend. This isn’t just a recipe, it’s a catch-up.

Easy Vegan Mushroom Wellington Recipe

I am personally not a huge fan of mushrooms, but I would follow this recipe and maybe change the ingredients slightly. I do love that the blog offers lots of vegan options.

Apricot Jam Recipe Without Pectin

Another thing I absolutely love about reading recipes on The Grumpy Olive, is the detail. You get to learn about the science behind cooking or the history relating to food. And you genuinely feel like you’ve learned something new.

Vegan Rice Paper Rolls With Peanut Dipping Sauce

These rolls look absolutely amazing. So yummy and the dipping sauce is the perfect edition. Again, you get lots of information on where to buy the ingredients and how to store them.

Please go check out their posts, give them a follow on Twitter, or support them by commenting on and sharing their blog posts, You won’t be disappointed when you have a browse through the blog.

Ways to connect with The Grumpy Olive

Facebook

Twitter

Pinterest

Instagram

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I am taking bookings for the rest of 2022 and you can find more details here.

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Final thoughts

I hope you enjoyed reading this post. 

I also hope you enjoy checking out these blog posts.

How You Can Use The Blogtober Challenge To Increase Engagement

I took part in the blogtober challenge last year. It was an extremely busy month, but I also managed to release a lot of blog posts, which massively helped my engagement.

In October 2021, my blog was only three months old and therefore I was still in the growing phase.

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The post will outline how the challenge can help you engage more with other bloggers. Therefore increasing page views and how many people view your writing.

Halloween is my favourite time of year and I secretly spend the summer waiting for a scary Halloween party and some spooky fun!

What is blogtober challenge?

Blogtober is an annual event held every October. It involves posting one blog per day, every day of the month. Because I was brand new to blogging when the blogtober challenge came up last year, I only made it part way through. However, I was proud of the progress I made.

As you can see from the archive on my website –

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October 2021 is still the month in which I released the most blog posts. And I managed to release some pretty important content:

How You Can Use The Blogtober Challenge To Increase Engagement

A look back on how far I got with the blogtober challenge

Knowing when to stop is how I know I’ve evolved

5 amazing days out on my 2021 autumn bucket list

I’m participating in Blogtober – here are 4 reasons I’m thrilled about it

The type of content you release

it is completely up to you whether to have a Halloween-related theme or use this month to talk about a range of subjects on your blog. You will see from the posts above, I did a bit of both. It was also Mental Health Awareness Week, which I believe is a great time to raise awareness of the issues I discuss on my blog.

How to get involved

You can get involved by searching the blogtober hashtag on Twitter. If you are part of the blogging community, get involved with fellow bloggers. You could participate in a blogging tag, and nominate other bloggers to join in. It really is a fun month and I cannot wait for it to come around again.

Final thoughts

Will you be taking part?

How are you preparing for the month?

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Why your fellow bloggers are an excellent resource

When I first started my blogging journey, I was overwhelmed and I didn’t have a clue. Naturally, I made mistakes. I haven’t repeated these mistakes with my second and third blogs. Simply because I now have experience. 

Using this logic, why not tap into the vast knowledge each blogger has? You should absolutely treat other bloggers as trusted sources because they do this job consistently. They have lived through mistakes and genuinely want to help other people with the products they create. 

I only wish I had tapped into some of these amazing resources, from fellow bloggers, earlier on in my blogging journey. 

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Quick note: Some of the links contained on this page are affiliate links and if you go through them to make a purchase, I will earn a commission. I only recommend products I use myself and think would be useful for you.

Throughout this blog post, I am going to talk about some of the fellow bloggers I have come across and why their products are a must on your blogging journey.

Izzy Matias

I first came across Izzy when I won a giveaway for her blogging course and can I just say, I am loving working through this at the moment.

I’ve just won a second giveaway with her – how amazing! 

You will not be disappointed by her products and it may just provide you with the concrete foundations you need to stay motivated on your blogging journey. 

Blogging isn’t easy and at times you can feel like giving up. Outlining your purpose and your goals is essential, to keep you motivated. Izzy will help you do this.

Reinventing Neesha

Another absolute trusted resource is Neesha. After years of blogging, she definitely knows her stuff and I find her eBook and money-making emails so helpful.

If you’re starting out on your journey and you are interested in using affiliate marketing to make money, buy and read this eBook. Buying this book will literally change the way you think about writing your blog posts. It is also encouraging me to be selective about the products I promote, in order to get the best return for the time I spend working on the content.

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Lynn Mumbing Mejia

Lynn’s content is so inspirational. It’s like looking at those perfect interior design Pinterest photos. Her blogging templates are no different!

I will be honest and admit when I first started blogging, I thought I could do everything myself! It soon became apparent there was limited time for all the wonderful ideas swirling around in my head. Whilst I intend to eventually create my own Gumroad shop, creating social media templates is time-consuming and I just cannot fit it in. Therefore I have purchased templates for each one of my blogs. And they are so easy to use.

Here are some of my favourites from Lynn:

Nora | 50 Pinterest Templates Canva

We all want amazing Pins which will draw in readers to our blog. Pinterest is a difficult game anyway, but then creating your pins from scratch, adds even more stress. These beautiful templates will take away the added stress, leaving you to write, set aside some time for self-care, or whatever you love doing in your spare time.

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Lucy Instagram highlight covers

I didn’t use Instagram highlight covers initially, but let’s be honest, the profiles with them look more professional, dont they?

Because I love seeing them, I have purchased highlight covers for each of my blogs, and I am so glad I did. This post is motivating me to finally add them to my social media accounts. They are so cute and I can’t wait to see what they look like.

50 Pinterest templates

More amazing Pinterest templates to ease the stress on you.

Media kit

We all need a media kit. If you want to monetize your blog and impress brands, it’s a must. You can view mine here. The best resource I can find about why it is vital is from Rosie. Please take a read.

Should you want to create a media kit, look no further than this amazing template by Lynn.

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Gemma Jayne

There is no denying, starting out on your blogging journey can cost money. At first, I was worried about the amount I spent and whether I would ever get this back. However, if you don’t start, you will never know. You just have to go for it.

After struggling with money myself, this Step by Step Guide to Budgeting eBook is a useful resource for anyone who wants to take control of their finances.

Given my own struggles with money, I set up my second blog about budgeting and making the most out of the money you earn.

Eleanor Jones

If you’re looking to improve your writing, both within your blog posts and social media copy, look no further.

Check out Eleanor’s blog and you will see she clearly knows what she is talking about. Check out her amazing, affordable eBook here.

Final thoughts

I hope you enjoyed reading my post.

Do you use templates or take training courses from fellow bloggers? Let me know in the comments below.

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