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You must check out this self-heating eye mask for relaxation

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Why I’m impressed by sensory retreats self-warming eye mask 

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Okay, I’ve never come across a product like this before and therefore I wasn’t sure what to expect. 

I was excited to be gifted a box of two eye masks to try. Simply because I’m a tired mama and I care immensely about my own wellbeing and the wellbeing of others. No matter what your situation in life, we all need a little self-care. Even if you struggle to find time, it’s important to make time. Recommended for 25 minutes, these masks fit perfectly with short snippets of relaxation.

Each week I do have one child-free day, thanks to my parents. It’s usually filled with cleaning, catching up on my never-ending to-do list. Or food shopping. However, on this occasion, I relished the opportunity to make time for self-care and review this product. Thank you for providing me with some much-needed relaxation sensory retreats

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So what did I think?

Opening the box felt special. As you can see from the packaging, this would make a perfect self-care gift for someone special in your life. I couldn’t wait to try it and indulge in relaxation.

If you’re struggling with what to buy for mother’s Day, this could be the perfect solution. 

The fragrance 

The masks I received had a faint rose smell. It was lovely, but not at all overpowering. Every now and then you got a whiff of it and felt more relaxed. 

The mask itself 

In the past, I’ve only ever used cooling eye masks. Therefore I was a bit apprehensive about the effect heat would have and also how these masks would self-heat. 

The material is so light and breathable and the heat starts gradually, to a relaxing level. Think of an all-day heat pad on your back, but much more relaxing and fragrant.

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The experience 

If you follow me on Instagram, you’ll know I love setting the mood. Following my mental breakdown, it’s important for me to have daily touches, like candles and diffusers. It really does lift my mood and make me feel better. Especially if I have a bad day. 

When trying the masks, I lit candles, put on some yoga music on Spotify. And took the opportunity to do absolutely nothing. With a toddler running around the house, it’s rare to get these moments. And it was absolutely lush. 

Discount code

Sensory Retreats have kindly provided me with a discount code for purchase.

Just use code UTITXAF8EO at the checkout.

You can visit Sensory Retreats to make your purchase.

Final thoughts 

Let me know if you’ve come across these products before?

Are you going to purchase some or treat a special lady in your life, for mother’s Day?

I would love to hear from you in the comments. 


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Two amazing sleeping hacks to ensure you wake up feeling fresh

GUEST POST – I want to say a huge thank you to Scholastica Madundo for this amazing guest post. I hope you enjoy reading.

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It was during Ramadan that my mom showed me a video of a woman making a certain drink that helps with curing the flu.  At that time COVID-19 was at its peak. Natural remedies to cure flu spread across the internet like wildfire. Some seemed safe but some were very questionable. 

The ingredients used by the woman in the video fell in the safe category and my aunt – who sent the video to my mom, medically approved it. She’s a nurse. That seemed like enough validation to me and I said “let’s try it!” 

None of us had the flu but the drink was a very good source of Vitamin C so we went all in.

The next morning, we woke up feeling like we spent the night in a spa. Like our bodies got massaged and pampered in our sleep. The grogginess of waking up early was completely absent and we were very active that day. 

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The results of the natural remedies we tried

It was also during the first wave that I noticed my mom massaging the soles of her feet with oil at night. She’d been doing it for a while. But it was the covid-19 season most of us noticed things that flew right past us. 

It was around the same time I had heart palpitations whose source is unknown. They would not go away and they disrupted my sleep patterns. Sleeping was a struggle.

She told me it’s a trick she usually does to sleep better and I think she used it on us when we were little. She said if you massage the soles of your feet with the oil, dab a tiny amount of it on your lids and massage some of it on the front middle part of your hair, you’ll sleep like an angel.

Given my struggles during that time, I went all-in for that too. 

The next morning, we woke up feeling like we spent the night in a spa. Like our bodies got massaged and pampered in our sleep. The grogginess of waking up early was completely absent and we were very active that day. 

Never looking back

When we traced what changed in our routines, it was the super drink and mini oil treatment before bed. And since then, I’ve used those tricks to make me wake up feeling fresh. The rituals help me:

  • Wake up feeling enthusiastic about my day
  • Gets me active
  • Do more 
  • Boosts my creativity 

To do these sleeping hacks you’ll need the following:

  • Onion Juice
  • Coconut Oil

“But how does Onion Juice make me feel fresh in the morning?” – you ask.

The main ingredients for the Onion Juice are:

  1. Red Onions
  2. Lemon
  3. Honey

Those ingredients all have vitamin C which boosts your immune defence system by supporting many cellular functions of your body’s adaptive immune systems. 

828UrgentCare says – Because Vitamin C is an antioxidant, it can also fight free radicals in the body, thereby decreasing inflammation and boosting immunity. It can keep your skin healthy and enable it to act as a barrier against toxic compounds entering your body. 

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Onion Juice Recipe that wakes you up feeling 10X younger

What you’ll need:

  • 1 Cup of Clean water
  • Half a cup of sliced red onion
  • 2 table spoons of honey
  • Half a lemon or 1 whole lime

STEPS

  1. Pour the water on a cooking pot
  2. Place it on the stove and turn it on
  3. Wait until the water boils (when bubbles start forming) 
  4. Pour in sliced red onions
  5. Let it boil until the onions color disappears
  6. Let the water cool
  7. Once cool, filter the onions from the water
  8. Add 2 table spoons of honey
  9. Add half a lemon or 1 whole lime 
  10. Mix and refrigerate for a couple of minutes if you like
  11. Drink before you sleep. If you really have flu or you want to avoid getting tonsils, drink it without placing it in the fridge
  12. You can store the leftover juice in the fridge. Maximum I’d advice is 24 hours.

COCONUT OIL

How can Coconut Oil make me sleep better?

Coconut oil has got to be the 1 type of oil that does so much. The list of benefits is endless.

  • It contains high amounts of lauric acid which has been linked with more restful sleep – says amerisleep.
  • It energizes your body while you’re asleep – Footprintsoffitness 
  • It gets rid of tension and relaxes your nerves. – Herzindagi 

How to Use Coconut Oil to Get Good Sleep

Massage the soles of your feet with coconut oil

As Herzindagi put it, massaging your whole foot will activate the acupuncture points in your feet. You’re going to sleep peacefully because your blood circulation has increased and your nerves are relaxed.   

How to do it:

Before you sleep:

  • Rub and massage enough coconut oil on the soles of your feet. 
  • And if you’re a fan of socks, wear them to bed. 

It’s going to fasten the oil’s heat-up process so that it can be absorbed quickly and give you its benefits

Apply a tiny amount of coconut oil to your eyelids:

Two years ago, I tried looking for the science behind this but I didn’t find the answer. I only discovered an online forum dated 11 years back that had people from different countries share that they slept and woke up beautifully when they applied coconut oil to their eyelids. Unfortunately, I can’t find the webpage with that discussion but it worked for me and it might work for you too. Give it a try and share your experience in the comments.

How to do it:

Before sleeping –

  • Dab the tiniest amount of coconut oil on your eyelid and spread it so that the whole eyelid gets the coconut oil. 

Emphasis on “tiniest amount” because your eyes will get irritated if coconut oil drips inside them. Even though it’s harmless, you won’t be comfortable for a few seconds. So make sure it’s a very tiny amount. Not a whole drop. 

Once absorbed it will relax your eyes and make you sleep like a baby

Massage your scalp with coconut oil

The effect here is the same as on the feet. 

BONUS: The more you massage your head, the more the blood flow increases which is said to stimulate hair growth. But it’s also good for relaxation and stress relief

How to do it:

  • Pour a few drops of coconut oil on the front middle part of your scalp
  • Using your fingertips, massage the coconut oil gently for a 5-10 seconds

Summary

Those are the 2 ways to improve your sleep and wake up feeling fresh

  • By drinking onion juice before sleeping
  • And by Massaging your feet, scalp and eyelids with coconut oil before getting on bed

Which one are you going to try first? Or are you going to try both immediately? Let’s chat in the comments.

FINAL THOUGHTS FROM ME

I hope you all enjoyed reading this post. I will be trying out these hacks and I welcome anything that gets me waking up feeling fresh.

Will you be trying them? Or do you have any of your own hacks you can share in the comments below?

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My much-needed self maintenance visit to The Massage Company

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When I was contacted by The Massage Company to visit one of their branches and review the experience, I was excited. 

I selected the Sutton Coldfield branch and decided to coincide it with a wonderful family trip away. I’d also won a photo shoot in a competition. This mummy was finally receiving some much needed pamper time, and I couldn’t wait. 

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Upon arrival, the representative I met at reception was warm, friendly and very knowledgeable about the packages they had on offer. She also had extensive knowledge about what someone may need to maintain those aches and pains. Let’s face it, we all have them. These days, I have a lot of them.

My physical needs when booking

Being hunched over a laptop, picking up an almost-three-year-old, and playing with them in awkward positions all day, certainly takes its toll on your body. Not to mention the unexpected strains on the back, such as changing a nappy in the back of a car because a shop has no toilets. Mum life really does physically impact you!

Following my c section, which worsened my pre-existing lower back problems, I needed relaxation and a technique that would alleviate my tension. Therefore I opted for the deep tissue massage. 

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Surroundings

When entering the building it felt a little more clinical than what I’m used to. Which is a good thing. Where I live, the only options for a relaxing massage are hotels with spas or health club chains. To opt for an alternative, you’d have to book a physio appointment. Although I ache, a lot, I wouldn’t ever think I needed physio. My visit to The Massage Company made have made me think twice about that.

What I experienced at The Massage Company was great in-between, and just what I was looking for. Generic rooms, a bright airy feel, friendly staff. In the actual massage room, there was a touch of relaxation. I loved the automatic diffuser (I want to buy one now) and the relaxing music. But the rest of the setup was catered towards a more scientific approach to curing those aches and pains.

A great balance of both clinical knowledge and relaxation was what I experienced and it was great!

A warm welcome and pre-checks

The consultation form was catered for my individual needs. I could select pressure type, where I didn’t want the therapist to touch and what areas of my body to focus on. And the massage therapist was just as lovely as the representative at reception. I was made to feel very welcome, at ease and well within my comfort zone.

Let’s be real, taking all your clothes off and a stranger touching you, is daunting. I remember going for my first massage and fearing the unknown. Therefore, a provider must make its clients feel at ease. I would say this is the main thing I look for when booking with a massage provider again.

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The actual massage

The massage table was the most comfortable I’ve encountered, simply because it was geared towards getting the muscles in the right place, to get the most out of your time there. 

What I love the most about the place are the packages and membership. It’s an amazing idea to find a way to regularly keep up with body maintenance. You can either pay monthly or pay a slightly higher monthly premium to pause your direct debit. 

The lovely representative at reception explained couples often share memberships and visit on alternative months. Upon looking at the booking system after I left, it’s so easy to click on a time slot and the therapist you want to see. I could imagine sitting at work, thinking, oh yeah I have my bi-monthly massage coming up. I could do with it this week, let’s log on to book. How amazing? When we all have such busy lives, this is a great booking system.

Why would someone want physical maintenance for muscles?

Whilst sitting in reception, I was advised it becomes more about body maintenance for clients, rather than fixing the deep aches someone is experiencing. My only gripe is that we don’t have a branch nearer to where we live. My hubby has a physical job and upon ending my recent visit, I booked him a physio appointment straightaway. I realised the benefits this experience gave me and I felt sorry for his sore, tired muscles. Despite going to our local physio, I just know he would get more out of an appointment with The Massage Company. I hope they open a branch further up north. Please?

The Aftermath

Following the massage, I did ache for about a week. However, I think this is down to the fact I haven’t kept up with body maintenance and my aches and pulled muscles were in bad condition. I am now mindful of keeping up to this, to reduce the pressure on my body and ease the stress I carry around with me.

The massage therapist did warn me about particular sore spots and it was all the areas I suffer the most. She also confirmed my muscles were tight and I would be in pain following the treatment.

Summary

For now, if we’re ever in the area again (I plan to be after our wonderful trip!), I will be carving out some time to visit the Sutton Coldfield branch. And going for a cheeky coffee in one of the amazing little coffee shops nearby. 

We must make self-care a priority in our lives and The Massage Company provide a simple, easy and affordable way to do it. 

There are currently five branches, in the following areas:

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That’s all from me today.

I hope you enjoyed reading about my experience with The Massage Company.

Have you heard of them before? Have you visited? Let me know in the comments below. I would love to hear from you.

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The best discounts & deals on the internet for Mother’s Day

What a busy week I’ve had on the blog. But I wanted to bring you all the wonderful deals in time for Mother’s Day purchases.

In this post, you will find a wrap up of all the great deals, discounts and my current giveaway.

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Cashback apps

Remember to use your cash back apps before purchasing

Using these tricks and adjustments in the purchasing process does save you money. And it is worth the few extra minutes it takes to get a discount. The main ones I use are TopCashback and Quidco. Over time these savings add up and allow you to spend the balance on more purchases.

Let’s dive into a round-up of great offers on the blog this week

You must check out this self-heating eye mask for relaxation

In this post, I review a wonderful self-heating eye mask set. Perfect as a gift for someone you love. Or a self-care purchase for yourself.

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Discount code

Sensory Retreats have kindly provided me with a discount code for purchase.

Just use code UTITXAF8EO at the checkout.

You can visit Sensory Retreats to make your purchase.

Check out this fabulous self-care gift by Cotton & Grey

This gift is so cute. Cotton & Grey have recently been shortlisted for an award and the feedback I am receiving on this post suggests everyone else also loves it.

Every time I need a moment to myself lately, I light the little beeswax candle and I am honestly mesmerized by the steady flame.

The perfect gift for a loved one, someone you want to cheer up, or a self-care purchase for yourself.

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Discount code

Cotton & grey have kindly provided a 5% discount code on any purchases

Just use code: mummyconqueringanxiety

Click on the button below to visit the shop:

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Cotton & Grey giveaway

There is also a giveaway for you to win one of these gifts:

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All the details on how to enter are below:

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DETAILS FOR ENTERING:

To enter, you must follow Cotton & Grey on Twitter and also ensure you are following the MummyConqueringAnxiety blog. Bonus points for commenting on this post.

The giveaway will be running from 13 March – to 21st March 2022.

GOOD LUCK!

The reasons I purchase with one trusted brand for gifts & self-care purchases

In this post, I review the latest Mother’s Day offers from one of my favourite brands – The Body Shop.

The Body shop is currently offering the following:

FREE MOTHER’S DAY GIFT WHEN YOU SPEND £30*

Spend £30 and receive a free Mascara Gift Set (worth £15) featuring our Happy Go Lash Mascara and our Camomile Cleansing Butter – so you can nourish and love your lashes!

Use code 13025

Who doesn’t love a gift?? Or a cupboard full of products for self-care.

Check out this handy guide on mothers day gifting

Need a unique and special card for Mother’s Day?

Thortful (sign up using this link & receive 30% off) are a marketplace of unique cards for all occasions. And I am so happy I found this company. Due to my online experience with them, they will be a go-to for ordering occasion cards from now on. My partner has also ordered with them since my initial purchasing experience. Check them out.

Final thoughts

I hope you enjoyed reading about these amazing gifts.

Let me know what you think in the comments below.

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Check out this fabulous self-care gift by Cotton & Grey

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Are you looking for a fabulous self-care gift? Maybe you’re shopping for Easter, Mother’s Day or another occasion? Look no further! I have the perfect gift for those occasions, or if you simply want to send someone close to you some postbox TLC.

Opening the gift

I was so excited when I received the package in the post. The box was small and compact and if I received this as an unexpected gift, I would be so excited to open it and find out what was hiding inside. I love the idea of this gift, simply because it works. On my mental health blog, I talk about how vital self-care was when recovering from my breakdown last year. And how positive thinking does work.

Spoiler alert – discount code & giveaway at the end of this post!

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A little bit about Cotton & Grey

Our Twenty Minute Candles came about when we put together a small box of beeswax candles and handwritten affirmation cards for a close friend who was struggling in lockdown, to help her relax and restore her well-being… and she loved them!

We are now finalists in this year’s Gift of the Year.

Product description

Lose yourself for twenty minutes of restorative time by slowing down and living in the moment with our ‘Twenty Minute Candles’.

Pure beeswax, our candles burn cleanly with a gentle honey aroma aiding relaxation and mindfulness.

Why a gift like this can make a difference

Something as simple as lighting a candle would help me, following my breakdown. I’ve also adopted positive thinking and I am a huge fan of affirmation cards. Because telling ourselves positive things does work. Together with other factors which helped me recover, I now feel like a new person. As such, I place a huge value on items like this and spend some of our weekly budget buying self-care items.

A small gift like this can work wonders for someone struggling or brighten up their day. 

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I know some of you reading this are part of the mental health community on Twitter. A kind, supportive group of people and I constantly see posts about giving gifts to other people in the community. This gift would be perfect to raise someone’s spirits during a difficult time.

Some of you are also busy parents and mummies in desperate need of some TLC. Based on the fact I don’t get much time these days for self-care, I was excited to try these products when my little one was at nursery. A quick, easy solution. To feel relaxed in the small windows of time I get to myself.

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Here’s what happened when I lit the candles

I combined these amazing, cute little candles with another self-care gift. I set the scene, had another read through my affirmations and said them out loud. In my current life situation, I need them. And I will be using them over the next few weeks when I hopefully have some big, exciting changes coming up in my life.

During the candle burning, I felt relaxed and restored.

Discount code

Cotton & grey have kindly provided a 5% discount code on any purchases

Just use code: mummyconqueringanxiety

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Giveaway

There is also a giveaway for you to win one of these gifts:

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All the details on how to enter are below:

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DETAILS FOR ENTERING:

To enter, you must follow Cotton & Grey on Twitter and also ensure you are following the MummyConqueringAnxiety blog. Bonus points for commenting on this post.

The giveaway will be running from 13 March – 21st March 2022.

GOOD LUCK!

Final thoughts

I hope you enjoyed reading about this gift.

Let me know what you think in the comments below – I would love to hear from you.

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